>>511243125 (OP)People who feel undesirable think becoming what they desire is the solution.
This is how transgenderism starts; a need to feel desirable from someone who hates themselves. I'm an 'expert' in the field of psychology btw..
What you need to understand is: everything is lost. Sure, you're not desirable at the moment, so you say; but you will never have to lose being desirable; everyone who is desirable WILL lose it; and the more they depended on it, the more painful it will be for them to lose it. It will be like a horror show for them; and you've seen it with the way aging women try to cling to it.
I say this as an attractive woman; i've already made great efforts to let go of feeding off the validation provided from the people fawning over me. I'll one day just be dust, a hideous rotten corpse. By feeding off people being attracted to me, i am allowing these people to have control over how i feel; my self esteem.
It will be over in the blink of an eye. I will lose it all. By letting go now, i save myself from future pain. My advice to you would be: Learn to let go of needing to be liked or loved.