>>24507163Empathy has been replaced with sympathy. Sympathy is treating someone nice because they're just you in different shoes. Empathy is treating someone nice because it's how you'd treat someone that's just you in different shoes.
If someone employing sympathy without empathy finds someone they couldn't ever find themselves being in any life, they become ravenously antagonistic, and understandably so. Empathy wouldn't be a virtue if it were as easy as treating people you already consider part of your "tribe" nicely.
Why things became like this is that the easier of the two can arguably perform as both if you expand your "tribe", explaining the obsession with likening different people, groups and cultures to each other.