>>509078946unless you're top 15% genetic potential, you don't have to waste away. They
WILL
NOT
approach you... they are biologically incapable unless you're so attractive the first thing they do when meeting you is a leg-wrap around your torso.
You can even get the sense that they would really like you to talk to them, but they cannot initiate unless you're a truchad.
So no need to rot anon, you give them too much agency.