It's the modern equivalent of, "pick yourself up by your bootstraps".
It just doesn't work.

>>510629989 (OP)

For most of human history the woman had no choice in who she got with.
It is simply the male who convinced all other males not to interfere. Whether that be through force, or resource exchange, or convincing her father that it's the best future for her.

In this world, a man can focus on improving himself. Building a bigger house, saving money, making things, getting stronger, because those are the things that directly impact his ability to convince OTHER MEN, that he should be able to fuck a woman, and convincing other men is 99% of the work. Convincing her; No one in their right mind would believe convincing her was anything that even needed doing. You didn't need to; and she deep down knew that she couldn't stop you if you wanted it, and she was at peace with that. That's the natural state of man.

We live in a warped world; where the idea of female 'choice', essentially means the male she ends up with is largely random.

This is a form of sexual selection that is hundreds of thousands of years before our species. Before we had society, before we had money, and services... before we could even fully reason that killing someone else could stop them from stealing women. We're talking a very instinctual, emotion driven world where you don't understand WHY a woman chose someone, nor does she; and you have no idea how to influence the situation, nor the conscious ability to even think of it like that. We're talking primitive mammal tier.

>>510629989 (OP)
You know you don't to measure your self worth around getting pussy.

>>510630567
who said pussy...?

>stop improving yourself goyim
>put down those heavy things
>eat the processed slop
>watch the porn
No, I don't think I will.

>>510630567
I can think of no better way

>>510630542
Holy incel...
Literally have sex pleasseeeeee

>>510629989 (OP)
>everything men do is for pussy
There are so many people on the on self improvement train the past two decades it's unreal, and I'm not talking about gym because many of them don't even hit the gym but instead do other activities, I'm talking about making money, being social, doing activities, hobbies, just keeping busy in general and making their life as interesting as possible to attract pussy. They are doing all that for pussy, constantly chasing a better looking pussy, younger, fresher, etc. until eventually they find one they are satisfied with so they can fertilize it but even then many of them continue to chase pussy on the side. Some of these boomers are 70+ and still chase pussy, that's right many divorced boomers have girlfriends, just look at that tremendous Eastwood faggot who found a new pussy at 70 or 80 and married for the 6th time. Not to mention famous chads like Julio Iglesias who had thousands of pussies throughout his life.
All that self-improvement, customs, social mores, hobbies, cultural events and other activities people do is to attract pussy so they can breed the next generation of goyim cattle and feel desired, loved and appreciated by their pussy and progeny.

>>510631223
What does improving yourself mean?
In OP's pic I see 2 people who are 'improved' somehow in their own way.
As someone who is very fit, let me tell you, it doesn't fix anything. What fixes things is addressing the core of the problem specifically.
Being ripped and big will absolutely not get rid of any social or material problems for you, unless you are so far gone in being a fat slob, that you are one foot in the grave, and in that case, I guess yes, you have to do something about it ASAP

>>510629989 (OP)
Wrong it's about gentics

>>510629989 (OP)
the veins in the arms always looks bad too

it works fine you're just bad at it.

instead of the gym, try developing empathy and a stable, open, friendly personality that people want to be around. try cultivating skills and reliability that makes you desirable in a transactional sense to build community with. try doing literally anything other than gym, which is so braindead fucking easy that all you have to do is literally just turn up, and makes absolutely no cognitive, emotional, or social demands on you whatsoever.

>lmao *tips fedora* okay 'nice guy'
no, that's not what i'm saying. i'm not saying being a fat hideous neckbeard with "emotional intelligence" gets you girls. i'm saying that you are an incomplete human being and gym is not the missing piece.