Is it possible to get rid of a fetish? - /pol/ (#509296675) [Archived: 574 hours ago]

Anonymous ID: vT4gtTRpNew Zealand
7/2/2025, 12:33:51 PM No.509296675
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Nowadays many men get addicted to porn and develop deviant fetishes: furries, trannys, lolis etc... Is there a cure?
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Anonymous ID: jd/YQe8v
7/2/2025, 12:34:33 PM No.509296710
Goon harder
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Anonymous ID: BddrKR7MUnited States
7/2/2025, 12:34:36 PM No.509296713
>>509296675 (OP)
I think most men like that are gay.
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7/2/2025, 12:35:17 PM No.509296737
>>509296675 (OP)
Yes it's made of lead
Anonymous ID: NtoMm5x3
7/2/2025, 12:35:49 PM No.509296761
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>>509296710
red mommy will take care of you sweety
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Anonymous ID: T9MImHkFUnited States
7/2/2025, 12:36:00 PM No.509296768
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>>509296675 (OP)
Live innawoods
Anonymous ID: xN1ab4Ql
7/2/2025, 12:36:52 PM No.509296805
>>509296675 (OP)
Stop watching porn and just use your imagination.
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Anonymous ID: 89lwfP+f
7/2/2025, 12:46:41 PM No.509297260
>>509296675 (OP)
Loli is not a deviant fetish dumbass don't put it next to trannys and furries
Anonymous ID: 9tsHoC7kUnited States
7/2/2025, 12:48:16 PM No.509297320
>>509296761
GIWTWM
Anonymous ID: is01cRuWPoland
7/2/2025, 12:48:43 PM No.509297347
RemovingTheParasites
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>>509296675 (OP)
Christianity
Anonymous ID: 3WhGBWHkUnited States
7/2/2025, 12:50:57 PM No.509297454
>>509296713
Porn turns many men gay. /pol/ is too brown/stupid to grasp this concept, so it will never enter the board milieu.
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Anonymous ID: q7GxqnTeUnited States
7/2/2025, 12:54:46 PM No.509297625
>>509296675 (OP)
Yes, it's possible. But you won't do it because it requires you to get off the porn sites and out of the house and away from your comforting decadent escapist lifestyle. Men didn't have ridiculous fetishes in the past because they had to face the harsh realities of the world and didn't have the time or convenience of lounging around bored in a room with a computer full of degenerate jew porn and a femcentric culture that let their mommies raise them and fill their head with garbage ideas
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Anonymous ID: wCdZC/XCUnited States
7/2/2025, 12:57:22 PM No.509297746
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Yeah I need to stop gooning. Problem is i haven't gooned enough to get tired of it and i went and got married to a Christian woman. She isnt as sexually curious. Porn has ruined my life.
Anonymous ID: AaCEapHGUnited Kingdom
7/2/2025, 1:00:01 PM No.509297864
>>509296675 (OP)
I thought if i fapped to other stuff i would wire my mind to that other stuff. Didn't work.

What i DID find work was manipulating my diet, kiwi fruit, organic stuff, all good. No meat
Anonymous ID: DYnnomRJUnited States
7/2/2025, 1:00:58 PM No.509297894
>>509296675 (OP)
>>509296805
>>509297625
It's like any addiction, once you engrave those strong neural pathways they're pretty much with you for life, the best you can hope for is to just stop feeding the monkey, but even then you still may get occasional temptations. Sex fetishes are even harder to kick than drugs because they're tied into your fundamental human sex impulse
Anonymous ID: WG+VAajUFrance
7/2/2025, 1:02:26 PM No.509297979
>>509297454
We stated many times that porn, tranime and child abuse turn people gay.
Anonymous ID: h0IaNhreUnited States
7/2/2025, 1:48:19 PM No.509300084
>>509296675 (OP)
pro tip
lust is in your head
not your heart

work on mind control
Anonymous ID: QZ2EQwuBIreland
7/2/2025, 1:49:32 PM No.509300139
>>509296675 (OP)
Humans are naturally perverts. The difference between low and high IQ is the ability to control your impules
Anonymous ID: cP08oMnTUnited States
7/2/2025, 1:51:54 PM No.509300245
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>>509296675 (OP)
Anonymous ID: u+kf3ZxtUnited States
7/2/2025, 1:52:07 PM No.509300254
Lolicaust
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>>509296675 (OP)
More lolis?
Anonymous ID: 8bfBDgI8France
7/2/2025, 1:53:17 PM No.509300314
Gotta fucking pegging fetish
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Anonymous ID: 4DvTTIn6Sweden
7/2/2025, 1:55:18 PM No.509300410
>>509296675 (OP)
Abstention, occupying yourself with other things, surround yourself with people, tell a priest, manifest you will to change in any way you can. It's possible if you really want it. And you didn't quit if you couldn't make it past a month, you took a pause and caved.
Anonymous ID: nqi9SmZQAustria
7/2/2025, 1:56:21 PM No.509300455
>>509296675 (OP)
Try pavloving yourself.
Make yourself vomit every time u see them
Also stop watching porn
Anonymous ID: wk6JDtN0
7/2/2025, 1:59:15 PM No.509300592
>>509300314
same
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Anonymous ID: 1mLmza7vFinland
7/2/2025, 2:00:03 PM No.509300630
>>509296675 (OP)
>Is there a cure?

Yes. Literally become a lumberjack.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FshU58nI0Ts
Anonymous ID: fHDqKN1/United States
7/2/2025, 2:01:21 PM No.509300695
>>509296675 (OP)
Just stop jerking off and indulging it. It's literally that simple. Hold off for a while and eventually you'll just naturally lose interest. Keep doing it and you'll keep finding increasingly perverse ways to get off. Many fetishes feed into their own perversion, and grow out of an ever-mounting desire for sexual novelty.
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Anonymous ID: IfUmXa3/Germany
7/2/2025, 2:01:27 PM No.509300702
A friend told me that completing no nut november made his feet fetish and other deviancies subside very heavily and that just seeing tits was arousing to him. Make of it what you will.
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Anonymous ID: 1mLmza7vFinland
7/2/2025, 2:04:39 PM No.509300826
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>>509300702
>Pre-nut-delusion all week, post-nut-clarity once every sunday.
Anonymous ID: MVB9Ef/HUnited States
7/2/2025, 2:06:19 PM No.509300910
>>509296675 (OP)
Yes. A wife and continuous sexual activity with her
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Anonymous ID: 1mLmza7vFinland
7/2/2025, 2:12:21 PM No.509301208
>>509300910
I grew up watching Al Bundy.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yth9lqGeG-Q
Anonymous ID: M82BUAdXUnited States
7/2/2025, 2:14:21 PM No.509301307
>>509300695
ill try this one
Anonymous ID: MVB9Ef/HUnited States
7/2/2025, 2:18:27 PM No.509301543
The general form of this solution has always been to give every man a wife. When thatโ€™s not possible you set them up in a war party and tell them they can rape the other tribeโ€™s women. Otherwise, wifeless men are doing perverted shit like jerking off to your daughterโ€™s feet in broad daylight.
Anonymous ID: kD+0DULFUnited States
7/2/2025, 2:18:46 PM No.509301555
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>>509300314
>>509300592
>t get pegging fetish from porn
>Eventually switch to fully clothed femdom girls talking to camera
>Find cute azn waifu
>She finds my porn
>She's into it
>She's really into it and orgasms while pegging
>Starts to initiate sex by tying me up
>Now wife
>Stopped watching porn entirely when we're together
>This isn't gonna get better is it /b/ros
Anonymous ID: ESKBgvo9Canada
7/2/2025, 2:30:42 PM No.509302218
>>509296675 (OP)
take a break from porn for a week
its like a drug, you develop a tolerance for it

just like smoking weed every day or drinking every day you build up a tolerance and need more weed or alcohol to get high or drunk.

that first joint after a weeks break hits harder. same with porn. you won't need whatever weird porn you had to get off before and normal porn will do.

i tend to do this naturally every few months i just get bored with porn for a while and rather then look up some really weird shit ill regret i just allow myself to lose interest for a while.

also switch it up. jerk off to pictures sometimes not always video. asians one week, bib boob blondes the next week, africans for a couple days, etc.
Anonymous ID: 5L2pWoy7United States
7/2/2025, 2:34:34 PM No.509302443
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>>509296675 (OP)
Yes. Deconstruct it. Find your motivation for it with excruciating specificity. As, "why" mercilessly until the motivation and the thing itself becomes utterly & completely meaningless, ridiculous, cringe, and repulsive. Be absolutely honest with yourself and about yourself.
Find a good catholic book on sin and confession from before Vatican II. Read it. Even if you are not Catholic get to understand what sin is and where disordered desire comes from.
Go to confession repeatedly.
Fast & pray.
Abstention is necessary but not sufficient until it is deconstructed in the mind. And, as Aquinas said complete abstention is easier than perfect moderation.
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Anonymous ID: vT4gtTRpNew Zealand
7/2/2025, 2:48:16 PM No.509303275
>>509302443
What if I've blasphemed the Holy Spirit during my fedora phase? I regret it deeply
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Anonymous ID: 7g5XYXLJUnited States
7/2/2025, 2:53:56 PM No.509303642
>>509300702
Did No-Fap for 2 years, I was a mental wreck prior to it and was still after. The real opium is video games, I actively hate and see no value in them, but I compulsively play. Even when I had a porn addiction I wasn't fetishistic, the worst I would do is edging. Fetishistic behavior seems to be parallel to restricted interests, things like autism are a symptom of being overly domesticated and requiring everything to be legible and predictable. There's no world where you get a person to give up contingency and embrace a purely stochastic model, the appeal of gambling is to simulate risk the appeal of BDSM is to exaggerate the loss of control. BDSM tends to appeal to rich people while gambling appeals to poor, rich people are expected to control every aspect of their lives while poor people are expected to control none. The essence of fetishism is privation.
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Anonymous ID: 5L2pWoy7United States
7/2/2025, 2:54:10 PM No.509303660
>>509303275
You did not. Final unrepentance is the only unforgiveable sin (acc. Catholic theology). That question is your mind deflecting you from the inquiry and repentance. It's a trick. Ignore.
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Anonymous ID: Inoed0QtAustralia
7/2/2025, 2:56:51 PM No.509303800
>>509296675 (OP)
get a gf.
get her sex fetish.
get her impregnation fetish
cured. happy
Anonymous ID: vT4gtTRpNew Zealand
7/2/2025, 2:57:28 PM No.509303830
>>509303660
Thank you Anon. I need to find why I'm so addicted to mommy porn
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Anonymous ID: 5L2pWoy7United States
7/2/2025, 3:10:33 PM No.509304621
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>>509303830
Only you can answer that for yourself. Find that motivation. Deconstruct the desire.
Often the allure of a sin is the transgression itself. But, why? Good books to read, regardless of your religiosity, is St. Seraphim of Sarov. Also, read Carlos Castaneda books; esp. on the process of "recapitulation." (Book: The Eagle's Gift").
In American Indian medicine practices generally, I think they also call this ruthless process of self-inquiry into motivations, "facing (i.e., cleaning) your dark mirrors." The warrior path par excellence because nothing requires more courage, and nothing builds more courage.
PsychologyAnon ID: GNF01nQ+Netherlands
7/2/2025, 3:18:26 PM No.509305040
>>509296675 (OP)
Its pretty hard because youre inherently pavlovian conditioning yourself with the seretonin release and if done often or for long periods of time they kind of become part of the default sexuality network. You would first have to abstain from sexuality for a long period of time but if its too embedded in the psyche then external triggers will feed the fetish. Take feet for example even if you abstain just being around a beach would reinforce the fetish. A fetish is either learned by porn and constant need for more release or its caused by internal trauma (an affair leading to cuckolding complex for example or inferiourity complex or harsh smothering mother). In such a case it can do you good to understand the source or compensation that the fetish provides, if you can find a healthier way to obtain this need you can integrate it. This is all pretty hard to do, you could try aversion therapy to punish yourself everytime you think about the fetish or act on it, but if youre a maschochist this again will only further enforce the fetish. I hope i answered adequattely
Anonymous ID: IfUmXa3/Germany
7/2/2025, 3:18:38 PM No.509305054
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>>509303642
>The real opium is video games, I actively hate and see no value in them, but I compulsively play
I'll tell you a secret. You are waiting for some inspiration or passion that will have you every bit as entrapped as video games, but in a good, healthy, productive way. That's not really likely to happen, and if it was going to it almost certainly would have by now. You're not going to become a piano autist in your twenties all of a sudden. You're not going to swap one obsession out with another. You need to build healthy sustainable habits and you need to start from zero, and you need to accept the inevitable boredom as a good thing that makes you look for things to do rather than something that makes you compelled to scroll or click your life away. The satisfaction of doing what is right (eudaimonia) rather than the pleasure of doing what feels good (hedone). Start small and build up. Read a page on one day and two on the next, do ten squats one day and twenty the next, do journaling rather than shitposting on 4chan. If you have any brain cells you can use and any willpower to summon, you'll figure out the rest. If you don't, no amount of further explaining will help. And don't let setbacks discourage you. It's not failures, it's unsuccessful attempts, and you only need to get it right once and you're set. (The reason I'm here right now is because I'm on vacation, ain't no way in hell I'm gonna pass all that time productively)