I wrote to the girl. An old college mate. I asked her if she wanted to have a drink. She said she would love to. Now I don't know what to do, I didn't expect to get this far. To give you an idea, I have not socialized at all for almost 3 years and hardly talk to people (just the basics at work). I've only had one girlfriend and that's because she approached me. The relationship only lasted a year. The girl I've "asked "out is an 8 or more. I'm a 5 and I'm being generous. what do I do now? I don't know whether to take her to a café, because it's so hot in Spain right now. I also don't know what a girl like this can drink. Please help me and be serious, my last option will be reddit if not.
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>>507963931 (OP)
I don't know, anon. I haven't had any action for the past 12 years now. She said yes, so it means yes to you unless she just wants free drinks on you.

>>507963931 (OP)
get some icecream idk

>>507963931 (OP)
>I'm a 5
You are the man - the only adult between the two of you. Never forget that. Women aren't shit. They have no vision, no responsibility, no standards. You have those things. Her leadership will lead not only both of you but also her own children to complete ruin. It is your leadership, your vision, your acumen, your standards that you're proposing she benefit from, adopt, and compliment. God speed anon. If you figure out how to internalize the above, then you're not "just a 5" at all. I hope you realize that.

>>507963931 (OP)
stand her up before she does the same to you

>>507963931 (OP)
>it's so hot in Spain right now
take her out to the pub and have a pint or three, catch up on what you've both been doing then go for a walk.

>>507964402
good advice, if what he said doesn't work

r a p e

>>507963931 (OP)
Just do it at tour house. Find out what she likes to eat and have your chef prepare it. Serve it in your garden, Oh, and have your butler pick her up at her house (make sure he wears his tux). You'll be suprised how much girls loooove this.

>>507964269
t. incel

>>507963931 (OP)
Find a comfortable spot, have a light-hearted good time. Bee yourself. Stay cool. Ask her questions, make her laugh. Keep a confident demeanor. You got this big guy

>>507963931 (OP)
>The girl I've "asked "out is an 8 or more. I'm a 5 and I'm being generous.
Did you do a scientific study? You said "yes" to her and she said "yes" to you. Enough of this jewish numbers bullshit. Have pride in your self.

>>507963931 (OP)
Ask her if she likes kanyes new song

>>507963931 (OP)
Ok, I've always been shit at this. But once I reached out to an old classmate and she told me to visit her. Here's how she did it: she picked me up at the train station and went right for a hug. Hooked herself under and asked stuff abotu how I'm doing then took me to the uni mensa there for a quick lunch. Then showed me around her town stopping for a coffee (where she talked about more personal stuff) then took me to her flat. Then went for a shower and offered me drink/coffe again morioning me to the couch and said I should take my jacket off playfully. That's when I said I want to go home and she should take me back to the station please. So, she wasn't successful but that's how this si done in general.

>>507963931 (OP)
She*was* an 8 but has most likely hit the wall hard, now she's after some chump with beta bux to settle down with
Enjoy the blown out roast beef

You'll probably tumble your spaghetti and get the "oh, I just came here as a friend" treatment though

>>507963931 (OP)
>Please help me and be serious, my last option will be reddit if not.
I don't think everyone should mate but if you're good at something maybe you're worth a shit, so do that. Like miniature golf or wrestling.

>>507963931 (OP)
what if you did not go to college and you from the streets

>>507964655
>expecting anyone to take you, a woman, seriously
Nice try

>>507963931 (OP)

Go on some of the PUA forums from 15 years ago.
Lots of cringe, but focus on the basics and you might prevent yourself from giving her the ick.

>>507964402
Sounds good - maybe a soft drink instead of a pint?

>>507964680
About what? When I don't know what to talk about I talk about very mundane things (the weather, and the like). Or I repeat in a loop the same thing.

>>507964937
We live in the same city. She moved in a few months ago. In fact, she was the one who first wrote me and told me to meet up one day. That's why I decided to write her (2 months later).

>>507965261

No, I'm a lawyer. I'm lawyeranon

>>507964474

sure thing Mohamed

>>507963931 (OP)
why the fuck is this on /pol/?

>>507966257
You are my only friends and the only people I trust.