>>508329885 (OP)The problem in that case isn't alcohol, maybe the catalyst but not the cause.
The problem in that case is that she wasn't into the ltd guy. If she had been into him she would not have kept using okcupid and would not have dated another guy.
even if the slut crisis was resolved these two were clearly not meant for each other.
If you vibe with people you meet you eventually notice it. Without some even ever so slight spark of desire it would not be a healthy relationship.