>>508577440 (OP)because of their hypergamy.
if you treat them well, that must mean they are above you, and you are therefore not desirable.
if you treat them poorly, it must mean you are above them, and therefore desirable.
they just project their own behavior onto men. they suck up to people beneath them, and never miss an opportunity to shit on those beneath them.
since their only interest is climbing the social ladder, and their understanding of social behavior is shallow as fuck, that's what you end up with.