>>509210626>>Your desires and satisfaction means less to mewhat it really boils down to.
relationships mean sacrifices. 90% of the time, what your partner asks you to do is not something you would have done on your own time.
you just do it anyway to keep them happy, and so that they return the favor some other time, when it's you asking for something they aren't all that ecstatic about.
but modern women don't know how to do that anymore. they just demand that everything caters to them 100% of the time and when something is ever so slightly not her preference, it is instantly abusive behavior.
my sister is about to graduate and switch from student janny to full time job at her employer, and every single time I talk to her she's bitching hardcore that she has to negotiate her wage and doesn't know what to aim for.
you can tell her to calculate her expenses, add some extra and then start 20% above that to have some negotiation room, but she doesn't want to do that.
you can tell her to talk to a colleague of hers she gets along with well and ask them for a rough estimate on what would be realistic to ask for, and she doesn't want to do that, either.
instead, she's whining that the system is broken and they should just pay her the max salary they are willing to fork over without her having to ask for it.
when you remind her that it's her who wants a high wage so it will be her who has to put the effort into it, you just get some
>ugh, of course you'd say that, you already have that step behind you after all!and all her friends are like that, too, about everything.
fucking intolerable.