>>508001240that was not the context of what i stated. what i meant was, i dont know how the fuck nuclear families worked in the past in relation to raising children. the father was gone and it was just the mom. raising a baby is NOT a one person job. its impossible. you MUST cut corners somewhere. even with my parents help right now, my wife is doing stuff the entire time. shes not working right now, and i cant imagine what it would be like if she did.
so no, the nuclear family is NOT designed for raising babies, unless the grandparents live in the same home. its just not possible. at bare minimum you need one other person to be helping.
even the brady bunch had a stay at home maid
if your wife has no help, she will 100% be an alcoholic or on benzos, and your kids will turn out like shit or meh.
theres no reason to subject this on your wife or child. its just not possible.