There are people who think it's fun to cold approach. You have to be a complete fucking normie to think it's fun. Sure it's fun when the girl has a positive response. But most don't. And talking to them is less enjoyable than pulling your fingernails out. Imagine saying something to a girl and she totally ignores you, or gives you a disgusted look and an annoyed tone, and thinking this is a fun thing to experience. You have to be a complete fucking NPC for that.

https://youtu.be/N7FVmeJXwCY

I love the cope that faggots will post instead of admitting that they're scared lazy niggers

>>509998292 (OP)
I only approach Stacies, which is rare because I rarely see any.

>>509998292 (OP)
Only if you're ugly like me. Also adv is that way

>>509998292 (OP)
>eww you don't work here
>get away from my feet

>>509998622
Nah fuck you, you're projecting, I've approached hundreds of girls, I still think it's worse than pulling your fingernails out. You're a complete fucking boomer if you think this is the way things should be.

>>509998622
How many girls have you approached?

>>509998711
No, everybody gets rejected retard.

I approched women before
I got completly ignored
And one word answers then they keep walking

the '''''secret'''' to getting girls is having something mildly interesting that you're passionate about and doing it, going places and doing it with other people who are passionate about it and girls just gravitate to shit that men are passionate about. Trying to pick up a girl outright is the most bizarre concept that will lead to a short relationship built on lust, the end of the joke boomhauer laughs and says 'love?' because that's the joke - the cold approach is all about just getting laid

>>509999167
How many did you approach? I stopped approaching walking women, it's very low success rate. But maybe I should try it again because most women I see that I find attractive are walking, and I had some success. I think if you approach walking women they at least have to be walking very slowly, and best is if they're walking aimlessly and stopping from time to time. Walking a little faster, forget it. Many women will walk briskly just to repel guys too, and you have to find women who are open to meeting a guy, those girls don't do such things.

>>509999424
Nah fuck off normie NPC, this thread is about cold approach, take your friends and your hobbies and stick them up your ass boomer.

>>509999789
are you sure the thread wasn't just to demoralize and slide real political threads you disingenuous golem

>>509999877
Nah fuck off. Good for you if you have things you're passionate about, and you have friends. People who don't have that can go out and talk to a girl today. That's the topic. There are people who haven't had friends or hobbies in 10+ years, it's not like you can just get that in a week or two. So fuck off boomer, don't talk about stuff you know nothing about.

>>510000149
>only boomers have hobbies or can self improve
yeah golem demoralization thread confirmed, good luck next one

>>510000349
you didn't self improve jack shit, you never had any problems to begin with

>>509998292 (OP)
tried a couple of times and it was awkward as hell

>>509998292 (OP)
I've always been too shy to do it and it's not worth it anyway because I have no social media or social life even. That's a huge red flag to women

>>509998292 (OP)
Learn to flirt with your eyes. This skill can only be practiced in person.

>>510000509
Most people on this board have tried either zero times or at most a handful of times. That's too little to say you have any experience of it. Come back and have an opinion when you've done it at least 30 times.

>>510000632
in fact it worked for me once, now that i think about it.
approach a mid tier bitch in a park, pretend i am doing a pool (the thing were you ask people question to conduct a study) about some shit i invented. after 5 minutes i ask her telephone and ask to do something, she agreed.

its doable but its a waste of time and you endanger yourself with randoms that can harm you now that i think about it

>>510000607
I've gotten many dates from cold approach, they almost never care about social media or social life. Many care about your job though.
Also:
>I have done it zero times, and here's why it's bad to do it
yeah don't talk about things you know nothing about

>>510000632
why would i do that???
when it fails its awkward first but then you get used to it and its just a chore, not worth it just to coom,

>>510000809
How do you know if you haven't done it retard?

>>510000616
Just eye contact in general will get the attention of anyone... the honest truth is, if you can keep eye contact and have rhe ability to carry a conversation, and ask the right questions you cab cold approach anyone. It's really not that hard.

I often have to break eye contact with a lot of women because I feel I'm coming on too strong.

>>509998292 (OP)
You have to be a complete fucking NPC to think cold approach is the way to meet women. You can get the occasional hookup but only absolute trash with low self esteem can be picked up that way.
But hey trash begets trash, if you're trash yourself go hang with other trash. Wastes fewer peoples time.

>>510000910
idk how is sweden but here you endanger yourself retard.
people that preach this stuff are grifters and you fell for it

>>510000760
I don't think impersonating someone conducting a poll really counts, but at least you did something
>>510000788
I didn't say it's bad to do it, I think the opposite if you're confident and have indicators of interest from the woman. I meant in my case it's not worth it, because once they get to know me they'll realise I'm basically asocial, I don't think having a good job makes up for that

>>510001118
This is bullshit. I've had dates with good women. I've seen good women approach guys rarely. I've seen guys approach good women and get a positive response. However, even when you get dates, a vast majority of women will just flat out ignore you or show how disgusted and annoyed they are, women who are nice and then reject you nicely are very rare, it's like in women's mind the only way to reject someone is to show them how disgusted you are at their existence, and it's not a fun experience, but cold approach means you have to deliberately put yourself through that again and again and again. And it's not that women think there is something deeply wrong with the concept of cold approach itself, they are very nice and happy to the guy if it's their type of guy and it's the right moment. That will be you, but only in a minority of cases.

>>510001152
fuck off shill

>>509998292 (OP)
Bro the guys who find it fun are guys who get positive responses. If you're not getting positive responses and polite rejections then you're fucking ugly. Total simp death.

>>510001458
what do you win by spamming this shit here?
are you promoting your e bro master?
are you trying to feel better inventing your "conquests" here?
for real go to a subreddit made for this shit

>>509999060
Let's just say, I'm probably your father

>>510001159
>I didn't say it's bad to do it, I think the opposite if you're confident and have indicators of interest from the woman. I meant in my case it's not worth it, because once they get to know me they'll realise I'm basically asocial, I don't think having a good job makes up for that
Yeah you said it's bad for you fuckface. You're not supposed to care about indicators of interest, most women I got dates with had not given indicators of interest. If the girl gives clear indicators of disinterest is something else. Again, you're talking about what it's like for you even though you've never even tried it fucking retard shut the fuck up. Again, they don't fucking care about your social life, good job makes up for anything with most women, you don't know shit.

>>510001472
This is bullshit demoralization shit from some fucking neckbeard who has done zero approaches.

>>510001053
>Just eye contact in general
This also for the reason that if someone is walking around, lost in their own thoughts, they probably won't react well to being interrupted. People who are looking around, smile and acknowledge others as they pass, are way more likely to respond in a nice way, even if your approach fails.

>>510001675
>they don't fucking care about your social life
They do though, it's a status thing. My ex mentioned that when we first started dating she found it odd she couldn't find me on social media. Another girl I got set up with asked me why I didn't have social media on a date. Maybe if I was a millionaire it wouldn't matter but I'm not

>>509998292 (OP)
I asked out around a dozen chicks through my teens and 20s and almost every one was a negative experience, with a couple being very very negative

>>510000149
Log off faggot you're not getting laid anyway

>>510001427
>That will be you
No that won't be me, I'm married to a 110 pound catgirl.

>>509998292 (OP)
That method works because you have to go through a lot of women to find one that actually fancies you. Most of them have a retarded criteria of what they like but eventually you might fit someone's bill. Men are much easier to please, it should be our choice not women's.

>>510002089
That's not cold approach you fucking retard. I'm talking about cold approach, the thread is about cold approach. There are women who are willing to go on a date with a guy they meet in a park or at a cafe, these women don't give a shit if you have hobbies, or friends, or facebook etc. You have done zero cold approaches and yet you speak about how cold approach works, shut the fuck up.

>>509998292 (OP)
I don't have feelings. Their reactions don't really matter either way. At least I don't blend into the background of everyone else's live like the fucking NPCs you all are. Nobody who passed you in a day even registered your existence

>>510002347
Then fuck off, I clearly meant a guy who is approaching.

>>510002357
Yes it works but it's not fun, that's the topic.

>>510002360
>the thread is about cold approach
Yeah. Why you shouldn't is still on topic.

>>510002357
It is though, that's what autists don't understand she gives you approach signals and then you choose to approach or not.

>>510002481
He's basing his opinion on dates which weren't cold approach fuckface.

>>510002360
Go back to my first reply, retard. I'm talking about once you get past the cold approach and the date. Do you live in Malmo by chance? I don't think you're actually Swedish

>>509998622
FPBP

>>510002360
What, you worried we'll hit the post limit before we exhaust the subject matter?

>>510002555
You said you've done zero cold approaches so fuck off.

>>510002480
Going to work is not fun but it results in money. Your point? Men have to fucking work. I only got gfs when I treated dating apps like a job, which is essentially an online cold approach but you don't have to sit through their negative reaction.

>>510002555
Kek when I was in Copenhagen they told me I should take the train to malmo... Apparently the grenade attacks are the 8th wonder of MigrantEurope.

>>510002595
Keep doing your cold approaches, New Swede. Hopefully one will eventually turn into a relationship for you

>>510002634
>dating apps are like cold approach
fuck off

>>509998292 (OP)
Simping for women is the issue. If men would just say "fuck it" and not give two shits about whether a woman likes you or not, it would be a lot easier. Women aren't a necessity for happiness. They are just icing on the cake. Look at it that way. Needy ass beta males make difficult for everyone.

>>510002714
keeping talking about stuff you know nothing about retard

>>509998622
There is a difference from being scared, and being a fucking low IQ simp. Women are to be treated like shit by default until they are worthy.

>>510002839
So, do you keep doing cold approaches to keep a tally going or do you have an end goal in mind? Or are you one of those cringe PUAs?

>>509998292 (OP)
Cold approach to tell them you dont want to fuck them.

Works every time, 10% of the time.

>>509998292 (OP)
You have to look at this almost like economics. Let me give you an example. Apple producst are cheap made pieces of shit, but they are marketed as these "high end" products. You have to market yourself in the same way. Women have low IQs. They are not intelligent. All you have to do is market yourself as a better male than the rest. Be picky, and be extremely selective. Market yourself as a high value alpha male who could get anyone if he wanted to. Don't simp so easily. When you do that, you decrease your value. Women are very materialistic.

>>509998292 (OP)
>acts rude or totally ignores you
That's when you shove them to the ground. Women like it when you take control.

>anon tried himself once and now he hates women: the thread

You will immediately see if she's up for it on her face as you approach. Keep it casual and don't care. -Don't- go into it thinking
>I will either find out what her pussy smells like or be forever doomed to inceldom. Here it goes!
Ask her an open question (not gonna spoonfeed you) and you'll see immediately if she shuts you down or wants to keep it going.
If she answers short like some military officer, smile and say alright.
If she answers with a question/smiles/answers nice keep it natural and flowing. You just wanna make friends at first.


I spilled the spaghetti over 100 times before perfectioning my game and now I basically can't fail. You tried once and made this stupid thread lmao

>>509998292 (OP)
yeah some people are just douchebags
some people think it’s fun to make shitty threads on a Chinese cartoon image board
you can’t explain it

>>510003108
Women are narcissistic. I like ignoring the shit out of them just so that they lose their fucking minds. It's pretty hilarious. Sending a message of "you aren't much" to someone who thinks they are everything is a very good strategy.

>>510003266
It is, and if it's a woman you're around a lot it'll drive them fucking nuts.

>>510003097
>market yourself
In other words being a lying sociopath faggot who manipulates people into having sex with you in the most gay and female way possible

Yeah im thinking "men" like that should be publicly tortured to death

>>509999424
>just be passionate about something that women do
Every answer about how to get women in the current year boils down to taking steroids or being a fucking faggot

>>509998292 (OP)
make it fun, adjust your package while maintaining eye contact and like your lips while playing with your own nipples

>>510004951
*lick

>>509998292 (OP)
I've never seen anyone say it's fun, what are you talking about?
You go through it in the hopes of having sex, which is the "fun".

>>509998292 (OP)
How human mating works:
Female shows basic indicators of interest.
Male approaches

Its that fucking simple.
Its called cold approach, but dont be a retard about it.

Just do it. What is she goin to do ? Eat you ? Steal your birthday? Just be courteous, tactful, etc. Practice in the mirror at home alone. Don't do any dry runs. Rehearse what you might say to various things.

>>510003266
>>510003097
This is how you net trailertrash meth whores with crusty hair and dirty feet
>>510003762
This is how you show everyone that you yourself knows you're trash and report it to everyone around you with negativity and unfound sense of entitlement.
>only faggots get girls, I'm the only non-faggot so I'm doomed to masturbate to weird shit. I hope some 10/10 breaks into my shithouse and gives me a blowjob because I deserve it, dammit!

What if I just talk to anyone? Men, women, young, old. Most people who actually chit chat back are old people and I can tell it usually makes their day. I used to have alot of women think I was trying to flirt with them just because I was being chatty. In a wprld whwre everyones so scared to just talk, I stood out because I have no spcial boundries and will just say whats on my mind. I used to be a sales associate so I spent my whole day chattin and shootin the breeze. People like to feel like they matter.

>>510005395
That sounds based I can't pull it off though. I admire you for being able to randomly carelessly chat with random people

>>510000632
Most normies don't have to try hard, it literally "just happens" as they say. If you have to approach dozens or hundreds of women before you even get a single number, you're a loser with much bigger problems.
Almost every guy I know who was or is in a successful LTR with a decent woman got to know her through his social circle. Only two got to know their current girlfriends through online dating and it didn't took them more than one or two matches (and two or three dates) to secure the girl for a relationship. If you have to try hard you're doing somethig wrong.

>>509999424
>the '''''secret'''' to getting girls is having something mildly interesting that you're passionate about and doing it
Women couldn't care less about your hobbies as long as you're not making money from it (or social capital, aka being a pseudo celebrity like a hobby DJ for example).

>>510006028
Miserable cope. I had €15 to my name and had good times with rich girls while not being shit.
Obviously they weren't going to have a relationship with me and take me home to daddy, but the point stands.

>>510005146
>What is she goin to do ?
She'll tell every woman she knows about the encounter, regardless if it was good, bad or neutral. Good luck with your reputation.

>>509998292 (OP)
I remember cold approaching about 100 women at the beach when I was in my early 30s over a period of weeks...

I got one yes...a bipolar feminist GirlBoss that was completely unhinged...that was the last women I ever dated...I Went my Own Way soon after in my late 30s.

I was a decent looking guy, fit etc...but the complete cold-faced disdain I received over and over from Women in SoCal for not being 6 foot chad was stunning.

40m in my pod now.

Many Such cases...

>>510005864
This thread is about cold approach. My success rate last year was one date per 8.5 approaches and that's good for cold approach. Fuck off.

>>510006186
I'm talking about getting into a LTR, not about one night stands.

>>510006304
ok gatekeeper

>1 POST BY ID
>Obvious Jew Bait thread

https://4chan.org/faq#sage
https://4chan.org/faq#report

>>510006513
I just switched from phone to laptop.

>>509999026
Holy loser alert
>Waaaa she said meanie thing waaaa
Man up loser. You deal with it just like you deal with other negative responses. Bevome above it. Become better. Leave haters in the dust. Analyze your own behavior and try to learn something.

>>510007294
fuck off boomer, you haven't done many cold approaches

>>509998292 (OP)
Only worked in the 80s and 90s. Still had to be around 6.

Nowadays u got be a chad. Only fame and money and few other things can override small size and anti chad looks.

>>509998292 (OP)
Literally the opposite. The thrill is in not knowing if your going to spend the next year banging the shit out of her or witness an hilarious response from her.

Pickup is the MOST based and redpilled activity because the micro-trauma gradually cultivated an unbreakable will that stays with you forever. It is literally the funnest thing in the entire world

>>509998292 (OP)
But making women feel uncomfortable is the whole point I'm even doing it, actually getting laid is just gravy.

>>510006284
Anyway I've had times where I did maybe almost 100 approaches without a single date, other times I got one date and then the next approach was a date too. I would normally recommend to keep trying but I'm thinking of quitting myself, the juice isn't worth the squeeze, cold approach just sends me into a dark space, it's better to forget women, take a walk in the forest, enjoy the birds.

>>510007822
Women are very safe everywhere, they're never uncomfortable, just signalling that they don't want anything to do with you.

>>510007944
Doesn't matter, the fact that I decide she's in my league is a great ego killer.

>>510007361
I’ve done thousands and it’s always fun. Maybe because I’m good looking and me and my friends love to laugh and joke about each other whenever a girl reacts like a psycho. But clearly you take their reactions personally, these girls have problems that are outside your control, they’re either in a good mood or a bad mood, they either like you or they don’t and it’s up to you to walk up and find out.

That’s what Game is: Finding out if she likes you and how to move it forward when she does.

>>509998292 (OP)
Nice being me
188 cm blue eyed human
Cope subhuman brown manlets

>>510007861
Search “John Anthony lifestyle” on YouTube. Do not waste your Time with all the others, yes many of the others are good despite what John claims but he is blatantly better and his advice is spot on.

I see this exact thread all the time. Is this a psyop? or just an autistic person?

>>510008148
You're a harassing poojeet and everyone hates your guts and karma will get you in the end sarrrrrrr

>>510008148
>normie
didn't read, fuck off