Can someone explain to me why white mothers when not put in absolute check by a man will almost instinctively try and ruin her children by turning them into whores or losers? Don’t say it’s because of the era we live in even Romans knew this fact. It’s unique to white woman. Why?

>>507188106 (OP)
All women are dumb. Hope this helps.

>>507188106 (OP)
>white mothers
All women are jewish
Judaism is female
All jewish men are FtMs

>>507188106 (OP)
>It’s unique to white woman
Asian women love to turn their sons into losers. See Tiger moms.
Blacks very often have weird codependent mild incestual relations with their mom. See P Diddy.
All women need to be controlled lest their neuroticism destroy everything.

>>507188106 (OP)
They don't want their children to be happier or more successful than them

>>507188106 (OP)
>It’s unique to white woman
no its just a woman thing, you trying to claim single black women are any better, hell just look at any res to see how great single native women are at being mothers.

>>507188106 (OP)
Short term, US white women probably look worse than some immigrant women due to absorbing more dumb leftist attitudes and "truths", but like anons say, it's all women. Women don't revise bullshit that is convenient to them. If they assimilated the "fact" while growing up, it's going to sit there until it causes inconvenience to them.

>>507188106 (OP)
IDK I just threaten to kill my bitch mom, that usually gets her to shut up.

>>507188106 (OP)
A perverse and distorted fear of abandonment.
They are both illiterate and emotionally stunted so they see there only option towards maintaining a relationship is if they abuse children. Their not competent enough to actually provide for a child so they simply abuse them and society looks the other way.

>>507188106 (OP)
it's because of (((the era we live in)))

>>507188106 (OP)
bpd moms are literally insane and the emotional whiplash will fuck you up even if you are an eternal emotional rock
t. has a bpd mom
my dad is too much of a pussy/retard to know how to deal with her. i basically treat her like a child and it works reasonably well. it can still be maddening though. she will randomly assume people are out to get her, amongst other literally insane shit.

i say this with complete sincerity: literally run if you find out a woman has bpd. it is never worth it. even if it's a romantic relationship and she's hot as fuck. run, man.

>>507188106 (OP)
Overbearing mother or underinvolved father both lead to deviants with bad nurture.

Mother leaving = father underinvolved because social life is stunted
Mother overinvolved = self explanatory

You essentially need men to live like priests

>>507188106 (OP)
>demoralization thread
>Fear, uncertainty, and doubt (often shortened to FUD) is a disinformation strategy used in sales, marketing, public relations, politics, cults, and propaganda. FUD is generally a strategy to influence perception by disseminating negative and dubious or false information and a manifestation of the appeal to fear. These threads and articles are demoralizing propaganda. Don’t believe the kike lie.

If you don’t have friends or family, go join a church. The people in the church believe that IT’S THEIR JOB AS CHRISTIANS TO MAKE YOU PART OF THE COMMUNITY. They will go out of their way to fit you in. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have strong social skills. Just be honest and they WILL take you in and teach you. At least a good church will, so if you don’t find it at one, then keep trying until you find a good one. It’s God’s plan that you have a good mate and family and be supported by a strong community.

It’s amusing that there’s a fat tranny shill like you being paid 10 cents per post that barely makes enough money to pay for your dilating supplies. But your time here will be over soon when you kill yourself for not being a real woman.

>>507189690
Sons raised by single fathers end up BETTER than kids raised by couples who stay together. So much for being “nurturers” what a joke. nature is cruel to force us to have to deal with these subhuman things.
>>507191370
>go fuck a 70 year old woman

>>507188913
>its da leftist saar
americans are all subhuman mutts and they are predominantly right leaning.

>>507188106 (OP)
Drugs, that’s all there is to it

>>507188106 (OP)
My mother would often praise me, then turn and say I wouldn't amount to anything. She kicked me out when I turned 18. She wanted me back when I was near 30. She has never apologized for her behavior, and I never moved back. I haven't seen her in years. I make more than she has ever in her life. Thanks, dad. Glad you divorced her.

>>507188106 (OP)
White women hate their children and would be happy to kill them if they got away with it

>>507193620
Somehow they have the desire to dominate us and do so by any means necessary.

>>507193199
>american are LE RIGHT LEANING
>the main vector for all the gay NGO shit and routinely threatening countries for not respecting butt sex
show flag, troon

>>507193724
They do? All the fucking time they are even pushing for “post term abortions” Jesus Christ I can’t believe this is all we get.

>>507193794
Birthing a child is a power trip for the insecure.

>>507193794
When the father is forced out they need another male to dump their toxicity on. They dont care if its a child. This however leads to the child having no one to support them because their primary caregiver is their enemy and will set new men on them without a care if they dont submit to the tyranny.

>>507193867
>respecting butt sex
Republicans are all faggots, its okay to be gay if you are a republican!

>>507193987
You would have to be insane and have a death wish to give birth to a child.

Unfortunately evolution and natural selection has insured that all women are insane and have a death wish.

>>507193158
Right

Except in modern times, a single father will invite a shrew in who is even less helpful to the children than the bio mother.

>>507193987
>>507194077
Our mother is so awful. Every time we had a new project or a new idea, she ended up belittling us and portraying us as failures.

Basically, the same thing Steve Jobs did to his employees.

>>507194077
Good thing some laws are against family sabotaging you. Both my single mom and dad’s second wife tried to get me in trouble, and authorities arrested or sectioned them for trying.

>>507188106 (OP)
Think of them as nature's evolutionary solution to overprepared whites overpreparing. Because nobody really knows the exact state of other families, getting randomly knocked up is not rational. So, nature created essentially genetic suicide bombers, BPD hoes, to be crazy and fuck hard and get knocked up even though it is not rational. They die, no big deal. If they succeed, there was unused capacity and the herd gets bigger but quality goes down a bit. Ideally there are enough BPD hoes that a single digit percent of slack is used, but there are actual men present to stop unchecked BPD hoe growth which would end in disaster.

>>507194416
You wont be able to reason with her. Just get away before the Jezebel demon fully manifests.

>>507194416
It sucked at the time, but I moved on. She's just a woman and I am a man. No sense in letting a female keep me down.

>>507194571
>>507194822
Thank you and thank everyone else for this thread.
Clearvision activated.

>>507194968
Be warned. When the Jezebel feels its losing control of one of its pawns it will lash out in terrible ways to keep you stuck in the trauma bond.

>>507195206
Maybe we've even found the solution. We need to keep them down by exposing their miserable lives.

>>507188106 (OP)
They are massive solipsists. Most of them don't even realize what they are doing, because that would require stopping to only think about themselves and consider for a second how their child feels.
My mom would do the same all the time when me and my siblings were still young.
>me or my brothers came back from playing outside
>naturally bring in some blades of grass or whatever because we were children playing outside
>mom would have a meltdown about how she "only just mopped the floor!"
>best case scenario, she just screamed, worst case scenario we got a beating
>would then go on a rant about how she might just kill herself because if we are all disrespecting her work like that we don't care about her anyway
>older brother decided to just always stay away from home as much as possible
>me and my younger brother started to opt for hobbies where we just silently exists in a corner, like reading and video games, to dodge her tantrums
>nowadays she keeps complaining that my older brother never visits, and that me and my younger brother are too withdrawn
>she genuinely does not understand her role in it at all
Mentally damaged all of us just because we caused her a couple minutes of extra work every now and then and she had to take a break from her hours long TV binges.
She could have also just told us to go and pick up the dirt we brought in. But instead, she opted for the slaps, hours long tantrums and emotional manipulation.

>>507195867
Our father was so mad at her that he gave us a ruptured eardrum with a blow to the ears because we came out of the sandbox with dirty pants.

>>507195867
If your post had a finnish flag I'd suspect you of being my older brother lol

>>507188106 (OP)
>waaah my parents were underinvolved
>waaah my aprents were overinvolved
sounds like a spoiled, fickle child bitching to me.

>>507188106 (OP)
The Bible explicit says women cannot teach shit.
We now allowed them to do it, and hence the world is miserable.

>>507194335
yeah the laws are mostly on our side. men are able to divorce rape women too and this happens in practise

>>507194077
Story of my life except my dad stayed whenever my mom acted up and I stood up to her she used my dog as a attack dog and my dad would when she isn’t around tell me to stand up for myself at five. Not going to either of their funerals already missed my dads.

>>507195867
The instant mood swings and childish tantrums are probably the worst part. I truly hate hearing her shrill voice whine yelling about something totally inconsequential. I wish she would just be ok with rotting watching garbage on Netflix because it means I don't have to interact with her, but she's only ok with that for a while before she melts down and I have to tell her exactly what to do next.

>>507188106 (OP)
>Romans knew this fact.
Where do they speak of this?

>>507197019
Good on you. One day you'll be free of that nonsense and you can finally move on.

>>507196190
kek, they really are the exact same all around the world.
she'd also tell us that we need to be more social and invite over friends, but then whenever we did that she'd decide to start screaming at my dad over some stupid shit and our friends would decide to awkwardly leave, at which point we had no desire to invite them again, and they would not have accepted the invitation anyway.
when we told her, she'd just throw another tantrum that it was my dad who started it (it wasn't, it never was, I can't remember a single fight started by him and not by her) but now we're all ganging up on her, "like always", so she might as well kill herself and yadda yadda.
her sister is even worse, her children genuinely do not talk to her at all anymore, she doesn't even know if they are still alive, kek.

>>507188106 (OP)
I dated a white single mother and she was a bpd crazy whore. Her mother was also a single mother whore. I hope her daughter doesn’t turned out like that but I believe toxoplasmosis runs in the family.

I had a BPD mom. She ruined my entire life and to this day in her mid 60's continues to do and refuses to change. I 100% expect her on her death bed to apologize for what she did but not a second before because that would be a good thing and non selfish thing to do. My dad sat at home drinking beer watching sports when he wasn't working so he was complacent letting her fuck over me and my siblings all of us are really fucked up not just me. I ironically would have had a better shot at life if I was a foster kid

>>507188106 (OP)
As someone who had a BPD mother: DO NOT MARRY AND HAVE CHILDREN WITH THEM.

...but usually BPDs seek out weak men who they can bully and demean who do end up marrying and having children(likely not theirs) as there are many desperate men unfortunately.

>>507197317
My BPD mother's case is very mild but still visibly BPD. I had to race home from a friends house because she had threatened to move all my stuff into the garage for visiting a friend without answering her call fast enough as that was tantamount to abandoning the family. Among other things like disagreeing with radical feminism and whatnot.

>>507188106 (OP)
A component of Judaism is woman worship or the feminine side of God, shekina. It bleeds into their culture, which worships women, and that has consequently bled into our culture, starting last century, and it is in everything from law to Hollywood to education to marriage. As with everything in Jew shit, it's an inversion or more often, corruption of the natural order which puts man at the head and woman below, which is both the most natural as well as the most rational, literally. Obviously Jews are not constrained by either. BPD mothers are a far downstream effect of this shit, as is almost all other grievances you have with women born after your great grandmother/probably half of our grandmothers depending on your generation. Exactly 0 Western women outside of the still-virtuous and based Amish, fundamentalist cults, and maybe some mainstream cults like Mormons are exempt from this influence

>>507197538
If you think BPD isn't rampant among Amish and Mormon communities, I have a bridge to sell you.

>>507189191
I think "fear of abandonment" is one of copes BPDs cling to because it doesn't portray them as fundamentally bad. In truth they are relationship psychopaths, aiming for people they want to use and abuse and hurt on the subconscious level.

>>507197649
Fear of boredom overrides any other feeling, it is a feeling that is simultaneously like death and being trapped in existence. Abandonment at least feels like something to them. BPDemons crave feelings and excitement or they will tear down everything just to feel something.

>>507197253
pretty sure the only way out of that spiral is for the girl to somehow end with a good guy very early on in her life and completely cut contact with her own family.
outside of that, it's just self-perpetuating.

>>507188106 (OP)
my mom called me a useless piece of shit and scared my dad away
a mega alcoholic
somebody make a thread about wino evils moms,
i'll be there

>>507191370
Churches can only accept you to the best of their ability. Which is not much. Which is why theyre in church. Because church is a hospital for sinners. Hospitals are where people go to die. Great comparison pastor.

>>507197479
>she had threatened to move all my stuff into the garage for visiting a friend without answering her call fast enough
God I feel that. In my kid friend group my mom memorized the names of every place we went to, comic shops, arcades, pizzerias etc and when we were hanging out I would always get the owner yell out "is anyone named anon your mother is calling" because she had to know where I was at all times and it was embarrassing. When I got my first job she actually tried to call me there every day till I screamed at her to knock it off. To this day a man in his mid 30's if I tell her I have a cold she will text/call me 6 times a day asking me if I am ok and if I miss a single text/call she will call my siblings to check on me thinking I am dead. Every time I call her out on this she emotionally manipulates me by crying and saying "I just care". She just saw a therapist for 6 weeks and is acting like she is cured and is still doing the same emotional manipulation games. Like my dad died 6 years ago and all my siblings don't talk to my mom and I told her you need to stop with the mind games and manipulation and yesterday she sent a group text to us all saying she paid a catholic mass on Sunday to dedicate the mass to my dad and asked who wanted to go and its infuriating that she was trying to use my dad's death to emotionally manipulate my siblings into talking to her.

>>507197649
yeah, it's just the usual shit they do.
every single time they do something bad, they'll twist the situation to make themselves the victim, so they can claim they acted from a position of weakness and it was therefore merely self-defense.
you can see it in all the feminized political movements too, they do the exact same. they could throw concrete bricks onto cars from a bridge, but somehow that was still justified despite being attempted murder of random people because of some bad thing that supposedly happened in the past or whatever.

>>507195867

same and with extreme alcoholism, PTSD causing abuse and hours and hours of screaming and energy-sucking vampirism. evil

>>507197974
kek, I feel you.
she'd always try to present it as
>I was merely worried about your well being!
too
it was just another thing that made me get into video games to cope. because those had the advantage of
>she knew where I was so no public humiliation rituals because I didn't inform her of every change of my position immediately
>she took zero interest in them so just saying "I was playing video games" immediately ended the inquisitorial inquest, whereas any other answer would have led to her asking for very specific details on what I did

>>507197079
saving this thread to my computer so i can remind myself i wasnt alone in experiencing this shit

>>507197079
it's the same shrill voice.
like a mosquito in your brain but also nails pulverizing and inescapable.
sufferment of an evil cunt

>>507198230
>it was just another thing that made me get into video games to cope. because those had the advantage of
I got into gaming too and you know what? Whenever I tell her about any issues I have now, issues she caused and my uninvolved dad by extension she will say "maybe you shouldn't have played games so much" it's like bitch I did it to escape you and she loved when I played game because it meant she knew where I was. It's insane the lack of empathy these BPD mothers have. What are we supposed to do likes he is still alive I am starting to think my only options which I should have done 15 years ago is to cut her off completely. What did you do?

>>507197317
>>507197133
>>507197079
>>507196190
>>507198230

>>507195206
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>>507198254
pretty sure this is just the default experience of almost every boy growing up over the last 3 decades or so.
what makes it even worse is that it was always about such inconsequential shit.
if I had stolen from a store or broken into the swimming pool or something like that, I wouldn't have minded the beatings that much - I would have known I risked this outcome, and just taken it if it happened.
what made it so fucked up was that it could happen over everything.
your new shoes had some dirt streak on the side which you didn't even see? you won't be told to clean them, you'll get the beating.
someone threw a trash bag into the wrong bin? welp, here we go, doesn't even matter if it was you.
merely got a B in your exam? she'll make sure you remember that lesson.
got her a birthday present which she in some fucked up way managed to interpret as an insult? better run

at some point you just stop doing anything, because everything could lead to punishment.
managed to get over it eventually (and now I'm pretty much the exact opposite) but it took a long time and I will never get those years and missed opportunities back.

all over shit that could have been solved with something like
>anon, the trash bag is in the wrong bin, if that was you, please fix it
or by just taking the literally 2 seconds to fix it herself because it was clearly just a mistake.

>>507198664
wanted it to link to a fileplay page, not to opt for save as download.
anyhow that is a segment of hours and hours of things such as that said

>>507198254
I think honestly a lot of boomers didn't want to gave kids but were obligated to due to shaming tactics so a lot of us got the parents who shouldn't have had kids. Nothing else can explain how they treated us. When I was a teen and I grew a stubble and went to my dad and asked him "teach me how to shave" he ignored me and kept watching TV and my older sister got annoyed and taught me based on what her boyfriend did. Why the fuck is someone like this a parent?

>>507198653
>What did you do?
Moved away far enough that visiting her takes a 2 hours ride, so she can't just show up at my place on a whim.
I didn't even have to say anything more than that, it was an instant 180°. She knows that any visit from my side is purely upon my own terms now, and if she pisses me off she will not see me for the rest of the year.
She naturally has very few friends, and like all women no hobbies or interests, so having her children come to visit is very important to her.
My younger brother still lives there and she's still being subjected to all of it because he does not have that option. Currently helping him find a place.

>>507198696
thing is that other people end up gaslighting you or not understanding the trauma that effected you, so they have lives of a family being there that supported them, meanwhile you have trauma instilled in and had to try to be a protector of a mother that was damaging themselves while inflicting their psychosis onto their own kids.
as an experience, the people i tried to network and befriend would always judge me for having experienced what i experienced, but it was at the same time impossible for them to understand.

>>507198696
Was she controlling over your hobbies? My mom would get mad at any music I listened to. All of it was normal stuff people my age listened to but it angered her. "No one listens to this". Or if I dressed myself like every other kid. "No one dresses like this take off those clothes and let me dress you". I swear to god I am a cultural husk because any time I tried to get into something that wasn't gaming "that's bad no one does that stop it". Was it the same for you?

>>507198990
>try to be a protector of a mother that was damaging themselves while inflicting their psychosis onto their own kids.
God I know this feel. This constant tug of war where you have the empathy to love your mother but know the damage she is doing to you and won't listen when you tell her.

>>507198955
>My younger brother still lives there
try to get him the hell out.
I had to move in again after my father died. he divorced and moved states away. i Was going to go and live near him but his death made me have to take care of my grandparents old property which my mother and uncle are destroying, with him being disabled and my nearby living mother being an alcoholic wreck.
much of my previous years have been trying to save their asses since they cant make it on their own but i get no way to live my own life at this point.
she's still an alcoholic monsterous wreck i think drank herself to complete brain damage.
nobody wind up in my position lol.
my uncle fell from a building when he was young so he is lucky to be alive. she gets drunk and calls him a retard and mentally abuses him even. was going to split a small farm with my father but his death threw everything into chaos.
trying to get my car fixed and sayin "fuck it" to spilling any more of my money into going to my uncle and mother barely affording what the grandparents left property wise. because its been hell and torment because of her bipolar drinking abuse.
people mention the "shrilling" and overreacting to absolutely everything.
surviving dealing through that and turning life around is a miracle.

>>507199082
Yeah, same for me. She'd try to control absolutely every action I took, and would punish me if I just did it behind her back.

another thing is people see you're going through torment and know something is "wrong" or off with you, and people have parents that help their kids out. If you have to spend energy on a mentally unstable mother who usurps your energy, its like a child trying to parent an adult.
it doesnt work and its backwards.
people can sense something traumatic is going on in your life, and where i live at least, when they sense that they do not want to help, but find out ways to be a usurper too.

my wondering is the new generation of onlyfans sluts having children and knowing that it probably is even worse than the shit i went through growing up.