>>508584109 (OP)The only part that gets me is the "would everyone be in agreement this is justification for divorce?"
The entire text sounds perfectly reasonable, she was assured by the husband that there was nothing wrong, probably suspected something weird going on and snooped on his laptop. Sure, that's a dick move.
It's the need for everyone else, strangers worst of all, to agree with her that gets me. Why?
Do you walk into the skidrow and ask people if they're in agreement about meth being good?
Why not just make a decision and go with it?
What if all the strangers decide they don't give a shit and decide to pile on her to stay in the relationship? What if they think she should stay but tell her to leave because fuck her that's why?