>>507309057I fucking HATE clubs. The dancing ettiquette doesn't suit my standards, but as importantly, the music is fucking awful, and pretending it's cool and hip is what makes me want to kill myself over it.
I'm a chad by some measures. Never had a long term relationship, but I can get sex whenever I want it. I am fit, intelligent, etc... all of these measures that make me more competitive in all aspects of life. In any case, the city approach 100% works for me. When I've been comfortable enough to live in a city, such as I have in south america for multiple months at a time, I was geting more pussy than I could handle.
Now, pray tell why this might be a new experience for me? Because:
(a) American city culture sucks balls (aforementioned hip hop, bars, and clubs everywhere, no one is out except partiers on weekends, etc), and
(b) there are tons of homeless and criminals right in our inner cities.
It's not fun or safe to live in an American city, which pushes peoples to the suburbs. What happens then? Chad no longer has frequent encounters with random chicks, thus forcing him to attend the worst humiliation rituals in our dating culture, or become a loner who no longer participates in the world.
The short answer is: live in a city, and your life as a single male will be better. The longer answer is:
1. You can move out after you find someone, but you probably can't move out first and hope to find them later.
2. You might have to consider foreign cities if you are an American, because like I said, American cities suck. Unfortunately, our dirty culture has spread, and most of the world is on some level affected. However, places that aren't so caught up in western/american pop culture are going to have higher quality and more numerous women, regardless of where you live but especially in the cities.
Surbubs are designed to cuck chad. Western city culture is designed to cuck chad. Cities are thus good, but only older/more conservative cities.