For a long time I felt that cold approach was my only option for getting dates. I got some dates. But I'm starting to really hate cold approach. I'm down to zero options now. I guess I just have to accept being alone for the rest of my life. Fuck women and fuck this gay society.

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>low-inhib enough to cold approach
>has worked previously
>giving up
anon you're like 50 steps ahead of the average man, unless you're old as fuck what are you complaining about?

You have to be Chad, I heard the average Swede looks like pic. Is this true?

>>509293210
It's not worth the price, every time I get into it it sends me into a dark space mentally, whenever I don't care about women for an extended time it brightens my mind. It's not like women come to me when I ignore them though. But it's not worth it. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.

>>509293359
Consider fucking a man on your level. Unironically.

Stop hitting on my woman, told you I will put an axe in your head next time. Live in your country. Dont like my country? BTFO or I will go to your country and fuck YOUR daughters (only the very few hot ones) /Sven

>>509291947 (OP)
Even ugly pinoy dudes can get dates just be funny

>>509293210
>unless you're old as fuck
Also I think this is bullshit. I saw an old guy approaching a young girl and she was positive. I posted about it and someone said what are you complaining about, all girls care about it is charisma etc. I know I'm not talking to one person when posting but a lot of times it feels that way, and the apparent hypocrisy is annoying.

They say you're supposed to get desensitized to rejection but I've done hundreds of approaches and I don't think it really has that effect.

>>509293210
It is the fact its Sweden, Nordic women suck.

>>509293445
Because women in their country need providers and have social expectations. In Sweden women don't.

>>509294008
If you date in Sweden you are bound to end up with a hag, they don't believe in age difference relationships

>>509291947 (OP)

Most women are Jews or support Jews, if they're not going out of their way then they're probably not worth a damn thing Anon

But to each their own

(((Liberals and / or "Neo Con Trad" )))

If modern women have modern advantages then to not want to approach and help out Good men is very Jewish and very selfish

Yesterday I saw a girl approaching and hitting on a guy. Pissed me off. Women never do that to me. Shortly after I approached a girl. She didn't look at me and didn't say a word back. Totally ignored me. It's fucking unfair. They say you can't just wait for women to come to you, but then they say you should focus on yourself yada yada. It's just an impossible equation. Fuck it all.

>>509295277
If you want any success regularly you will need to leave Sweden

>>509295277
>Yesterday I saw a girl approaching and hitting on a guy. Pissed me off. Women never do that to me. Shortly after I approached a girl.

>>509291947 (OP)
can you give tips on how to approach cute wagie girls? like store clerks, waitresses etc.?

>>509295443
what makes you think I approach swedish women dumbass

>>509295457
what?

>>509295623
no, I've never approached such girls and never will

>>509296104
>and never will
is there a specific reason for that?

I get approached by roasties all the time and everytime I turn them down, to me it is more fun rejecting them than fucking them.

>>509296219
They often act nice just as part of their job, so it's hard to tell if they like you or not. If you fail you might not want to go to that place again. I think one girl I had a date with from daygame maybe said she met her boyfriend when she was working as a waitress though, not sure. Also talked to one guy who had a date with a waitress. Generally seems bad though. If it's a girl who's showing over the top interest then I'd ask for a date, otherwise not.

>>509291947 (OP)
Cold approaching is fun. Other dating ways are boring as fuck and anoying.
Online dating is boring as fuck plus you give all information to jews.
Dating over friends is boring soap opera drama bulshit.
Sadly I live in a country where girls would ditch greek good bilionare for long term beta orbiter her sister and obese friend like.
But there are always foreighn tourists and more social countries.

>>509296441
>Cold approaching is fun.
fuck off normie

>>509296256
I do this. I have to stop doing it to be honest. It's an extreme rush to turn them down but eventually they are going to stop doing it and i'll be a lonely fucker.

>>509296485
>braging about being autistic
Every great man in history was a "normie" according to you autistic freaks so its not even an insult. Its like an orc calling you human.

>>509296723
kys lowlife trash

>>509296256
>>509296682
either larping or normies, either way fuck off

This is bullshit. I mean you might get dates from it, I have, but you're not going to develop that attitude of not being fazed from doing it.

https://youtu.be/N7FVmeJXwCY

>>509296791
Dont worry you are not alone in your autism. Trust me if sweden is a problem any other country would be hell for you.

>>509296921
I said nothing about autism. I just said you're a fucking soulless retard. kys

>>509296819
just be tall and dress good, its literally that easy.

>>509296901
Maybe you would know if you actually tried it.

>>509296973
learn to read, oh I forgot your IQ is too low

>>509296965
>talking to poeple is souless
Yea just shove your dick in a hole in a wall and get sucked off by a tranny thats wholesome.

>>509296965
You said nothing but its clearly visible autism is the problem here.

>>509297088
you think cold approach is fun, you're a fucking dumb fucking soulless piece of shit, kill yourself

>>509293359
>I don't care about women for an extended time it brightens my mind
Talk to them without caring.
You can only control your own emotions

I fucked up a very nice FWB situation by sperging out and throwing a tantrum like a fucking retard.

dont be like me

>>509297027
I read fine and I spot when someone is larping.
>but you're not going to develop that attitude of not being fazed from doing it.
This is a lie. Like someone saying I fight poeple every day and then fist doesnt hurt if you punch someone in a head.

>>509297258
didn't read, filtered

>>509297159
Ok please tell me which method is more fun.
>Having arranged marrige like a jeet
We can arange that for you

>>509297311
Filtered from life by autism.kek

>>509297185
>I fucked up a very nice FWB situation by sperging out and throwing a tantrum like a fucking retard.

This sounds interesting. How the fuck did you get to that point?
>Sex tonight ?
>No I have nails bla bla tomorow maybe.
>Tantrum Waaaaaaa You stupid whore how dare you Im gonna dieee pepe hurts waaaaaa

jus rape em

>>509291947 (OP)
Wtf? It's easy to meet girls. Just go out with your male friends and use that friendship circle of everyone to meet girls at parties and gatherings. If you don't have any guy friends then just get some hobbies where you can make some. Honestly meeting girls is really easy. You literally just need friends who have friends that have friends and then organise shit to do

>>509298129
>You literally just need friends who have friends that have friends and then organise shit to do
This sounds like going trough complex layers of bureaucracy to achieve something simple. It reminds menof goverment solutions to problems. Instead of just going hi whats your name wanna go to coffe you now have to tolerate bunch of dudes and bunch of women and some of them like 10% want to cockblock you sabotage you or just dont like you. Plus the girl can still not like you.

>>509298129
fuck off

>>509293259
average swede is a nigger, just like average german and brit
their government sold their countries to mudslimes
sad but true

>give up on dating apps
>tell friends ill just die alone or meet someone at a party or a social event
>meet a nice girl at a party
>hit it off and we both go deep real quick
>she gets drunk and tells me she doesnt know how she could be so lucky to meet me
>literally a week later she says we need to talk and breaks up with me
SSRI taking, modern women are tiresome. I just want a normal stable woman.

>>509295623
Wait by their car. Wagies either tend to drive home, or sleep in them.

>>509291947 (OP)
just start raping bro

>>509297515
Its hard to talk about.
She said she just wanted fuxx0r from beginning.
I made up some retarded oneitis shit in my mind.
After 4 months she told me she is on dating apps now (mind you I have been kissing and fucking other girls too)
I throw a tantrum
it sucks because it was a genuine good friendship.
I dont even want an excklusive relationship.
Yet I behaved like a kid when she reminded me dont have one.
I threw a tantrum not even 2 hours after being given a blowjob in the woods by her.

Dont be like me

>>Tantrum Waaaaaaa You stupid whore how dare you Im gonna dieee pepe hurts waaaaaa
p much

Dont be like the reatrded anons here and like me. Know what you actually want and dont be pissed when the outside world doesnt cater to your every insecurity.

>>509291947 (OP)
Same here. We were simply born at the wrong time

>>509301778
I mean maybe you can apologise and say you were insecure retard? Maybe she will understand.

But yea at least you know what you want now. Many poeple dont even think about it.

>>509302999
>I mean maybe you can apologise and say you were insecure retard?
Yes. I will let it rest for 2-3 weeks now - I understand her wish for distance after this absolute juveline tantrum.

And yes, I want to tell her how much I could grow as a person from this, and to thank her for it. And to apologize for making her feel this way.

Imagine smugly telling someone "well then I wont share my feelings with you anymore" and then crying about them wanting to go no contact.

>But yea at least you know what you want now
It was painful. I just wish I could give her some of the joy she gave me back.

Anyway, checked, thanks for your input.
You may now tend to my horse.

>>509291947 (OP)
Kek the degen faggotry itt.
>how can I get a date
>lul dates are easy

why don't you practically niggers just pay for whores already, I mean what's the difference to you, you're already just wanting to get up in some very stupid thot that isn't going to do anything but let you get your nuts off a few times in her birth control flooded snatch, go coom up into a barren grandma same thing.
As said just go buy a whore, why not. Time difference between that and what you're doing now is what, under a month worth of "relationship" maybe? Why do that if you're so hard up for just another low value hole to coom into?
I don't get the draw of all this effort and game applied, just to be another guy on the list of who these roasts get dicked down by. Monk mode, partner material, or shut up here's some money lemme coom I say. All else waste of time.

>>509303363
It can be fun, especially if you get some success. Like idk fishing or hunting, you could just buy fish/meat, but it can be fun to catch it, if you dont totally suck at it. Then it gets depressing.

>>509303363
because its more fun when they also want to.

>>509303335
You fell for a whore. Big mistake. Whores are not relationship material. They belong to the streets

>>509303625
>>509303637
>fun
yeah great fun, I really like lying to low value people that I don't respect anyway, so I can... waste my time I guess, and feel somehow alpha or some shit that I banged a thot again. Nothing validates like as I said, getting into some soulless vapid mental child that also chemically renders herself as infertile as a skin and bones 70 year old woman.
Makes me horny just thinking about it.
Like a dog's asshole or a man's poz pocket, or even a troon's pus gash. Mmm but nothing is more arousing than pill popping Emma, niggerfucker Sophia or single mom Marie.
Do you but that isn't fun for me, these thots aren't worth it.

>>509291947 (OP)
You had plenty of women throw themselves at you, but you think you're just too good for a literal deer.

>>509291947 (OP)
Hey I was looking for you again. I was talking to some younger guys who do what you do with cold approaches and they all said cashiers were always a no-go since even if they go with you they all leave eventually since they see all kinds of men in their lines to compare you to all day long. I think there may be something to that. Why not try a library or a park? Don't let the bitches get to you man. I did hear that Sweden was the Saudi Arabia of feminism and America was Sweden-light in that regard. I just found the cashier thing interesting.

>>509304239
>Whores are not relationship material
That is correct, and she even said she isnt.
And I dont even WANT a serious relationship with her. The thought of brings me panic.

So I had to really, really evaluate why I threw a tantrum. Really go into my own insecurities and quite frankly, I hit a painful jackpot.

Thats kind of my message here. I wonder how many man curse the world for not being like they wish it would be to cater to their insecurities.
Thats all.
>>509304842
>really like lying to
where the lying, i dont get it.

I think going to one of the Baltic countries might be better since there are almost no niggers there. Thoughts?

>>509304842
>Mmm but nothing is more arousing than pill popping Emma, niggerfucker Sophia or single mom Marie
I dunno man if I meet a person to have sex with I have sex with their bodies not their life choices.
You are free to commit or not commit emotionally and financially as much as you want.
Btw, single mom marie can be an absolute fantastic fuck
>cock starved
>VILL make you breakfast
>VILL focus her entire feminine energy on you
>VILL not have time for drama (literally)
Its not liek im buying her a house or playing daddy for little Shaqueefa