>35 years old living in Britain
>ugly charismaless meek beta male
>boring but overpaid work from home office job
>never had a gf or any female attention ever
>no friends or social experiences since school
>went to university and was a total loser that talked to no one, which was a soul crushing experience
>become the ugly loser nobody talks to within one day of all the part time and full time jobs I've ever had, end up eating lunch alone
>people repulsed by my presence
>read about incel blackpill over 10 years ago and it explained everything
>lived for some years in London, nothing changed

What hope is there for ever getting a girlfriend or anything social at all? Online dating is impossible to succeed at if you're not a Chad. Going to hobby groups or whatever just to transparently try to get a gf is cringe as fuck.

In no context since the age of 18 has anyone expressed the slightest desire to associate with me in any way.

It's totally crushing to remember my university experience. I was a totally friendless loser for the entire time while surrounded by normies having the time of their lives.

jews rape kids

>>510428278 (OP)
If it makes you feel any better, receiving attention from a woman who then turns out to be a massive fucking bitch is a soul crushing experience

>>510428278 (OP)
Being socially adept is a skill, and almost no one is born being good at it. Are you the type of person who can suck at something and keep doing it until you don't suck? If the answer is yes, then you can be happy. If the answer is no, get used to your life, or change.

Literally me but I skip lunch

>>510428278 (OP)
Due to 2,000 years of extreme peasant diets, British people all look like weird, pale, lanky retards. Being ugly in England is the norm, so that’s not your problem. Don’t need to go to hobby “clubs”. Just find a hobby like fishing. If you’re overpaid enough, get a boat. Learn to have fun with yourself and then you can export that fun to other people and make friends, and eventually that’ll lead to women. If you’re that bored and lonely, get a second, evening job at a bar or restaurant. Just something a couple days a week to get out and socialize. Even if you are overpaid, take a job with lower pay that’s casual like a bar back or server. Maybe at a clothing shop or something. You’ll meet people.

>>510428278 (OP)
Get a hobby. Meet people through the hobby.
Get a dog. Walk the dog. Meet other people with dogs.

>>510428809
I’ve been to the YEWKAY about 20 times for work now. I swear I’ve never met a normal looking person there. There’s always something off. Always.

>>510428278 (OP)
>What hope is there for ever getting a girlfriend or anything social at all?
Your best bet is to become a drug dealer. Probably not realistic.

>>510428278 (OP)
if you really are ugly then why don't you show your face, cmon your not that ugly...right?

>>510428278 (OP)
Why are so many males like this now?
In the 80s nobody was like this, even ugly Paul had a girlfriend.

>>510429191
hypergamy

judeocapitalism rewarding the biggest sociopaths

>>510429556
Maybe its because we were out meeting people bitd? I had loads of friends in a 30 mile radius,

Many people just hide indoors now at night.

>>510429781
The internetification and smartphoneification of society is definitely a big factor here.

>>510428278 (OP)
Seems like us English anons are way more likely to be incels, I'm 29 and only had sex once to.an escort and it was extremely underwhelming.

I've given up.now.and embraced the hermit lifestyle.

>>510429912
I look outside at 10pm and the streets are empty, there used to be people out strolling, coming home from the pub, now its desolate and a bit weird

>>510428278 (OP)
You sound depressed fren. Sounds like you have been depressed for a long time. I was too but I'm a 6/10 with a girlfriend and few close friends. I wouldn't say see a doctor, you'll get chemical coshed.

You say you are overpaid. Book in to see a therapist. Not a kike psychiatrist, a therapist. Someone who will listen and offer you some insight. You have nothing to lose anyway. And don't go down the incel route. When you go out, don't you see ugly / average couples happily together? They ain't Chad's or Stacey's.

Take £90 or so, see a therapist. If you get some answers/peace, awesome. If not, oh well. You won't get them here. Thinking of you man.

>>510430320
therapy is jewish
the real problem is britain. why would anyone go outside in this country?

>>510428278 (OP)
go to your local pub, plenty of cute english women, or so i've heard

>>510428278 (OP)
If you really want a gf have you actually tried online dating? Go for ugly / retarded chicks and remember you are going to have to put in work because theres a lot of competition, spam and fake shit nowdays im guessing.

>>510430320
>>510430387
Dude said he's ugly and been ignored his whole life. Maybe it's time for some plastic surgery.

>>510428278 (OP)
My GF would know the answer, but my GF is sleeping next to me and I don't want to wake up my GF, so I can't ask my GF

>Get a job as a bartender
>sell drugs on the side
>pussy appears from everywhere
Not hard mate

>>510428278 (OP)
You should go for single moms with half black children. Those make the best wives unironically

>>510428278 (OP)
What are you interested in?
I think people who are really unhappy with themslves and their lot have a few choices

>make the best of it, ie accept being a little freak man who lives in the walls and nibbles on biscuits
>self improve, ie read some books, stop dressing like Mr Bean, get a bit of exercise and a haircut that costs more than ten dollars
>give something away... irl reddit karma from volunteering, conservation, lots of lovely women in these areas
>take an interest in the arts, maybe you're too old to become a club dj, but put your canvasses up on the riverbank and people will come and talk to you. Develop a relationship with somebody that isn't about putting your ween0r in them

Some combination of the above will either save you from yourself or improve your quality of life even if it doesn't result in an enwombening.

If you just stay home and rot and don't want more, honestly if you love yourself, that is ok too. Plenty of lives full of false starts, we have to make the meaning and muddle through sometimes.

Note I didn't just say join salsa dancing or put yourself out there. Women are what happens along the way. You have no way - you're just existing and so you're never in situations where you meet them.

Watch as everyone seethes at me. They think you should be able to order a child bride on Amazon. Don't be like them.

>>510428278 (OP)
I live in the same conditions as you but without all the emotional baggage.
Get a dog, buy a house in the country, learn to not care about the automatons around you, spend time in nature, learn to play an instrument, work out, eat good.
In short, stop torturing yourself anon. It is what it is, and you are what you are. Happiness is a choice.

>>510430951
Also based
Some people are just not super social but I try to tell people here most people are socially anxious

You know this from experience?

>>510428278 (OP)
Go on interpals and find a sweet young virgin from Indonesia. You can thank me later

>>510430320
Therapy is a meme, I went to 3 different ones when I was younger, 2 female, 1 male. They just spouted bluepill crap.

>cringe
That's the issue. You care about this. Becoming based in real life is simply ceasing to care about being cringe. That's all it is. Its an authentic form of strength. Will you become chad? No. Will you attract SOMEBODY? Yes. Itll be painful but it gets easier as you receive exposure to social pressure.
As others said, its a skill. Not everyone who gets very good at things started out good at them.

>>510428278 (OP)
Thanks for confirming my assumption that every 4channer is an irredeemable loser.

>>510428278 (OP)
Read and believe Acts 16:27-34. It was written exactly for your situation http://kingjamesbibleonline.org/Acts-Chapter-16/

Trust Christ (the Person, not a religion) to find permanent peace.

>>510428278 (OP)
Find a hobby group related to something you genuinely care about or wish to learn. Shared interests and passions are probably the easiest way by which to find social or romantic connections.

Joining hobby groups you weren't actually interested in was your mistake. People can sniff out insincere behaviour & fakeness pretty quickly.

>>510428278 (OP)
Lift heavy weight, aquire aesthetic, roids if necessary.
Get a hobby that isn't browsing 4chin and has female presence

>>510431840
>Find a hobby group you genuinely care about or wish to learn.

I wouldn't do that.Truth is Men and women are complete opposites when it comes to hobbies, he's going to end up at some "sausage festival" looking for women.In reality, he should find a hobby that women also enjoy and improve his skill at pretending to be interested.