>>507845226This is all true, what needs adding is that there is no clear deliniation between boyhood and manhood in western culture. In nearly all pre modern cultures, and many contemporary cultures, there were/are specific rituals carried out to aid the transition to manhood.
For example, the Indo Europeans would banish boys to the frontier, where they would live as wild men, raping, killing, and stealing - learning how to be steppe warriors, and thus men. When they returned, they were given a mans name. Many other examples. Now? What makes a man a man is superfluous, tied to material success or shifting milestones. The book King, Warrior, Magician, Lover explores this deficiency better than I ever could