>>508524328 (OP)Because what the fuck is the point? She isn't a virgin, she wasn't there for me when I was weak, sex and children can be obtained outside marriage and thus the commitment is purely a burden with no upsides etc etc.
Marriage in the modern era is purely performative. It's a LARP. Ceremony devoid of all substance. People are taking vows that they are physically incapable of upholding. Why do this? it's fake as fuck.
>In sickness and in healthWhen the man was "sick" (ie had low social value) the woman was out fucking Chad not giving a shit about him. Now that the woman is "sick" (getting old) the man is expected to dedicate himself to her? This is non-reciprocal and 99% of women are outright lying through their past actions when they agree to this. Why are "conservatives" os obsessed with making people have these fake LARP marriages where nobody means anything they say, where the vows are taken as seriously as a software EULA? If it's not going to be taken seriously then it shouldn't be done at all.