I don't care so much about forfeiting the cunt, and I'm lucky to be getting Friday Saturday Sunday with very little money lost. It's losing the ladling that's crushing me.

What are the political implications of this shit hurting like fuck? Any of you blokes have similar stories?

>>510325513 (OP)
You're a deadbeat nigger.

>>510325513 (OP)
She probably left you because you became obsessed with fringe, right-wing politics.

>>510325513 (OP)
>ladling
What's that

>>510325565
Leaf we don’t execute people for divorce. We aren’t under sharia law yet

>>510325572
The majority of white women voted Trump in 2024. So she would have to be black or brown

>>510325513 (OP)
Be the best version of yourself possible and it will all work out

Keep it civil with her in order to raise a healthy kid and not have her turn him against you (tho that may still happen).

You care about the kid, and that's like 90% of being a good dad. You'll do great at that.

Take care of yourself. Have a full life, find what makes you happy, so you can bring the kid into a happy environment.

>>510325572
No, not the case. Adult life with a family is far more complex than that.
>>510325594
The child version of a lad. Your kind favors them at the altar of Ba'al.

>>510325594
A small lad

>>510325513 (OP)
Tell her to GTFO and you are keeping the kiddo.

>>510325791
I am past anger, annonmosity guy.

>>510325688
Yes, and thank you for reminding me of that. I keep telling myself that she is a woman and this is just what they do. It's mutual and I don't want to stay, but she just turned up the cunt meter at the expense of the child at the end. Actually, that part is strangely liberating

>>510325718
>Adult life with a family is far more complex than that.
I can smell the insufferability on you.

>>510326321
Well, it is. If it's insufferable to be right then we should get divorced, too.

>>510325513 (OP)
>What are the political implications of this shit hurting like fuck? Any of you blokes have similar stories?
I do not.
Happily married for years.
I know it has to suck
Guys over on Gruntspeak/Redonkulas on Rumble - about all of them have gone through what you are going through and lived...
They don't require you to pay any superchat bullshit to ask questions and have them help you - they've saved over 500 dudes from an heroing over the years, so they're not stupid and their advice is sound
They are solid guys with a lot of life experience
I think they broadcast on Thursdays
Hope this helps
https://rumble.com/c/RedonkulasPopp?e9s=src_v1_clr

>>510326572
Thanks. brother. At least I've got my kid, I like my job, and I'm still 6'4.

>>510325513 (OP)
That's your mistake and it's entirely on you.
Don't have kids with women today. If you want kids, get a woman from 100 years ago when women were good, and get her pregnant.
Any man who has a child in today's world should expect to lose that child in divorce.

>>510326791
I'm happy I did it because I got far luckier than most. True that I could have been completely destroyed.

>>510326712
Anytime.
I do know there's plenty worse than going through a divorce.
I had to learn how to walk again at 32, and then got diagnosed with leukemia.
Still here. Still walking. Still breathing. Cancer in remission.
There are worse things. You got your boy - which is awesome, I got a son - and a job that does not suck, plus you're White and over 6'
Not too bad brother.
Going to bed now - have a good one and God protect you and yours.

>>510325513 (OP)
Your son is going to get raped by a spic or nigger that your wife “dates”.

>>510326861
You have a remarkably good attitude, anon.
My brother got divorced a year and a half ago and got partial custody of his baby daughter and seeing his daughter only half the time is ripping him apart. I wouldn't be surprised if he commits suicide, frankly. But that would hurt his daughter too, so he may not do it for that reason.

>the ladling
so, out of curiosity, did you mutilate your son's genitals?

>>510327038
Shouldn't have laughed but I did

>>510327089
Her family applied light pressure but I said no. Cock intact.

>>510325513 (OP)
It was your responsibility to pilot your marriage through the end of your child rearing responsibilities. Women are children, they are incapable of this responsibility. The blame falls squarely on your shoulders. Either you failed to live up to the task, or shirked your responsibility like a craven manchild. Thank God you have only ruined one child.

I have four kids and I have 10 more years on the mission. Sure it’s tough, women are the ultimate villain in life’s journey. But I’ll be damned if I allow her to beat me. If I succeed I can divorce her and live a life of well earned peace knowing I succeeded at my task.

>>510327038
>Your son is going to get raped by a spic or nigger that your wife “dates”.
Seriously?
Wtf is wrong with people like you? You're supposed to represent the "right wing" and what's masculine and tough?
You're a sociopath telling a recently divorced dad some shit like that.
You really should kill yourself.
I'll walk you through all the steps right now of how to end your life and we'll get it done in an hour.

>>510327105
At your son being raped? This post won’t age well.

>>510327188
That's why I laughed. Just the absolute absurdity of doing that.

>>510327188
It happens to 80% of white sons of single mothers in America. You sound like you WANT his son to be raped. I want him to stay with his wife you pedophiles.

>>510327275
Nailed it, mate. You're too smart for this thread.

>>510327275
>It happens to 80% of white sons of single mothers in America. You sound like you WANT his son to be raped. I want him to stay with his wife you pedophiles.
What a crock of shit! Just the thing a sociopath would say to rationalize his behavior.

>>510327366
If you really believe 80% of sons of divorce are raped as kids, you're nuts.

>>510327366
Np mate. You don’t love your son.

>>510327480
I'm being sarcastic.

>>510327508
This got an even bigger laugh than the last. Cheers man

>>510327173
by doing the absolute bare minimum you've done better than the vast majority of men. make sure your wife doesn't schedule something like that as a way of getting back at you through him. remember, every time she looks at him she sees you

>>510325875
>I am past anger,
Then you are ready for violence without emotion.

>>510325513 (OP)
I have two kids and a miserable bitch of a wife. My marriage is a C grade. Not great but not terrible. It's just a slow grind of her being a bitch followed by 40% of her being pleasant.
I prayed every day for God to help me turn my marriage around.
> Nothing
And then one day, I was mad at her so I prayed for God to give me strength to end my marriage and a sense of relief over came me.
I'm going to talk to my father about it when I see him next week and admit my plan. When I head home after this family vacation I'm going to sit her down, tell her that I've decided it's not fair to ask her to give up pot when I won't give up my steroids (don't smoke) and that these differences are irreconcilable. It's time for us to end this and that I will be sleeping in the guest room while I arrange for a mediator to guide us through the process.
The worst part is I love my kids and I wish she would just die because life would be better if she just left it. Alas we can't always get the happy ending .

>>510325513 (OP)
> 5 year old son
> living with single mom
get ready to call your son a "daughter" in 2 years max

>>510325513 (OP)
Just be available for your son anon. Always appear to be doing well even when you are suicidal and missing your child. Keep your head up. We all find out who our parents truly are sooner or later. Have fun and treat yourself like a king most of all. Your own health MUST come first, then family will be good forever

>>510325791
Me in the background

>>510327681
"An ATM."
Book was fucking great too. You get a little more Anton

>>510325513 (OP)
>It's losing the ladling

Losing the what?

>>510325513 (OP)
If you feel like you aren't completely destroyed watch your back. She will sniff that on you and go for maximum destruction including trooning your child and getting he/her to suicide.

Can't you make the 5 year old choose?

shit like this scares me
i'm feeling down because some chick i knew for a while ghosted me out of nowhere. i can't imagine how i could deal with what you're dealing with-- which apparently most people who marry will experience.

>>510327761
>I've decided it's not fair to ask her to give up pot when I won't give up my steroids (don't smoke) and that these differences are irreconcilable
wait, what? She smokes weed and you take steroids, and somehow that's the issue with your marriage? I don't get it

>>510325513 (OP)
Ladling?
WTF are you talking about?

>>510327778
I have installed some failsafes, and the first 5 years are the most impressionable. I have given much thought into preventing this.

I still might fail, and that horrifies me.

You listening, divorcedmom sonrape anon? THAT'S effective use of fear.

>>510325513 (OP)
Best regards. Let your kid know how much you love him with the time you share.

>>510328054
Thank you, brother.

>>510325513 (OP)
Crushing will be the realization that you're letting your kid, your flesh and blood, the literal reason for your existence as a living, breathing thing, be raised by someone that probably hates you and definitely doesn't respect you.
That'll be the toughest part.