>>510209020>Some are good despite this, but lolIt's basically just a run out the clock scenario though. Hopefully as a man you can keep it together until the kids are 18, but good luck, the numbers are significantly against you. We're in a position where we have to start pressuring them more and the biggest way to do that is to not marry them. Just keep dangling that thing they all take for granted and that too many men give away for free. Keep on stringing them along, it's literally your only leverage in society and from a legal standpoint. Once you're married you're screwed I have seen it way too many times. My sister just got married and is already treating her husband like a piece of shit. It's less than 2 years in and it's already over for that poor fuck. Commitment is a suckers game, she can commit to you and with consistent good behavior after YEARS maybe I'll reward you with marriage, but no, 2 years of dating is not even going to come close to cutting it.
You need them to be so invested every other option is worse and marrying them makes it so every other option is better because it's that option + 50% of your shit and potential lifetime payments.