>>509006197 (OP)yes, I enjoyed a lot it but the rabbit hole is deeper than your simple analysis.
those people have voice coaches, those people have physical and posture therapy, those people sunbath their balls, dick and asshole, those people enjoy real coffee and real food.
can you meta motivate your need towards aesthetics, well, how incomplete your life would be, maybe a man with a real simplistic job could perhaps spend his time with a balanced life and acquire fashion but can he?
for what you want this?
they don't have any real power but they have resources that transmit this competence because of the amount of help they have.
it is un-achievable by the real order of disposition of resources being that they first have the resources than they do a task and get more resources and that leads to confidence.
you, you don't have resources, you'll have to chase resources and after that you'll have to use your time and energy to do tasks that those people are paid to do.
those people are paid to look good, you will waste your resources to look good and that attribution does the trick in your mind of a successful person because you believe first they did something to achieve that but in reality they achieved that because they received something.
once you pass the appearance of the world you will get to really shady people pulling the strings, a fucking beaten down person knows how to create puppets but, someone pays for those people and the true investors, those you'll never know.
If I could guess, the real investors looks effortlessly like our leaders due to a unknown up brining.
what would you think would be the psychological development of a pre-adolescent kid fucking the top models on an private island? do you think that getting something as desired as that would improve his life due to the amount of mental room or do you think that this would have a negative effect?
the more you get the more you achieve, needing something is the default of existence.
