>>507148211Just don't go there. They need your attention which is why they invade your spaces. Just surrender your spaces, not that there's a lot of 3rd places left anyways, just up and leave without explanation. Be with your wife, your family, socialize with close friends only.
But by God, build a gap between those psychos and yourself. They will realize that they are not welcome if you do this enough. Sure they might bask in the fact that they spoilt it for you, but I promise you that no one enjoys ruling over ruins for too long. And the sycophant butchers that enabled them, they despise them the most so not even they will socialize with them.
I know it sounds hard on you and cruel to them, but literally just let them eat the cake. They cannot have it too.