>>510235056 (OP)If you are young and beautiful, you will hate growing old and suffer thru things others do not. If you are young and ugly, you will only suffer as much as you mislead yourself into thinking others have it better or you missed out. You did not miss out on jack shit. There is no ideal, there are only people trying to convince you and themselves that they are living the good life. There is only one path that is good, ends well and if you don't know what that is, you are ngmi... but it is available to all for a limited time.