>>509820632 (OP)Wife signed us up for marriage counseling.
I didn't think there was anything wrong with our marriage, but why not. Most of our friends and neighbors thought we were the perfect couple.
So we go and meet with this therapist. She sets up weekly appointments for us.
This first session both of us, then a session with my wife, then a session with me, then both...
The first session was mostly just intro. The individual sessions would let us discuss our complaints. The following week wife goes to her session, comes home happy. Girl power, she just knew the therapist would take her side of an argument and it would be great.
Next week I go to my session. It got awkward quick, the therapist is sitting right next to me, blouse half unbuttoned, reaches over and puts her hand on my inner thigh and starts moving it up. I walked out.
Wife had some insecurities. I thought about what to say before going home. I knew I couldn't tell her what had happened, even though nothing happened. So I said, we don't need therapy where we take turns talking to someone else, why throw money away on therapy can't we just talk to each other. I reminded her how she had written me letters when we were dating, she would say what was bothering her, and while I didn't write back, i would always address her concerns in person. She had gotten out of that habit when we moved in together, most of her letters had been her fears about me and other women, and I assumed that ended when we married. Other complaints she had were trivial. She agreed to write her complaints, rather than having a verbal confrontation. She's adorable.
Backing up... when she had her session with the therapist she had said things like "he wants sex all the time. This is what prompted the recently divorced marriage counselor to make her move thinking that my wife and I weren't compatible, and should split up.
As I said at the beginning, going to therapy was a whim she had, we really didn't have problems.