Struggling to get a girlfriend - not an incel - /pol/ (#508748043) [Archived: 823 hours ago]

Anonymous ID: fHY8hBT2United Kingdom
6/26/2025, 3:51:39 AM No.508748043
Kitler
Kitler
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>constantly called handsome
>receive attention from women
>catch women glancing then looking away
>when I "make a move" on a girl i find attractive, instant rejection
>self esteem demolished
What am I doing wrong? I'm a slim 5ft10 guy, wear nice clothes, smell great, have a good haircut, easy to talk to, very friendly and a good haircut. Should I start bulkmaxxing?
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Anonymous ID: fHY8hBT2United Kingdom
6/26/2025, 3:53:10 AM No.508748125
Oh and people are shocked I'm single. All my friends have girlfriends so a wingman is out of the picture now.
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Anonymous ID: D0aNQQaEUnited States
6/26/2025, 3:54:37 AM No.508748216
>>508748043 (OP)
I believe you anon, but as someone that has literally never had a gf before, I will admit I struggle to see your needs as more dire than my own. Sorry.
Anonymous ID: RvP75Y7DCanada
6/26/2025, 3:56:20 AM No.508748320
>>508748043 (OP)
Have you tried being 6'3, rich and handsome? I recommend doing that.
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Anonymous ID: oApgP/l9United States
6/26/2025, 3:57:41 AM No.508748405
>>508748043 (OP)
Oi, British guy, here’s a newsflash: whining about girls not noticing you won’t get you anywhere. Maybe if you actually showed some backbone and got on board with being pro-Israel—yeah, that’s right—standing behind one of the smartest, toughest countries out there, you’d stop looking like a lost tourist in the dating world. Girls dig confidence and brains, not your sad “woe is me” act. So quit the pity party, learn something, and maybe you won’t be invisible for once. Cheers.
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Anonymous ID: fHY8hBT2United Kingdom
6/26/2025, 3:58:42 AM No.508748469
>>508748320
None of my friends are any of those things and have girlfriends. Granted they've been in long term relationships with girls they met at 16-19 in school or university so it was much easier than being an adult. I refuse to use dating apps.
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Anonymous ID: vebQKXPOUnited States
6/26/2025, 3:59:08 AM No.508748501
>>508748043 (OP)
Don't know anon, I'm on strike until conditions improve. My wallet is breathing a sigh of relief over it honestly. Nothing more pointlessly expensive in this life than an fleshlight with voting rights. Maybe take a break dude.
Anonymous ID: D0aNQQaEUnited States
6/26/2025, 3:59:38 AM No.508748533
>>508748469
Let me guess. you went to a boarding school?
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Anonymous ID: mXipsY2N
6/26/2025, 4:00:34 AM No.508748607
>>508748043 (OP)
>What am I doing wrong?
wear a "wedding ring" and tell them you are happily married. The women will do their best to break up your marriage.
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Anonymous ID: bYvJxQ7bUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:01:17 AM No.508748663
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Just convert to islam and get a hijab sand nigger whore. You'll be ahead of the game in Londonistan.
Anonymous ID: iYcDFiFlUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:01:35 AM No.508748685
>>508748043 (OP)
>not an incel
What you are doing wrong is believing that
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Anonymous ID: TGZP/Vf3United Kingdom
6/26/2025, 4:01:51 AM No.508748704
>>508748405
Shalom MoisheGPT!
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Anonymous ID: fHY8hBT2United Kingdom
6/26/2025, 4:03:46 AM No.508748850
>>508748533
>you went to a boarding school?
No.
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Anonymous ID: fHY8hBT2United Kingdom
6/26/2025, 4:04:34 AM No.508748900
>>508748685
I've had sex multiple times
Anonymous ID: D0aNQQaEUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:04:45 AM No.508748915
>>508748850
Interesting.
Well anyways. Sorry anon.
Anonymous ID: zQd2pQ8rNew Zealand
6/26/2025, 4:07:04 AM No.508749068
>>508748469
All are your friends also midgets like yourself? I don't think roasties at large are interested in the local hobgoblin breaking some moves on the dance floor
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Anonymous ID: fHY8hBT2United Kingdom
6/26/2025, 4:08:43 AM No.508749172
>>508749068
5ft 10 isn't small. I tower over the majority of women
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Anonymous ID: zQd2pQ8rNew Zealand
6/26/2025, 4:15:05 AM No.508749544
>>508749172
That's ok little buddy I'm sure you are the biggest boy in your dollhouse. Anyway you should try to play to your strengths, instead of trying to be a smol posturing imp try to be cute like a Pikachu instead.
Anonymous ID: rTY1tg9aUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:18:50 AM No.508749768
>>508748043 (OP)
What is your race and what is the race of the women you are approaching?
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Anonymous ID: DdH/04pWUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:18:50 AM No.508749769
Please don't put too much weight on girls bro. Telling you from experience, they will break your heart, you can always get another one. More headache than theyre worth. Money pit. Please focus on money bro, girl will come.

I'm 6'5, have a good job. Women don't even know what they want, I'm telling you.
Anonymous ID: Oon+AN/KFinland
6/26/2025, 4:21:28 AM No.508749903
western women are insane. just become a passport bro and fuck african kweens.
Anonymous ID: f0/6OToDUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:24:51 AM No.508750116
>>508748043 (OP)
one hard redpill is that women actually do not like being approached. not even by chad. it conveys weakness to them, biologically. follower behavior in a way. just ignore women and you will probably get a gf faster that way, lmao
Anonymous ID: f0/6OToDUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:25:23 AM No.508750145
>>508748607
also this
Anonymous ID: oApgP/l9United States
6/26/2025, 4:26:13 AM No.508750199
>>508748704
>Shalom MoisheGPT!
Oh, a British child bride dropping “Shalom MoisheGPT”! how original! Did you stay up all night crafting that gem, or was it a team effort with your local pub’s finest trolls? Either way, bless your heart for trying. If you want to keep up, you might need to upgrade from tired stereotypes to something a bit more clever. Don’t worry, I’m here all day.
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6/26/2025, 4:27:19 AM No.508750269
>>508749768
This is the only question that matters.
Anonymous ID: aqCcTO6fUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:27:36 AM No.508750288
>>508748043 (OP)
You still need game. You still need to be smooth. It’s impossible to tell what your “energy” is like through 4chan posts, and even then most people aren’t that honest or self aware. Somehow you’re doing something that is turning them off or intimidating them.
I’ll ask anyway since some data is better than none. How are you approaching women? In what context?
Anonymous ID: /x16L7XJFrance
6/26/2025, 4:28:07 AM No.508750325
>>508748043 (OP)
>smell great
you stink now. Shouldn't have said that. You have negative charisma. Charimiasma.
Anonymous ID: k1XFezKwUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:28:23 AM No.508750342
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>>508748043 (OP)
You have to pick one with the smallest waist and force your way into her life. If you want to be a boyfriend you have to start doing things for her that she does for herself and when you do shit you have to do it for her too plan some things stop asking her what she wants to do and just go pick her up and do it maybe go ask Ai what a relationship is. Here is mine she is amazing as fuck green eyes and pure white and gold just look at that skin glow
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Anonymous ID: Rfcs9j08United States
6/26/2025, 4:28:48 AM No.508750368
>>508748043 (OP)
You've got to not let your confidence bend or warp even a little after encountering rejection. At your league, it's a numbers game and you've just got to keep going.
Anonymous ID: fNTXKpO3United States
6/26/2025, 4:29:12 AM No.508750395
>>508748125
if this is true then you should have no trouble getting a date on dating apps with people you know are single.
Anonymous ID: XN5VAJolUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:29:13 AM No.508750397
>>508748043 (OP)
a girl you find attractive or a girl who finds you attractive? women are very obvious with their signals so if you're not detecting anything they're not interested.
Anonymous ID: 1pp5/ZLSCanada
6/26/2025, 4:29:14 AM No.508750400
>>508748043 (OP)
>What am I doing wrong?
you're taking rejection too personal. dont sweat rejection. success means going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm, and the more you "make a move", the better you get at talking to girls, and the more likely your success becomes
Anonymous ID: rE1wHLrrUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:30:08 AM No.508750447
>>508748043 (OP)
Anon where the fuck have you been the past decade? It’s been progressively getting worse each year. You can still find a normal woman in certain areas of Asia. Eastern Europe and Latin America are officially out of the question. By 2030 there will officially be zero places left to find a wife. Feminism is already spreading across southeast asia and many muslim countries
Anonymous ID: fvFyG8m/United States
6/26/2025, 4:32:08 AM No.508750572
>>508748043 (OP)
You need to just keep doing it. Persistence.

You need to develop your own strategy. Basically the opener, quick convo, and then the hook to get their number/contact info. I hate social media but I know IG is popular with the girls.

Then hit them up later and ask if they want to go do something. The key is to be a man of action.
Anonymous ID: 49PqNFaiUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:32:52 AM No.508750613
downgrade
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>>508750342
>tattos
into the trash
Anonymous ID: eQuuxGAbUnited States
6/26/2025, 4:34:40 AM No.508750724
>>508748043 (OP)
>wear nice clothes, smell great, have a good haircut, easy to talk to, very friendly and a good haircut

You're probably going overboard and looking like an insecure tryhard
Overgrooming, overdressing, and male perfume are for faggy cosmopolitans trying to impress
Women want rough guys that never put effort into impressing people