>>508728893 (OP)Almost all BPDs die by suicide (or drug use so reckless its basically suicide but they can't exactly pull the trigger) so what happens with a BPD mother is 95% of the time she dies young. If she doesn't she gets some kind of handle on it and I suppose she is more like a medicated bipolar mother.
> But lets say she is full BPDThen you'll get a mother who will alternate between fun, angelic and a total joy to be around and one who will say really really horrible things to you (not as likely to be super physically abusive as you think, BPDs mostly talk shit but most of the time they hurt themselves).