Thread 510079509 - /pol/ [Archived: 452 hours ago]

Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 11:31:11 AM No.510079509
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>wife gets angry at me because i changed plans (not going to restaurant a week after her birthday)
>i go back to work, ignoring her complaining because i know where its going
>she starts stomping around the house
>slamming doors
>plugs out the internet router and hides it in the cupboard
>i go to ask whats going on with the net because i need to do my remote job bs
>find her sitting on the floor sulking while on her phone
>tell her to stop being a baby
>she says i should listen to her
>fast forward few mins later
>shes in bed
>suddenly gets up, leaves bedroom and slams door shut really fucking loud

Can some armchair psychologist diagnose what's wrong with her and what i can do so this shit stops? I feel like i have to treat her like a womanchild to fix this shit.
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Anonymous ID: S0VUW1VvSwitzerland
7/11/2025, 11:33:25 AM No.510079595
>>510079509 (OP)
don't live with your wife, faggot
live in a separate house
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Anonymous ID: qIiwjEFWUnited States
7/11/2025, 11:34:35 AM No.510079641
>>510079509 (OP)
>wife
This is an incel board. Can’t relate.
Anonymous !niqjediPCAID: nMrtfOjPUnited States
7/11/2025, 11:34:48 AM No.510079652
>>510079509 (OP)
Imagine giving a toddler superpowers.
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Anonymous ID: q6Ydc39zUnited States
7/11/2025, 11:35:38 AM No.510079679
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New INCEL thread just dropped!
Anonymous ID: 1nUP3LSLNetherlands
7/11/2025, 11:35:46 AM No.510079685
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>>510079509 (OP)
>feel like i have to treat her like a womanchild to fix this shit
Women are children. Feminists who say we are equal are full of shit, and any man who's worked under a female manager knows this. Men are the ones with the emotional intelligence, and the weight of the world is on men's shoulders. It's unfair because she has all this power from the courts and public opinion on her side, but you bear the actual responsibility
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Anonymous ID: EtyM5PQZGermany
7/11/2025, 11:35:53 AM No.510079692
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your womans clearly hysterical, time to put her in the time out dungeon.
DO NOT TRY TO UNDERSTAND your wife, shes irrational and it only costs more time and attention to "figure out" whats wrong with her. In reality its just woman problems, and those dont need "woman solutions" they need "men solutions"
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Anonymous ID: qb7EhdchGermany
7/11/2025, 11:36:06 AM No.510079699
>>510079509 (OP)
Normal asian woman behavior.
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Anonymous ID: mg7vgS1bAustralia
7/11/2025, 11:36:52 AM No.510079737
>>510079509 (OP)
Say, "I'm sorry", can I give you a hug. Give her a hug. Say, I really want to have the conversation, but can't right now. Let's have the conversation at 5pm. Or something like that. I don't know, she sounds BPD. Usually, you can't do anything about BPD, you just need to leave. Maybe talk to a lawyer when you get a chance and sort out the details.
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Anonymous ID: EVe3wWjsUnited States
7/11/2025, 11:37:38 AM No.510079757
>>510079509 (OP)
>Can some armchair psychologist diagnose what's wrong with her

its a woman. nothing to diagnose.

The best advice is this. If she is someone you actually care for, then you have to ignore the emotional tidal waves women go through.

Let it wash over you. If the day never comes when she apologizes for getting crazy, then you can take that as an indicator she will never improve and you must leave.
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Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 11:37:46 AM No.510079760
>>510079595
What kind of retarded advice is that

>>510079692
>time out dungeon

Anytime she goes AWOL i just stop talking to her for a day and then shes back to normal but this shit is fucking driving me up the wall. I need a diagnosis so i can cut it out
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Anonymous ID: 4CZNK7/Q
7/11/2025, 11:38:03 AM No.510079770
>>510079509 (OP)
You should treat woman like a child. Yes.
Anonymous ID: yqOdCFDBUnited States
7/11/2025, 11:38:16 AM No.510079776
>>510079509 (OP)
Tell that bitch if she wants you to listen she need to quit acting like you can read minds and just say wtf the matter is with her. And all the stomping around is toddler esque smack a ho once or twice and see if she wants to stomp around again.
Anonymous ID: IvY/rGXhSerbia
7/11/2025, 11:38:40 AM No.510079798
>>510079509 (OP)
>wife

Damn, godspeed, anon.
Anonymous ID: +3lag9knBulgaria
7/11/2025, 11:39:05 AM No.510079816
>>510079509 (OP)
She needs a child, other than that give her rough sex and treat her like a literal child and she won’t get hysterical like that. But she needs a child otherwise she will get more depressed and unhinged
Anonymous ID: ArLC+wvKUnited States
7/11/2025, 11:39:31 AM No.510079825
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>>510079509 (OP)
Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 11:39:47 AM No.510079838
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>>510079737
>Say, "I'm sorry", can I give you a hug. Give her a hug. Say, I really want to have the conversation, but can't right now. Let's have the conversation at 5pm. Or something like that.

This sounds like something a woman would like so ill do this another time.

I think she's BPD because she goes from 0 to 100 fast over the most lame or childish shit.Sometimes i wonder if her parents spoiled her so when im not able to give her what she wants when she wants it she goes crazy
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Anonymous ID: dNe7Y+Wh
7/11/2025, 11:40:09 AM No.510079854
>>510079509 (OP)
Idk, sounds like she has a you problem.
Anonymous ID: IvY/rGXhSerbia
7/11/2025, 11:40:22 AM No.510079860
If you haven't already, look up cluster B disorders.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personality_disorder#Cluster_B_(dramatic,_emotional,_or_erratic_disorders)

Regrettably, the only cure is to run, Forrest, run.
Anonymous ID: p47yKvIZNorway
7/11/2025, 11:40:26 AM No.510079864
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Anonymous ID: qVygTXXjNetherlands
7/11/2025, 11:40:50 AM No.510079880
>>510079509 (OP)
>what's wrong with her
It's you. You are what's wrong.
Women are like very large children. You need to constantly coddle them or else they get upset.
You somehow getting married without realizing this is very confusing to me.
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Anonymous ID: nWdi0paKJapan
7/11/2025, 11:41:15 AM No.510079904
>>510079509 (OP)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VuofaDxa6Oo
Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 11:41:28 AM No.510079912
>>510079757
Thanks will do this. An apology comes after each retarded outburst so far
Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 11:42:27 AM No.510079952
>>510079880
I didn't know you have to literally coddle them like children or else they go haywire. Im going to start a new tactic of doing this and report back in a month
Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 11:43:35 AM No.510079999
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>>510079699
Anonymous ID: p47yKvIZNorway
7/11/2025, 11:44:07 AM No.510080022
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Anonymous ID: EtyM5PQZGermany
7/11/2025, 11:45:57 AM No.510080083
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>>510079760
>I need a diagnosis
male doctors are just as peefed about retarded women, this is why diagnosis like fibromyalgia or Somatoform pain disorder.
you could whip up some gpt text that sez "so and so tea can cure it" buy the tea and then secretly put CBD oil in it to pacify her. Women need to be tricked into taking their medicine just like kids. God i fucking hate maintenance heavy women
Anonymous ID: NCQ3+dWVNorway
7/11/2025, 11:47:21 AM No.510080143
>>510079509 (OP)
Seems you diagnosed the issue in the first sentence:
>wife gets angry at me because i changed plans (not going to restaurant a week after her birthday)

Now she's a big babby because of this because you made her feel like she's not important.
The way to rectify it would be to make it up to her by going to a restaurant to assure her that actually she is important.
However if you do this now you reward the big babby tantrum behavior.
You could try to do something like
"You know I was planning this big thing to make it up to you because you're important to me and I wanted to do something nice together but you've been acting out so much it's really making me not want to."
This way you make it clear that the behavior is unacceptable and she's been sabotaging herself.
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Anonymous ID: cIdtRTtLAustralia
7/11/2025, 11:47:34 AM No.510080150
Women don’t like plans getting cancelled on them

Next time approach it empathetically and offer an alternative date to do something together and then follow up by doing something nice for her like buying her a small gift (flowers, sweets etc).

You are in the wrong you bailed on plans you made

In the future don’t make plans for shit you aren’t fully able to commit to cause she won’t change and she doesn’t like being disappointed when you flake

You acting too cool ‘ignoring’ her is retarded. next time make her feel heard at the very least - if you’re too busy to actually talk maybe break the news when you know you have some time to talk to her

Despite what you may think and read women are people and have feelings . Don’t be a cunt and do your best to show you put her first and your life will be better

>I’ve been married for 5 years
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Anonymous ID: k1FyraVYSlovakia
7/11/2025, 11:47:45 AM No.510080160
>>510079595
this
Anonymous ID: ymIULjcmUnited States
7/11/2025, 11:48:19 AM No.510080181
>>510079509 (OP)
L.E.A.P.
Listen, Empathize, Agree, Partner
That's how you deal with krazy women.
Anonymous ID: /8jYFaWoUnited States
7/11/2025, 11:48:30 AM No.510080188
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>>510080022
sheesh that's a rough 30
Anonymous ID: EtyM5PQZGermany
7/11/2025, 11:49:03 AM No.510080208
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>>510079880
lemme guess, youre the kind of parent that would buy his kid a fucking xbox just because hes throwing a temper tantrum in the electronics aisle. beating kids and beating women should be socially acceptable again.
Anonymous ID: xTm2Xe6aSwitzerland
7/11/2025, 11:50:02 AM No.510080243
>>510079595
And let some other nigger fuck her? No thanks
Anonymous ID: EtyM5PQZGermany
7/11/2025, 11:51:06 AM No.510080287
>>510080143
>made her feel like she's not important.
correction. She WANTS to be important, but its not your job, as a husband to make this a thing, the women should work on being important, but they are kids, the simply want the benefits of something without putting in the "work"
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Dave ID: sqcRaLWQCzech Republic
7/11/2025, 11:52:04 AM No.510080330
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>>510079509 (OP)
Why do jannies not ban users for this shit?

This is as political as old ladies screaming at me.
Anonymous ID: Vl0GyWwBSweden
7/11/2025, 11:52:34 AM No.510080351
>>510079509 (OP)
is that lorde? ya ya ya
Dave ID: sqcRaLWQCzech Republic
7/11/2025, 11:53:28 AM No.510080389
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>>510079509 (OP)
She really wanted to go to the restaurant
Is my guess

And you are probably not paying enough attention to her
Anonymous ID: T81NBC0eCanada
7/11/2025, 11:54:08 AM No.510080414
>>510079509 (OP)
Extreme entitlement and narcissism.
Pretty sure beating your spouse is illegal in Japan as well. Good luck, and hope she doesn't cash out of her investment.
Anonymous ID: y3Rm03xwHungary
7/11/2025, 11:54:30 AM No.510080425
>>510079509 (OP)
do you have kiddos? women become mad with no kiddos. you also have to revert your betaism. that takes one month for every year in betaism. good luck!
Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 11:54:35 AM No.510080430
>>510080150
>You are in the wrong you bailed on plans you made

Actually, I said we can go to a different restaurant just not the one she wanted. I dont think i deserve slammed doors and the internet being de-plugged behind my back because we cant eat at a restaurant, nigel
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Anonymous ID: YELL62LhCanada
7/11/2025, 11:55:12 AM No.510080452
>>510079509 (OP)
>Asks /pol/ what's wrong with her when it's clearly because you aren't going to a restaurant a week after her birthday
If she is asian, then it's because she believes you value the thing you cancelled plans for over her, which I assume its due to work. She is stomping around because she wants you to notice her. Buy her flowers or something just so she knows that she feels important to you again.
>Dated gook girls for 15 years
Anonymous ID: qiteyD5EBulgaria
7/11/2025, 11:56:39 AM No.510080508
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she's ugly but would sex her big ass
Anonymous ID: qVygTXXjNetherlands
7/11/2025, 11:56:55 AM No.510080516
>>510080430
>I said we can go to a different restaurant just not the one she wanted
For women this is akin to being offered a large amount of money, then receiving only pocket change.
Seriously, how the fuck did you get married?
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Anonymous ID: 5YfpGYtSAustralia
7/11/2025, 12:01:37 PM No.510080699
>>510080430
Main take away you completely missed before you changed the story

>don’t make plans to do shit you can’t/wont do

Enjoy your unhappy relationship while my wife begs me to fuck her ass atonight
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Anonymous ID: TOIFnuirCanada
7/11/2025, 12:02:26 PM No.510080731
>>510080150
Correct take
OP's wife is accurately sensing that he doesn't give a fuck about her feelings and this upsets her. She's throwing a tantrum because she wants reassurance that he cares.
Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 12:02:41 PM No.510080746
>>510080699
Ill take the advice , nothing against you

>>510080516
>Seriously, how the fuck did you get married?

Im extreemly handsome
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Anonymous ID: y3Rm03xwHungary
7/11/2025, 12:02:52 PM No.510080755
>>510079838
that sounds beta as fuck. may help in situ to be able to do the teams meeting online but this appriach will ruin relationship. read game and similar writings:
rule 1: never apologize.
rule 2: never explain
in this situation (the relationship is already down and you have to assert dominance) I would go to work at a netcoffe or whatever and let her cool down alone. when back start the alpha treatment on her.
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Anonymous ID: KBXTSTfiCanada
7/11/2025, 12:04:13 PM No.510080799
>>510079685
>Women are children

Actually, most Millennials and Gen Z are ALL children. You fucks wouldn't have survived the 80s. Straight up.
Anonymous ID: NCQ3+dWVNorway
7/11/2025, 12:04:20 PM No.510080807
>>510080430
You gotta be the adult and teach her manners since her parents didn't. You don't deserve this shit and the ONLY way to get that is you need to teach her manners because right now she doesn't give a shit about right or wrong.
Women operate on feelings. She feels neglected / ignored and is using this as fuel to resent you and justify abusing you and no amount of rational argument is going to stop it. Doesn't matter how much you think this is not a big deal.

Therefore you should do this: >>510080143
People are just like any other animal, you train them using rewards and punishment.
Anonymous ID: KBXTSTfiCanada
7/11/2025, 12:05:47 PM No.510080862
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>>510079509 (OP)
Why don't you just take her out for her birthday dinner like you promised her, you cheap cunt?
Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 12:06:07 PM No.510080880
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>>510080143
>"You know I was planning this big thing to make it up to you because you're important to me and I wanted to do something nice together but you've been acting out so much it's really making me not want to."
>This way you make it clear that the behavior is unacceptable and she's been sabotaging herself.

Im going to knock on the spare room and say this exact line. Will report back
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Anonymous ID: y3Rm03xwHungary
7/11/2025, 12:07:25 PM No.510080932
>>510080746
its still up. read this. you can thank later!
https://heartiste.org/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
Anonymous ID: w4+ZIGNYUnited States
7/11/2025, 12:07:55 PM No.510080949
>>510079509 (OP)
Chink women are the worst. they are children. their parents never let them be adults and their minds never develop past a certain point.
T. have dated 4 international ladies from Asia, eventually married a white from Kansas
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Anonymous ID: dR1m7RT/
7/11/2025, 12:09:02 PM No.510080990
>>510079509 (OP)

Cool story, Pvt. Gonzalez. Isn’t it almost time for you to do the elephant walk?
Anonymous ID: EtyM5PQZGermany
7/11/2025, 12:09:22 PM No.510081004
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>>510080746
looks like youre in need of a convincing actor
Anonymous ID: 7Y+gm122United Kingdom
7/11/2025, 12:10:07 PM No.510081042
>>510079838
>Sometimes i wonder if her parents spoiled her
you should assume all asian women were spoiled.
Anonymous ID: mAZjEu1iBulgaria
7/11/2025, 12:11:12 PM No.510081091
try chatgpt fag
Anonymous ID: Hz/JVr9GUnited States
7/11/2025, 12:12:24 PM No.510081142
>>510079509 (OP)
Rope all gopniks.
Anonymous ID: 7AwYj2BVUnited States
7/11/2025, 12:12:24 PM No.510081143
I wish I had it as easy as you, OP. My wife has BPD and has tried to kill me several times. She slammed a heavy glass jug into my head while I was sleeping and broke the bone behind my ear. PSometimes she claims to be a demon. I would've ran away or offed myself a long time ago but we have kids
Anonymous ID: vwUKrrbeUnited States
7/11/2025, 12:13:56 PM No.510081203
Women only truly know happiness with a baby in their lap. They're too busy with baby to have time to stew in their anger at you. If a woman hasn't become a mother by 30 (+/-5 or so depending on her genetics) she becomes irreparably mind broken. They call it bi polar disorder or a few other things but it's because she spend too much time away from her intended roll in life. Every 12-18 months she needs a new arrival. If she's barren it's your fault and you deserve the hell you've created as you life. There's no point in continuing the relationship outside of creating a nurturing environment for child rearing.
Anonymous ID: gJrXb7XyUnited Kingdom
7/11/2025, 12:15:15 PM No.510081270
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>>510079509 (OP)
She needs a good shag. Drag her to the bedroom, spank her, fuck her. Then plug the router back in and get back to work.

She is attention seeking and you have not been paying her enough attention. You may need to find a shed or office elsewhere to work in so she can't disrupt your work like this. You are paying more attention to your work than her, in front of her, in the middle of the work day. You may need to find a way to ensure she can't watch you work as the animal brain takes over for a lot of women when they see that.
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Anonymous ID: tzKFCSz/Japan
7/11/2025, 12:15:22 PM No.510081275
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>>510080880
>>510080143
Holy shit. I just did this, almost to the exact lines and it worked like magic. She started crying and we hugged and now things are back on track. New resturaunt. Everything's good again. I guess i need to switch up how i communicate with her because damn, this just worked like a literal spell. Thanks anon
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Anonymous ID: gJrXb7XyUnited Kingdom
7/11/2025, 12:18:24 PM No.510081407
>>510079838
>I think she's BPD because she goes from 0 to 100 fast
Nope. Normal female behavior. Limit it, manage it. Reward her like a dog when she does the right thing.
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Anonymous ID: YELL62LhCanada
7/11/2025, 12:19:28 PM No.510081439
>>510081275
>>510080143
Neat, I have learned something on /pol/ that you need to both assure that she is important but at the same time can't reward her behavior and to show that her behavior is unacceptable.
This is very cool.
My suggestion was to give her flowers, i guess that's why my gfs are usually temporary.
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Anonymous ID: NCQ3+dWVNorway
7/11/2025, 12:20:27 PM No.510081476
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>>510081275
問題ない兄貴
Anonymous ID: E3dvjRVzUnited Kingdom
7/11/2025, 12:20:30 PM No.510081479
>>510081407
It’s bpd, ordinary grown women do not have temper tantrums over nothing
Anonymous ID: q/8B04pkUnited Kingdom
7/11/2025, 12:20:32 PM No.510081481
>>510079509 (OP)
>>wife gets angry at me because i changed plans (not going to restaurant a week after her birthday)
> arbitrarily breaking your word
Lesbian detected. My advice is to turn to God and stop living in sin.
Anonymous ID: iruXLTIAUnited States
7/11/2025, 12:21:21 PM No.510081517
>>510079509 (OP)
>japan
I dont know about your culture like that, but I figure women are retarded everywhere. But here's the thing: you changed plans. Why did you change plans? How important were those plans to your wife? Clearly they were important or she wouldn't be acting like a child.

As a man, you should in general stand by your word. If you were gonna take her out for food or whatever else, you better have a good reason for dropping that. Because changing those plans shows your wife that you are valuing those other things over her, and she wants to feel important. She SHOULD be important, she's your wife.

And on her side, she shouldn't throw a tantrum like a child, she should talk to you like an adult. And you should listen to her when she does so.

>t. married for 6 years
Replies: >>510082258
Anonymous ID: XGj7DVWnCanada
7/11/2025, 12:21:37 PM No.510081534
>>510079509 (OP)
The solution is buttsechs.
Anonymous ID: 740xrohcUnited States
7/11/2025, 12:21:50 PM No.510081548
>>510079509 (OP)
all women are mentally children. very few exceptions. i feel as though corrective rape is needed. if that only lasts for a little while, you should find a new wife. unless you want her to fuck you over financially on a whim in a few years.
Anonymous ID: Hz/JVr9GUnited States
7/11/2025, 12:24:00 PM No.510081644
>>510079509 (OP)
Reinforced conditioning be a hell of a drug. I recommend BBC and cuckoldry so she feels ashamed of herself and changes her behavior thusly.
Anonymous ID: +RR7xDNxSpain
7/11/2025, 12:24:29 PM No.510081664
>>510079509 (OP)
> what's wrong with her
You are. Stop fixing your wife and focus on yourself. Faggot, your woman is demonstrating submissive behavior there and you're acting like a post-menopause Karen.
Anonymous ID: GSS9urAsFrance
7/11/2025, 12:26:00 PM No.510081710
The wife just needed to go to the restaurant for her fucking birthday. What's so hard to understand?
She also obviously needs a good dicking.
OP doesn't take care of his woman properly.
Replies: >>510081857
Anonymous ID: ANda+H43United Kingdom
7/11/2025, 12:28:41 PM No.510081818
>>510079509 (OP)
>have autistic wife
>fuck up her plan
>she spergs out

Pretty fucking obvious man.
Anonymous ID: D8MlD7ClFrance
7/11/2025, 12:29:18 PM No.510081850
>>510079737
Cuck advice.
Never be sorry, she's invited to the ride into your world, not the reverse.
>>510079838
You'll be weak and not worth be faithful to if you do.
She do that one more day, she leaves. Not like her womb was fertile.
Anonymous ID: qVygTXXjNetherlands
7/11/2025, 12:29:27 PM No.510081857
>>510081710
>OP doesn't take care of his woman properly.
OP really does feel like a teenager complaining that his car stopped working out of nowhere and then acting confused when people try to explain the concept of an "oil change" to him.
Anonymous ID: szB6waO7Norway
7/11/2025, 12:31:07 PM No.510081928
I don't know, man. Sounds like you have your bosses' cock deep in your throat instead of your wifes' tits.

Quit being a slave bugman and go to the countryside. Your fake lifestyle with iphones and Temu suits won't be affected all that much from a 1-2 week break.
Anonymous ID: MmfmxjMfBrazil
7/11/2025, 12:31:55 PM No.510081956
>>510080022
walled? yes but at least she looks kinda fun
Anonymous ID: mrt/YDQ8Australia
7/11/2025, 12:32:53 PM No.510081990
>>510080755
Leaving your own home because your partner is upset?

That is beyond retard for so many reasons
Anonymous ID: v5SCMm1tUnited States
7/11/2025, 12:34:09 PM No.510082044
>>510079509 (OP)
Your wife is a retarded bitch
Anonymous ID: Ib2pZkd6United States
7/11/2025, 12:36:10 PM No.510082125
>>510081275
These hysterical bitches really can be trained like dogs. Wow. She better be giving extremely good sex for all the bullshit. If she acts up before or after the meal, maybe rethink if her nonsense and disrespect is worth you keeping involved with her.
Anonymous ID: xjfxcChgAustralia
7/11/2025, 12:36:11 PM No.510082126
>>510081275
>I guess i need to switch up how i communicate with her
Figuring out female psychology is more than that, anon.
The other anon figured out she was "feeling unimportant." But also knew how to prevent rewarding the tantrum behavior.
You need careful observation to understand why they behave the way they do, and how to diffuse and control situations without causing problems in the future.
Anonymous ID: mrt/YDQ8Australia
7/11/2025, 12:37:26 PM No.510082184
>>510080949
Been in several relationships with white chicks all fucked in the head

Only mentally/emotionally stable chick I ever dated I ended up marrying - she’s Singaporean with Chinese heritage
Anonymous ID: mrt/YDQ8Australia
7/11/2025, 12:39:11 PM No.510082258
>>510081517
>this

You sound like you have a very good marriage, proud of you mate
Anonymous ID: +vbdrzM8Italy
7/11/2025, 12:41:39 PM No.510082349
>>510079509 (OP)
Why would you not go to the restaurant? She probably had expectations build up, retard.
Anonymous ID: Sn8bfmmbGermany
7/11/2025, 12:45:12 PM No.510082514
file
file
md5: 713e1d52e8be04c043bfb558cdd27a36🔍
>>510079509 (OP)
>what i can do so this shit stops?
Become a man
Anonymous ID: vmNKBMB1
7/11/2025, 12:50:15 PM No.510082746
>>510079509 (OP)
>diagnose what's wrong with her
let me guess, she is a woman
Anonymous ID: +vbdrzM8Italy
7/11/2025, 12:52:47 PM No.510082854
Imagine if you were a child and your parents told you you'll be going to Disneyland next month and then a week before that they just go "yeah sorry we're not going anymore". That's how she feels.
She probably fantasized about that dinner for days. You fucked up big time, especially if you don't have a very good reason and you didn't explain yourself well and had a worthy alternative.
Never promise something you cannot maintain, especially as a man it makes you look weak and your woman loses respect for you.
This is not rocket science.
Anonymous ID: zBkqV/7PAustralia
7/11/2025, 12:53:39 PM No.510082896
>>510079509 (OP)
Everyone says this is normal but it's not. Not all women are like this, just the post-feminist ones. Find a better wife, don't spend the next 30 years dealing with this bullshit.
Anonymous ID: n3YFZVT1Poland
7/11/2025, 12:54:58 PM No.510082948
>>510079509 (OP)
>Wife
manhandle her you pussy or let me do it
Replies: >>510084396
Anonymous ID: sVa0xTtyIreland
7/11/2025, 1:01:47 PM No.510083254
>>510079509 (OP)
>pathetic face
>disgusting fingernails
Anonymous ID: NCQ3+dWVNorway
7/11/2025, 1:05:58 PM No.510083495
kek magik
kek magik
md5: ec58d88b6471a833e9fe146559d52068🔍
lol @ all the
>"it's bpd!"
>"leave her!"
>"it's muh post-feminism!"
>"U fucked up! Nuffin u can do!"
Posters when all that was needed was a single line magic spell. Stay celibate, anons.
Replies: >>510084266
Anonymous ID: fc5incHlUnited States
7/11/2025, 1:06:38 PM No.510083523
>>510079509 (OP)
When women get like this they need a child. I can give her one if you like
Anonymous ID: GSyyu9ZwCanada
7/11/2025, 1:23:54 PM No.510084266
>>510083495
>You only need to say one thing
It also helps
that he's a hot white man. You get more leeway when compared to men who are mid
Anonymous ID: 9gsCCjbIUnited Kingdom
7/11/2025, 1:26:15 PM No.510084365
>>510079509 (OP)
You are the problem, she is immature and acting out but none would happen without you.
Anonymous ID: 9gsCCjbIUnited Kingdom
7/11/2025, 1:27:04 PM No.510084396
>>510082948
Incel advice, great way to get a criminal record and ruin your life.
Why are incels always the first to give advice on something they have no idea about?
Replies: >>510084617
Anonymous ID: qVygTXXjNetherlands
7/11/2025, 1:32:10 PM No.510084617
>>510084396
It's not that hard to figure out.
Being nice got them nowhere, so surely being mean would.
Anonymous ID: E4X5HA6sNew Zealand
7/11/2025, 1:32:16 PM No.510084619
Screenshot_2025-07-11-23-31-45-91_99c04817c0de5652397fc8b56c3b3817
>>510079509 (OP)
Just forcefully have sex with her. It's not rape since you're married. She'll feel better after, and save your marriage.
Anonymous ID: DIo0FYGcAustralia
7/11/2025, 1:33:38 PM No.510084676
>>510079509 (OP)
>i changed plans

Oh, you're unreliable. She's annoyed because now she has to date again. So that she can secure a new man before dropping your ass.
Anonymous ID: MuIN+coBUnited States
7/11/2025, 1:52:29 PM No.510085585
>>510079509 (OP)
women are like children. behavior is a form of communication just like speaking.
your japfu is basically telling you she wants to be acknowledged and appreciated.

where's what you do
buy japfu a flower, tell her you're sorry for canceling her birthday plans.
you're so stressed from work that you sometimes forget about her feelings because she's so loyal and instrumental in your success you take her for granted.
do something nice for her

that will solve this problem
don't be too doting but every now and then just acknowledge her contribution to the relationship and how instrumental she is to your success.

think of your wife as a flower and positive attention and acknowledgement as water. too much and it will spoil the flower, just as too much simping will spoil a women. however just give it as needed. she's your wife and you should figure out when she's feeling down or upset. that shit isn't hard because you should know her well enough to know. so you say something supportive or kind.

I get it you probably work hard, stressed, and don't want to deal with that kind of shit but if you want your wife you'll do it. it isn't hard.


basically give her too much and she'll lose respect for you
give nothing and she'll hop on the first cock who does
Anonymous ID: vOb8nbVhPoland
7/11/2025, 1:55:18 PM No.510085731
>>510079838
>I think she's BPD
no, she's just a woman
and she's got you by the ball in marriage
you'd be a petulant dictator too if the roles were reversed
tl,dr: power
Replies: >>510085921
Anonymous ID: LwUct1rYCanada
7/11/2025, 1:56:52 PM No.510085811
>>510079509 (OP)
It happens every month when a demon crawls in their vagina and eats the baby, then blood pours out. I know about these things because I was trained as a blacksmith.
Anonymous ID: 6oKoH1iMRomania
7/11/2025, 1:58:43 PM No.510085897
>>510079509 (OP)
Dump her, giga red flag and retarded
Anonymous ID: DIo0FYGcAustralia
7/11/2025, 1:59:16 PM No.510085921
>>510085731
>if you had the power, you would be as corrupt as I am!!!

that kind of thinking is so mainstream it hurts. It's also a myth.
Replies: >>510085991
Anonymous ID: SMM7wwV4Finland
7/11/2025, 1:59:21 PM No.510085924
>>510079509 (OP)
i bet you two are different race, have fun lmao
>>510079595
retarded virgin post
Anonymous ID: vOb8nbVhPoland
7/11/2025, 2:00:38 PM No.510085991
>>510085921
power corrupts
more power corrupts more
that's why balances of power should exist
in Western marriage, the man has zero power
and thus the bitch goes to maximum
simple as
Replies: >>510086129
Anonymous ID: eUFNbhseUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:01:58 PM No.510086058
My wife does this sort of shit. They do this shit for attention once in a while. Just give her attention by doing the argument for 15 minutes. Don't yell at her, but don't be a pussy. End it with both of you in good terms. Fuck her later that night, make sure she cums.
Anonymous ID: DIo0FYGcAustralia
7/11/2025, 2:03:20 PM No.510086129
>>510085991
That's just data bias. Corrupt people are more apt to seek power, but power does not corrupt good people.
Replies: >>510086182
Anonymous ID: 7fpk1BUlAustralia
7/11/2025, 2:04:02 PM No.510086162
she wants you to demonstrate concern for her emotional wellbeing. in short she wants you to recognise and respond to the fact that she's upset. moreover, she wants you to demonstrate understanding of why she is upset.

the more you refuse to do this, the more attention-seeking her behaviour will become.

people are so fucking easy to understand and yet you fucking morons fail at it every time.
Anonymous ID: vOb8nbVhPoland
7/11/2025, 2:04:32 PM No.510086182
>>510086129
>but power does not corrupt good people
it's power plus impunity that does
a married woman is the best example of power with impunity
Anonymous ID: 7fpk1BUlAustralia
7/11/2025, 2:06:49 PM No.510086306
>>510080287
>She WANTS to be important, but its not your job, as a husband to make this a thing
"your wife should not be important to you"
fucking lmao this website gives the best laughs
Anonymous ID: rMpmcYvEUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:09:48 PM No.510086465
>>510079509 (OP)
>Can some armchair psychologist diagnose what's wrong with her
she's human
>and what i can do so this shit stops?
make her feel like she can communicate with you.
she's litcherually telling you she feels unheard and dismissed, sounds like you invalidate her retarded feelings too ("don't be a baby") which are retarded to you but important to her.

validate before you evaluate
>i get that you were looking forward to dinner. it mattered more than i realized.
if you trust your wife's self-awareness, ask:
>when this kind of thing happens, what would help you feel heard instead of ignored?
which may or may not get you a worthless garbage answer, but asking the question in itself is a step toward making her feel like she has an open line of communication toward you rather than feeling as if she has to do passive aggressive bullshit to get you attention.

she likely felt largely ignored as a child and felt she had to act out with bad behavior in order to get attention.
Anonymous ID: MPxENvnBPortugal
7/11/2025, 2:11:38 PM No.510086565
>>510079509 (OP)
>using own net to do work for kike boss

Pick up the mobile phone that they assigned, ser it as a hotspot and leech their own internet.

Also, pick up wife, put her on her lap and give her a good spanking. Make her thank you for it and you might even get lucky.
Anonymous ID: brWFdG4dUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:13:19 PM No.510086652
file
file
md5: 4e34da43bb33d55ac7c552e6df74864a🔍
>>510079509 (OP)
Change her diet. Supplement with a multivitamin. Cut the carbs, get her to eat more meat, protein and saturated fat. Get her to exercise more, and get plenty of sun and fresh air, maybe see a doctor and ask about a parasite cleanse. All of this should improve her mental health significantly, then you should get her pregnant.
Anonymous ID: QhOdnJ+/United States
7/11/2025, 2:16:28 PM No.510086834
>>510079509 (OP)
you didn't know she was a developmentally stunted womanchild before marrying her?
aka most women.
Real Breakroom ‼1sGRVCL7Exa ID: ToR5pJRXUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:16:29 PM No.510086835
>>510079509 (OP)
when my wife acts up i withhold sex and then she begs for me to fuck her. this only works if you can make her cum non stop tho or else she won’t even want sex with you
Anonymous ID: YPCym8xRCanada
7/11/2025, 2:16:43 PM No.510086851
>>510079509 (OP)
Her friend just cheated on her husband with a real man. A BLACK man. Her friend has been gassing her up for a week now about how HUGE his cock was and she started cumming non-stop the entire time and it was something she'll never be able to forget, etc.
Your wife is so pissed at you and she is one foot out the door.
Anonymous ID: GrSFCMOgCanada
7/11/2025, 2:16:44 PM No.510086852
>>510079509 (OP)
you dont satisfy your wife's needs. she resents you to the point where she isnt even open and honest with you anymore. sorry anon, my conclusion is your story is 1 fake / 1 gay.
Replies: >>510087021
Anonymous ID: Add/hCbfUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:19:28 PM No.510086991
>>510080150
>>510080699
Let me ask you a question; would you tolerate any of this shit if it was a man doing it?
Real Breakroom ‼1sGRVCL7Exa ID: ToR5pJRXUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:20:03 PM No.510087021
>>510086852
it’s unbelievable that a guy in 4chan is ruining his marriage and is so dumb he would ask for advice here? that’s believable to me
Anonymous ID: v5J/iCSEUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:20:04 PM No.510087022
>>510079509 (OP)
>Her next move will be to leave your worthless ass.
Don't come here crying about forever alone I had it all if I would have just stopped taking life and people for granted.
Anonymous ID: iAedgoC5
7/11/2025, 2:20:50 PM No.510087084
1649064946252s
1649064946252s
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>>510081275
/pol was right again!

Good job btw.
Anonymous !niqjediPCAID: nMrtfOjPUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:23:47 PM No.510087240
>>510079652

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QxTMbIxEj-E

We are brutal to our sons, because we don't want them growing up spoiled and thus psychopathic.

And we spoil our daughters because...... we don't want to seem "Sexist" to the media that wants our civilization DEAD.
Anonymous ID: dJApJHZrUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:25:19 PM No.510087313
>>510079509 (OP)
You just let her act like a retard and say nothing?
Anonymous ID: XLjJPQx1Serbia
7/11/2025, 2:26:19 PM No.510087374
>>510079509 (OP)
>have remote job
>go back to work
imagine being remote and doing more than a few mins of work a day
>wife getting angry
your autism is triggering her more. pause the job go talk to her
Anonymous ID: tOvmyaZ8Australia
7/11/2025, 2:27:40 PM No.510087438
>>510079737
>foid advice
kek
Anonymous ID: DOn7Y4tfGermany
7/11/2025, 2:28:49 PM No.510087507
>>510079595
>wife gets angry

divorce, its not getting any better. had same bullshit! they are all princesses nowadays without any real value!

> TOXIC feminism did this
Anonymous ID: i0mzJTZvIreland
7/11/2025, 2:34:06 PM No.510087795
1647043416499
1647043416499
md5: 3d286a0b118875889eff29db7771ccc3🔍
>>510079509 (OP)
Don't try to rationalise or use logic with a woman. They want to be reached at an emotional level, to FEEL like someone understands their frustration. They dont care about the truth or objective reality,especially at the height of a disagreement. Of course doing this means abandoning all sense of reasoning yourself, but the trick is to do it in such a way where you're still being firm . Also don't engage with her when shes cranky, let her cool abit. Believe it or not she will reflect on her own behaviour just a SMALL bit even if she wont admit it (despite what /pol/ will tell you this DOES happen). If you think shes being childish I find it useful to use words like "disappointed" and "expected better" when she spergs out, almost like you were a father talking down - this makes her question her own behaviour abit. Its very important you keep your cool yourself though and not give her a reason to give up her own doubts about herself.

Keep cool. Be the adult. Don't give her excuses. Remember you're dealing with a child.
Anonymous ID: UO76l6MoItaly
7/11/2025, 2:36:14 PM No.510087923
>>510079509 (OP)
>diagnose
she's female, that's how they normally act
>what i can do so this shit stops?
you have to bargain something. give her something else she might like. yes they are completely like children.
if you want peace long term try getting her pregnant. her hormones will be stable for 9 months, and she'll be busy with the baby so she'll be less retarded,
Anonymous ID: tOvmyaZ8Australia
7/11/2025, 2:36:20 PM No.510087929
>>510079737
>P.S I'm a poofter
Anonymous ID: 3m0vBntBUnited States
7/11/2025, 2:45:34 PM No.510088429
459725434
459725434
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>>510079838
>I think she's BPD because she goes from 0 to 100 fast

If she has borderline, you might be interested to know that some current thinking in the psychological community is that, when she "changes", that is actually her handing over agency to an altered state who is a psychopath. A so-called "secondary psychopath". Very interesting stuff:

https://archive.org/download/bpdpsychopath/bpdpsychopath.mp4

source:
https://archive.org/details/bpdpsychopath

more of this guy:
https://archive.org/search.php?query=creator%3A%22Sam+Vaknin%22

btw He has another video in which he says that, surprisingly, about half of borderline women will spontaneously "heal" or go into remission between the ages of around 35 and 45 (I think.) He also said that borderline is unusual among personality disorders in that it can often be reliably diagnosed before adolescence (and that borderline actually may begin forming around age 6.)
Anonymous ID: OmlSyJ1HUnited States
7/11/2025, 3:03:10 PM No.510089359
DSC07951
DSC07951
md5: 5df9d42bcd4216e75aeaa257ccffcdae🔍
>>510079509 (OP)
I have a coworker going through the same thing except worse. Late 50s no kids. His bugout plan is to get a nice live-in van and peel out. Honestly, it's not a bad idea and he should have done it years ago. If you have the cash, you should go for it, assuming you're not attached to the house.
Anonymous ID: 2YnJ+d99United States
7/11/2025, 3:09:05 PM No.510089670
>>510080143
Kek this is how I treat my three year old.
Anonymous ID: T3mL398ZUnited States
7/11/2025, 3:10:08 PM No.510089728
Mommy4life
Mommy4life
md5: 005995f4ca38d2a64fabf49b4df27d0b🔍
Fact of the matter is, your just Larping or not fucking her right.
Anonymous ID: iUtphgYQJapan
7/11/2025, 3:13:27 PM No.510089907
Japanese? or are you just in Japan on holidays.
Anonymous ID: 3m0vBntBUnited States
7/11/2025, 3:13:46 PM No.510089926
>>510081439
>ID: YELL
Anonymous ID: jBqFDrwECanada
7/11/2025, 3:14:48 PM No.510089978
>>510079864
Girl in purple thong panties needs a good spanking and punishing dicking for breaking the sink. I don't know about yous, but I'd use her purple thong panties to gag her mouth (and as a handle at the back of her head) while I obliterate her cervix. Naughty girls deserve punishment and Navraj will be the Punisher 》;P
Anonymous ID: m7ZUiwKTAustralia
7/11/2025, 3:19:31 PM No.510090249
>>510079509 (OP)
Ignore it , if you do anything other than this she wins. If you say sorry she wins. If you get angry she wins. If you pretend like this shit isn't worth your time (it isn't, you win) only acknowledge her existence if she is behaving like an adult.
Anonymous ID: FtaYFL5HUnited States
7/11/2025, 3:21:50 PM No.510090381
>>510079509 (OP)

pretty fucked up to change birthday plans on your wife just to end up browsing /pol/, she should definitely leave you
Anonymous ID: odyWUSNDDenmark
7/11/2025, 3:23:17 PM No.510090474
>>510081275
Women can almost be trained like dogs, they're that fucking retarded.
Anonymous ID: NSS07U3fUnited States
7/11/2025, 3:35:19 PM No.510091133
1731374065765695
1731374065765695
md5: 9a37b0f332007b40c351a3efe06e6434🔍
>>510081270
This is the correct answer.
>>510081275
This is the application of the correct answer. Anons, you are in charge. If you don't take that leadership position then the car just careens all over the road until you hit a tree. Women are an angsty teen holding a nuke. If you don't learn to manage them it will only lead to her pushing the button so she gets attention even if she is smart enough to know it will destroy everything, herself included.
Anonymous ID: N32AgAu1United States
7/11/2025, 3:38:24 PM No.510091324
>>510079509 (OP)
Female hysteria, classic symptoms. You need to win her over and give her some penis. Seriously, have a little chat with her, explain the situation, tell her you love her and that you can go out the next weekend.

Do NOT say your sorry though, because you did nothing wrong. She basically is a baby, so fix her tantrum. Men should be allowed to spank their wives...
Anonymous ID: j66w5cElUnited States
7/11/2025, 3:47:49 PM No.510091935
IMG_4710
IMG_4710
md5: eb29c2c742b152f41b4e5ccba8e43581🔍
>>510079509 (OP)
Look, it’s so simple — but y’all don’t wanna see it.
Adam was a son of God. He had perfect peace. He was livin’ in the Garden, naming animals, chillin’. God gave him everything. But then God gave him the woman — the woman! — and that’s when everything fell apart.

Eve listened to the serpent — the lie — and then she went and deceived Adam. And Adam, instead of standing up like a man, he listened to the woman. Big mistake! He fell away from God by obeying her instead of the Father.

And that’s the problem today — men are still listening to women. They worship the woman like she God. But she ain’t God! The order is: God over Christ, Christ over man, man over woman. But now it’s upside down.

That’s why men suffer. That’s why women are outta control. Because they got no man to lead them. Adam listened to the woman, and he fell into darkness — and we’ve been in a fallen state ever since. That’s why you gotta return to the Father, forgive your mama, and stop listening to women.

Amazing.