Anonymous
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7/4/2025, 11:41:54 PM No.509524420
I thought women didn't need men anymore and men were seen as "outdated" in the modern world? What chaned their minds?
>Iโm 54. Iโve been dating since the mid-80s, been married, been a mother, gotten divorced, had many relationships long and short. I remember when part of heterosexual male culture involved showing up with a woman to signal something โ status, success, desirability. Women were once signifiers of value, even to other men. It wasnโt always healthy, but it meant that men had to show up and put in some effort.
>That dynamic has quietly collapsed. We have moved into an era where many men no longer seek women to impress other men or to connect across difference. They perform elsewhere. Alone. Theyโve filtered us out.
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/20/style/modern-love-men-where-have-you-gone-please-come-back.html?unlocked_article_code=1.Q08.k8Ks.zJ-o47ewehha
>Iโm 54. Iโve been dating since the mid-80s, been married, been a mother, gotten divorced, had many relationships long and short. I remember when part of heterosexual male culture involved showing up with a woman to signal something โ status, success, desirability. Women were once signifiers of value, even to other men. It wasnโt always healthy, but it meant that men had to show up and put in some effort.
>That dynamic has quietly collapsed. We have moved into an era where many men no longer seek women to impress other men or to connect across difference. They perform elsewhere. Alone. Theyโve filtered us out.
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/20/style/modern-love-men-where-have-you-gone-please-come-back.html?unlocked_article_code=1.Q08.k8Ks.zJ-o47ewehha
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