>>508893121 (OP)dating is modernity garbage. it's in the name: "date-ing". having "a date" set aside to pursue a possible love interest instead of relationships and family being at the center of your life from which all other things spawn. it is YOUR JOB that you do FOR YOUR BOSS that's at the center of your life and all other things you need to 'make time for' in relation to that job. you don't do your job because of family, you do your job first, continuously, possibly forever all by yourself, and all family and love is something for your own free time. so yes everybody who plays this game is guaranteed cattle for elites. it is so common you didn't even notice.