>>126720416I'm not puritanical or anti sex in any way, it gets tiresome to me too. It's almost a requirement to by hypersexual and/or sing about almost nothing but men for many years now in the pop sphere. Most people here are too young to remember a time when that wasn't so.
It was mostly men bitching about her being hypersexual before, now it's women too, because it's not about being sexual but /how/ she is being sexual. It makes them think of Diddy dragging that girl by her hair, of the men they dated that wanted to subjugate them and treat them like sex toys, pets etc. It's only empowering when she's in "control". The mans best friend thing is just a mirror to the sexual dynamics that they've learned they actually hate. A lot of those same girls do like it, behind closed doors, with a man they can trust to not treat them like a pet or a slave outside of the bedroom.
This is what little girls are looking at and listening to, and the young women that went through the ramifications of this imagery or are currently experiencing it in their relationships are now freaked the fuck out by it. Kind of like a lot of younger men that look at teen boys and see them following Andrew Tate type shit, coomer shit and pornbrained shit, like Sabrina, and they're pissed about it, because they are in the bad places that they are because they had to navigate through the ramifications of all of that shit as well, and here they all are, 25, single with little prospects, and stuck suckling the manosphere, pornbrained teat for sustenance. Miserable, hateful, don't understand why RL girls aren't as available and malleable as the ones they grew up watching, Katy Perry types, porn stars, female streamers. They sell a perpetual availability that keeps the boys coming back over and over, the girls try to emulate what the girls that the boys are into, but no one gets anywhere. Choice feminism and sex positivity went way too far, too commercial, people are just starting to understand that.