Lost most of my inhibition earlier this summer after "putting myself out there" (exposure therapy). Went out tonight for fun just to get a feel and observed a few things:
>lots of cute girls still go out in groups
>average guy is ugly with no game
>girls will usually love bomb a guy she thinks she can get a free drink from (saw it happen multiple times tonight) and guy will fall for it

>>512084332 (OP)
I got screamed at furiously by a group of girls just for approaching a woman at a bar.

no people treat me differently at 31 compared to 25. i dont think i look that different but no ones interested in me hitting on them

>>512084332 (OP)
NORMIES GET OUT REEEEEE

>>512084479
Women don't think like we do.
If she hits you, nags you, or ducks with you in any way, she likes you.
If a woman doesn't like you, she will give you zero attention and pretend she doesn't know you. Won't even speak to you.
If she's giving you a lot of attention, even if it seems weird or negative, she really wants to sit on your cock, or at least wants attention from you.
To a woman, attention is everything.
Situation specific. If you're bald and ugly, but you are still the coolest guy in the room, women will want your attention.
Their brains are wired different

"Hello, ladies. May I please make it with your young pussies before you turn into mom?"

>>512084332 (OP)
Fuck, marry, kill

>>512084332 (OP)
oh yeah I pull tons of herpees and goonerea

>>512084332 (OP)
I'm a musician and I've been playing in bars over twenty years now. When you're up on stage you get to see all the little wierd interactions the patrons have. It has changed a lot. Women still go out in groups, but they don't seem as interested in "hooking up" with random guys at the bar anymore. They're there to get drunk and take selfies to post online, that's it. Then, if they want dick they will message some guy online to come to the bar and meet them or have him come to their house. Sure if you're Chad at the bar they will talk to you and maybe go home with you. But, if Chad doesn't talk to them that night at the bar, it's no big deal. It doesn't mean they're going home alone. They can just hop on tinder or whatever and message a Chad to come meet them for sex.

Also, not as many Chads at the bar these days. He doesn't have to go to a bar to get laid. He can just wait at home until Stacy drunk texts him.

>>512084946
Great actor.

>>512084479
I got screamed out of a pub by patrons for pashing a drunk chick in a pokie room. (It was an old roastie screaming)

>>512085948
Seems accurate. The only chads I saw were guys who were out with their girlfriends. No single guy could be labeled as chad, lots of gay guys out too.

>>512085948
Fascinating. Grim.

Haven’t been to a bar in years anon I basically never rejoined gay normie society post covid

Sweden when lovely when I was a child 30+ years ago. Haven't been back in a while.. 10 years.

>>512085948
an acquaintance is always solo roaming the city fridays and saturdays. Some for of chade, a bit old but tall, young looking face and decently charismatic. He seems to have some good success with the women so i think it is possible but then again, he is most likely some chad phenotype so that would explain why. I never even got any looks besides fat chicks so i kinda dropped going out. Guess ill just die alone, i had a good run, thanks for everything, god

>>512084332 (OP)
This. Meeting women in RL is so fuckkng easy. So fucking easy.

1) stop giving a fuck about what they think of you
2) take a lap around the bar and talk to everyone, tell the groups of women you see "Ladies you are looking good tonight!!" Then just walk away.
3) Dance and have fun, tell other people to have fun,
4) Do another lap ask people if they are having fun tonight , remember to smile
5) Let time go by - The single women who are into you will begin to position themselves closer, strike up conversation the ice has already been broken twice, keep it light and fun, joke be silly. Ask them silly questions like "if you were stuck on a desert island and could only eat one food for the rest of your life what woukd it be?" "If you became disabled but were still able to have sex in one position for the rest of your life what would it be?"
6) the ones who are really interested ask for their number, hell in a group of 4 single girls get them all who cares remember you stop giving a fuck at 1.
7) Have good ending logistics, so it's comfortable and easy to take one home where you are.

Rinse and repeat. Im married and have a belly now, went out Saturday and stopped at number 5, could have gotten laid by at least 4 HOTTIES in that place, it is so fucking easy.

>>512084479
It's just a game, it's ok to be lvl 1

i miss the milk bars

>>512087384
It's old pasta but it's still funny.

>>512086893
It's mainly the zoomer girls that act this way. But, it used to be different. Twenty years ago, last call would come and you would see people start to pair up with their looks match. Now the zoomer girls just pull out their phones.

Point being, you're not just competing with the other guys at the bar anymore. You're competing with all the other guys at the bar plus all the guys online. They don't even seem to care about guys buying them drinks anymore. They just naturally expect that. They will flirt with the 6/10 guy all night, if he's fun, having a good time and buying drinks, but that doesn't mean they're leaving with him. Not when 9/10 Chad is just Snapchat away at the end of the night. The older millennial women are different though. If a woman is over 35 and at a bar, she's easy pickings.

The main thing I've learned after observing them over two decades, is that bar whores are fucking cancer. There's also this new phenomenon where they will get shit drunk because some guy is buying them unlimited drinks, half consciously have sex with him, then claim he put something in their drink. No bitch, I saw you, you had 10 tequila jello shots and 3 mohitos, pissed your panties, then asked him to come help you to the bathroom. He didn't have to put shit in your drink because you drank a $150 bar tab by yourself.

>>512084332 (OP)
They don't want me interacting with them. I play pool with men and goon at home on the weekends

>>512088744
This. Girls have vaginas. And those are gooey and smelly. You're better of sticking to porn.

>>512084332 (OP)
I got laid twice this year from the bar with two different women. I am under 6', and it ultimately wasn't as fulfilling as some of my Tinder lays. I think because there's a bit more cat and mouse with Tinder. It's nice to pursue (provided the girls pay 50/50 on dates) and I have to work for the puss using charm, personality, etc. Paying for pussy, even if it's 'soft paying' feels demonstrative and empty.

>>512084332 (OP)
It's dead out there. Landlords thought of a bigger number so everywhere is shutting down except asian gambling joints and nobody has any money for the fifteen dollar schooners for the few places that are open past 10.

>>512084332 (OP)
No its over past you're 30
"Men age like wine" is a cope. Young girls don't want "serious," stodgy "established" men. They want young, dumb and full of cum like they are. Sure you might get one to sugar for you for a bit, but she's never going to love you like she loved her ex boyfriend from when she was 19 because he was a skinny surfer boy with abs and you're just a rich old man with a beer gut.
if you do "peak" in your 30s, that just means you wasted your potential in your 20s
I was never in super good shape but sometimes I look back at pics of myself from college when between BJJ and weightlifting I was training six days a week and I think "damn, I looked like THAT once? I had abs and cannonball shoulders and forearm vascularity?" Now I have a dad bod and I'm not even a dad :(

A few years ago after my breakup I went on a crash diet and lost 30 pounds and almost gained that body back but it did ZERO to help me with women. Nada. I only started getting into new relationships after putting back on weight and it was only with women my age. Fairly attractive women sure, but definitely ran through and not wife material for various reasons.

The woman I thought I was gonna marry left me when I was 30, going on 33 now. I've had one or two relationships with women my age but that's it. I might as well be invisible to young women.

>>512088611
sounds awful and is awful
zoomers are pushing their mid twenties too so i kinda not really interested in them anymore. Not after my last gf anyway. Old millenial chicks dont dig me because i look like 20, small and thin. I mean, a 36 years old called me basically a failure today so i guess i radiate that energy. Online dating and insta is dead for me. Shame but i guess thats how things are nowdays. Interesting to hear your take anyway

>>512084332 (OP)
>just approach random women to get rejected and humiliated
Do you have a fetish for being at the whim of women?

>>512085948

This is interesting. Has the pay for musicians improved at all? I was in a bar band in the 2000s in an SEC college town and we would get $50 TOTAL for 3 sets. Grim.

>>512089270
yeh, she's fucking grim.

>>512089326
just bc you are ugly and a failure at 30+ doesnt mean everyone is
lol

women that are available and interested tend to put themselves in your orbit eventually.
bars are loser shit. back in your grandparents day bars were ethnic cultural clubs. german clubs served german food and beer, they had polka bands and the people there were all friends, the italians had their restaurant/bars, the irish had their pub, the bongs had their pub, the hispanics had their nightclubs, americans had their honkey tonk saloons and motorcycle diners.
they're all nigger bars now, a good pub/bar is rare, and its never ethnic. closest thing today to what your grandparents had is vet association outposts.

>>512089860
>bar band in the 2000s in an SEC college town
Same here, back then we usually got a 70/30 split with the bar on the door charge ($2-5). Each band member (4 peice) could usually put a hundred dollars a peice up and get free drinks. Large fraternities at the bigger schools would pay $1,500-2,000 a night for a full band playing Phish, Widespread, and Dave covers. I went on the road after that playing for Nashville bands, which can vary from playing for free to a grand a show. I've owned my own bar on a little island in Florida for the last ten years. I pay local acoustic acts $200-500 a night and they can pick up a few hundred in tips. The bands running around here range from small $500 a night to $10k+ for wannabe Nashville guys.

I learned a long time ago that playing at bars is not that lucrative. Owning can be though.

>>512089326
at least you still pull
try go fo alphies when they hit 18 20 bracket
thats my plan or at least, thats what i hope my plan is, atm i am content again being single

>>512089103
You always pay nigger: if not with your money, then with your time.

women are gay

>>512089326
>The woman I thought I was gonna marry left me when I was 30

What happened?

>>512091871
The woman he thought he was gonna marry left him when he was 30...

>>512084332 (OP)
I've never been to a bar those places are nothing but trouble

>>512092000
Okay but I wanted him to elaborate. Why did she leave exactly?

>>512084332 (OP)
i know an actual chad who picks up girls at dance halls
at any given time he has 5-10 girls texting him, pretty much all wanting to date him
he """dates""" them for 3 weeks and then dumps them for the next one
honestly it kind of pisses me off that he's misleading all the girls into thinking he is looking for a real relationship, but at the same time they are mostly 25+ and should know better

>>512089326
You were supposed to improve your life from 20's to 30's if you wanted to age like fine wine.
Getting fat isn't improvement.

>>512092733
i think chad did us all a favor, or better said, those dating sites that gave out all those informations about women. I dont hate them for it but it has shown their true nature. not that we can do anything about it right now or anytime soon but history will remember this and people smarter than us will have sufficient response to this fiasco. ultimatively chad was just another tool unfortunately it all happened in our lifetimes

>>512084657
shut up kike
>>512084332 (OP)
easier than ever if you have 2 braincells to rub together and are white.
that being said, i wouldnt romantically involve myself with an alcoholic party girl that wants kids someday

>>512089326
A lot of men make the mistake of defining themselves by one or two variables and never truly developing their personality. Usually it's looks, and money. But if every normie man develops looks, and money what makes you different from the other guy?

I've had more luck in my thirties than my teens/twenties. I think I dodged knocking girls up, and I dodged STDs so I don't see that as a loss. As a species, we will likely live longer, divorce will become increasingly more commonplace, and the world will become your oyster. Plenty of young women to go around. Really, it's just about developing your inner-self, refining it, having hobbies where you interact with other people (and not caring if women like them or not), and then spend your whole day indiscriminately talking to women. "Disarm your dick" when you speak to women I would tell myself. And then things just flow.

>>512089326
For whatever it's worth, I'm 39 and not in the greatest shape, and I've had a very noticeable upswing in interest from younger women lately. Just had one that was maybe 25 and 10lbs away and a solid 7 try pretty hard to engage me at a rodeo last night but I was with my dad and was caught so off guard that I just said "thanks" to her complements and went back to watching the rodeo.

I was sorta in your current situation for a while as well, was engaged and then had a "holy shit I can't spend the rest of my life with this crazy bitch" epiphany a little bit before 30, and things haven't been amazing since then (though a lot of that is my fault for not following through on opportunities along with just being too busy with work etc. and not getting out enough) but I recently moved to a small PNW city, lost a bit of weight and I've been getting vastly more attention from women in general lately, and especially from young ones. It's actually been kinda shocking and I don't know how to handle it because I got so used to feeling invisible and unwanted that having women start conversations with me in public or even things like making eye contact and smiling when they come around the corner in a grocery store and see me is fucking my mind. I'm not really in a good spot to start anything right now but once I'm a little more settled here I think I might do alright.

>>512089817
>Millennials will have to try with Gen Alpha because zoomer women are this bad.

>>512093529
80% of men under 50 will never own a home or have a wife, I don't see any scenario where this doesn't cause a total collapse within 10 years max, I think by 2030 we will see things shake

>>512084332 (OP)
Bar women these days are the absolute fucking worst. The drink thing is totally true but it's even worse than that, very often women will try to get me to buy them a drink and they GET ANGRY if I tell them no. Literal choosing beggars. Despicable creatures.

>>512084332 (OP)
I ised to go out its just you get old and large groups of drunken people poses an unnecessary threat. And the police threat is also something that exhausts my eagerness to be drunk in public

>>512094280
I’ve had that. A girl was going around asking guys to buy them a drink by giving the most bullshitting compliments. She did this right in front of me and the bartender. I told her no after she dropped clear implications. Even the bartender knew she was trouble.

Bars in my town have three types of people. Failed Staceys who became coke addicts, redneck moms, and all the goth art hoes with an abusive past. Drugs are also a problems. The rich pretty girls are coerced with coke and become escorts, the goth liberal girls are ketamine, MDMA, and Xanax addicts, and the redneck women are alcoholics.

Imagine a typical American redneck town sprinkled with modern zoomer culture. It’s a disaster.

The only place worthy of meeting a good woman is at an outdoors place like a walking trail, a dog park, or an entirely new town. No, a gym is not a good place, even if they like you.

>>512084936
> If you're bald and ugly, but you are still the coolest guy in the room, women will want your attention.
I’m 6’2” and when I’m THE tallest guy in the bar, it’s a night and day difference. I’ve had had women actually come up to me when this is the case. Will get eyes by women all over the room. But I live in statistically the tallest region of the US, and when there is any amount of comparable men of my height in the room I’m back to being a regular dude again and have to do the usual song and dance to get any sort of reception from women. It’s pretty eye opening.

>>512094210
>80% of men under 50 will never own a home or have a wife,
Not true at all retard. Most people in their late 30s already own a home and have been married

>>512086893
Europe is different than the US. It has gotten worse socially there, but not nearly as bad as the US. Also the fact that there is hardly anywhere in the US that resembles a real city that is worth/safe walking around in at night. I don't even consider America a real nation desu. The primary means of socialization I see is gen x'ers driving around the neighborhood aimlessly in a loop, and grown adults basedjacking over the high school niggerball game. People really don't understand how awful the US really is now.

>>512094210
The levels of fakery and acting this nigger did are unprecedented.

>>512094148
verbally abusive compensating old hags or slightly younger old hags that dont even treat you like a human. No sane man should put up with that
>>512094210
I guess this would be good for a normal man. Id rather prefer not to get bullied by taxes and high prices on everything instead.

>>512095106
yeah you people do truly suffer. your women are fat or black or both so thats like 60% of dating market already cut. 1/10 of all women do only fans, the rest is just old hags or literal children. i would have been a virgin in the US.

>>512094927
>Not true at all retard. Most people in their late 30s already own a home and have been married

It is true, maybe 75-80%. Sure you might lockdown a roastie for a bit and play house but you think thats going to last with a 70-90% divorce rate depending on country. Lots of men are becoming paypig victims to whores, they play house for a bit and the whore robs him for life.

>>512094210
This won't collapse a system because the wast majority is demotivated from the beginning. If you couldn't find a normal life through normal work, you won't find one by rioting neither

What will instead happen is gradual replacement with people from 3rd world who are hungry enough to take all the abuse and work for pennies

>>512094668
>I’m 6’2” and when I’m THE tallest guy in the bar,
reminds me of one time i arrived at a house party with like 10 girls and I was the only guy who arrived
all the girls were checking me out until some more guys arrived
then it was back to normal

>>512085948
>Also, not as many Chads at the bar these days. He doesn't have to go to a bar to get laid. He can just wait at home until Stacy drunk texts him.
Holy cope lol. Chads will rock up to where they can get quick fucks, be it bars, clubs or just about any social gathering with slim pussy.

>>512095511
Yeah getting laid after smartphones in America is just a matter of how little self-respect you have. Sex isn't hard to get at all, but it's going to be with an obese BPD demon, or shitskin. I graduated high school before smart phones and it was quite literally like watching a demon possess the women here.

I actually had a German gf for a while, but I broke up with her because she randomly started saying shit that ameriholes say and I liked her purely because she wasn't like that. Oh well. I'll give it until like 40 for life to not be a satanic garbage dump or else I'll play sudoku. I've been miserable since I was 18 because smartphones really fucked everything up here and turned everyone into nigger-adjacent trash.

people will think you are really weird if you go to bars alone

>>512094668
this is why i wear 2" lifts when i go out despite being 6'1 barefoot

>>512095899
I literally hated cell phones since I first saw one in person, they ruin the immersion of living

>>512095911
Depends if it's a quite bar with a couple people or a popping bar/club with 50+ dancing, nobody will notice you are alone in a dance club for the most part.

I'd rather catch a disease that makes my dick shrivel up and fall off than spend my nights hooking up with random 30-something women in bars.

>>512095911
I used to just post up at the bar in NYC at like noon and drink until midnight and it was normal to me. In the town I live in now such a thing would be unthinkable

>>512084332 (OP)

As a 35yo married man I go to a bar from time to time with my last single mate to wingman him. Zoomers are somewhat retarded when it comes to f2f contact, but hey, young women have always been bad at social situations so that's that. Nowadays they seem to be a little bit more self aware though so you can't exploit that so well anymore. More troons and outright crazies on the move, that's the biggest difference. It's not harder to get laid, it's just easier to get a rape accusation afterwards.

>>512092270
Usual stuff probably; initially she loved him because of the feelings he gave her which were novel (and exciting) sensations. Then those feelings (ie. neurochemicals) gradually wore off and the mundane nature of staying with someone long-term kicked in, which bred complacency. Suddenly she no longer "felt" love anymore, and left.

Am I right? (>>512089326)

>>512089326
Speak for yourself faggot. 41 here, more handsome than ever. If anything, looking at my photos of my 20s and early 30s I cringe at my style.

>>512095826
>rock up to
Lol, ok gramps, point being the young zoomer Chads don't have to go spend $100 in drinks at a bar anymore to get pussy, so not as many do. Zoomers don't "rock up" to social gatherings at all, least of all bars. I know this because I own a fucking bar, and the entire industry is down like 70% with the zoomer generation. They don't go out to bars at all hardly compared to the boomers, Xers, and millennials did and do.

I don't think you understand how it works today. Zoomer Chad doesn't go "rock up" to the bar. He makes a tiktok or Instagram post, then he picks which female he wants from the comments.

>>512091232
>Phish
>Widespread
fuck yeah
>Dave
fuck that

>>512084332 (OP)
Most females in bars or nightclubs are just alcoholic scum

>>512093987
>rodeo
kys

>>512096453
I'll slit my own fucking throat before I ever play Crash again.

>>512089326
you sound like a piece of shit

>>512089326
>I'm a loser and all you anons must be loser at 30+ too
kek, stop pushing this retarded FOMO. Men have plenty of time. Women don't. Don't settle with a woman that ruins your fucking life.

>>512084332 (OP)
>if I go outside will I meet people?

I don't know Clarence

>>512095826
The difference is Chads don’t operate like normies and plot their whole night around wearing a social mask, filtering their dialog, and hoping some chick falls for it. They just do shit and don’t care about what women think. Chad’s can go out to lunch and some 19 year old 8/10 will approach them in the parking lot and say they’re cute, and can be fucking that chick 20 minutes later. The barista will leave him a note with his coffee order. His co-worker will invite him to happy hour a block away from her apartment. A chick filling her gas next to him at the gas station will say she likes his car. Some corporate milf will come up to him and slip her business card. The neighbor chick will come over and offer him cake she baked. This type of shit is just normal everyday stuff for Chads. They don’t need to goto bars or even pursue at all.

>>512096755
This. I got plastic surgery just for this.

>>512096461
>2011, just graduated high school
>smartphones just became an everyday item for everyone
>girl from my hometown goes to community college
>was a wholesome' well-liked girl
>loved kids and babysitting, wanted to be a mother
>makes friends with some trashy chick at college
>start going clubbing together
>wholesome girl goes to our small-town parties still sometimes
>starts gleefully telling everybody her clubbing escapades
>a few i will never forget
>like being out dancing, some random guy came up behind her and started fucking her in the ass raw
>"I was so drunk I just went with it idk"
>another one
>drunk, she goes for a ride with some nigger to smoke some dudeweed
>nigger drives somewhere secluded and tells her he's not bringing her back until she sucks him off
It's funny because it's not like I ever expected to date or marry this girl, but at 18 years old this shit broke me and made me jaded as fuck. I realized I fucking hate this "country" and cringe ass liberal democracy over time because of it. This country deserves nuking.

>>512096452
>I own a bar
nigga you're older than me when you say this, quit larping as a zoomer we don't go 'to the tiktoks' to fucking pick up women this sounds like some facebook boomerism speak, literally every bar and club is filled with 6'4 hunter eyed muscly dudes grabbing women by the pussy (unless you are in some bumfuck hick town in the middle of nowhere)
>le quotation marks
oh sorry I forgot you only speak in mutt, the rest of the anglosphere uses 'rock up to' sorry if you thought you had a win here

>>512096980
Oh I forgot the icing on the cake
>she dates women now
Most likely because she traumatized herself mingling with the nigger-tier masses of this country.

>>512096472
It was part of the county fair and it was fun to watch. It was also absolutely packed with cute white feminine girls who didn't appear to have men with them and seem to be looking for one considering that I of all people got hit on by a pretty hot girl within an hour or so of being there.

>>512084936
>If she's giving you a lot of attention, even if it seems weird or negative, she really wants to sit on your cock, or at least wants attention from you.
not true.
if you are freaking someone out or acting creepy towards them you will get their attention.
doesnt mean she wants anything to do with you.

>>512096755
Chad here. It's all true. Also the reason you don't see "single Chads" at the bar but rather couples is because that "coupled" woman is actually just who chads like me met mere moments ago. I know it's fucked, bros. Just gotta focus on something other than getting laid. Sex really isn't the most important thing in the world.

>>512096755
>yea bro chads don't pursue women at all
>only ugly DnD nerds are taking a shot at stacy at clubs
chuddie cope is real

If you want to know why bars suck now and why women who go out suck even more, look at the drug problem in your area. My town is full of drugs which makes shittier women. In areas with less drugs, the women are better and the bars are more fun and lively with less ugly single moms.

Is there a nigger slinging coke? The bar is gonna suck. He’s corrupting the hot blondes.

Is there some sleazy zoomer with a pedo mustache and a mullet? The bar is going to suck because he’s coercing insecure girls with drugs.

Is it a sleazy dive with karaoke and fat rednecks? The area probably has a fentanyl and heroin problem, and the drinks aren’t distilled enough.

Drugs have absolutely devastated communities and this country, and especially ruined a lot of women.

>>512097063
No one uses that, you fucking retard. And, you're stupid as shit and wrong as fuck according to every metric if you think zoomers in general go to clubs and bars to drink as much as the past generation did. There are literally hundreds of articles about and people trying to study why zoomers don't go out and drink as much, you very stupid mother fucker.

>rock up to
Lmao, I liked it better when you cringe niggers said no cap, fr. What's next? Grovey bro, far out?

>>512084332 (OP)
I'd rather stay home and play Elven Ring or Valheim
How much money and braincells are you burning away going out all because low-key you still care about women and value them. Just use your hand like me

>>512097330
DnD nerds go to gay bars or liberal bars and are in the nastiest polyamorous relationships fighting over maybe a 4/10 woman. I have never met a more vile people than the alt or geek community.

>>512097279
Be honest, aren't most of the whores throwing themselves at you 4s, 5s, and perhaps an occasional 6? I was Chad when I was in my 20s / 30s and this was the level of women who'd throw themselves at me. Anything above a 6 usually required some sort of game in addition to having Chad looks.

>>512097401
>le articles and studies
Holy moly stop being a chronically online larping retard and go out one time. Chads never left the public scene just for chuds to fill in the void, this is just your headcanon.

>>512089326
I don't know man, I'm 41, single dad (main custodian, too) and reeling in the bitches only keeps getting easier and easier. I don't even flaunt my money around and I make it very clear that my son is my priority.

>>512097401
Benzos and SSRIs don’t mix well with booze. Also zoomers do go out to bars and clubs but more of a different approach. Most go to “raves” or just indoor venues to get fucked up on MDMA while being shitty people. They made events worse since 2017 and pretty much took over. Note, that nobody will EVER find a good partner at a rave anyways.

The rest are the weird art hoe SJW molestation victim kind and will go to any bar that is LGBT or LGBT-adjacent. There you will find the “goth” types of girls and their weird groomer boyfriends and their token obese woman friend who hates everyone. These zoomers are dysfunctional.

>I was Chad in my X0s

said no true Chad ever

>>512097544
Were you actually a “Chad” with a model face and striking blue eyes or were you just a cute prettyboy? As a former prettyboy, most outward attention was from emo girls or cougars.

>>512097676
You’d be nothing to women if you didn’t have a son. They know you have money to support him.

>>512087384
>"Ladies you are looking good tonight!!" Then just walk away.

As a former chad..

Yeah I pull. Last time I was out I had boozed much of the day and had 30 mg adderall running in my veins. I was horny and chatty. Sat down with a bunch of 30 y/o women and eventually went dancing and kissing with one of them. She wanted to fuck but since I am married I told her no.

>>512097632
>bro all the Chads are at the bar
Nigger, you're fucking dumb and not a Chad. If you were you wouldn't have to go to the bar to get laid in 2025.

Also, Chad doesn't really rock up to any place, he just goes there, you try hard cringe bitch.

>>512084332 (OP)
No

Never had a gf

>>512084936
Nope. Girls bully and nag dudes they dont like all the time

>>512084332 (OP)
Nightclubs are torture chambers for men. Females are never as bitchy as they are in nightclubs.

>>512097544
Yeah, I guess that a lot of the women that do the approaching or give me attention/notes/compliments are either older or less desirable 4s and 5s. But I do find that if I start up a conversation with a 7 or 8, then they tend to warm up around me and don't immediately shut down like they do with perhaps a typical guy. 9s and 10s are still very chilly, and you usually have to have a lot of money and status (like be a literal billionaire or movie star) in addition to looks in order to get their attention.

>>512097709
>Most go to “raves” or just indoor venues to get fucked up on MDMA while being shitty people
>fucked up on MDMA
>while being shitty people

>>512084998
kill kill kill

they're all gross as fuck anon

>>512084332 (OP)
I wish relationships were simpler

>See cute girl
>Tell her, "I want to sleep with you"
>She says, "Okay"

>>512097887
I never claimed to be chad, meanwhile you are projecting as one while pushing a cope to comfort yourself. I go to clubs now and then and its like 80% chads who rock up and start making out with random women
>still upset about non-mutt lingo
let it go, you are embarrassing yourself

I popped smoke from bars around 2015. The time and effort ain't worth it when I can just rent an escort for $300 an hour and skip all the bullshit.

I got dumped publicly in a bar attached to a strip club because i didnt wanna go into one with my ex and the bartender picked me up and made me her bf
I was 21 and she was 28
Were getting married now after 7 years and we have 2 kids
Such is life

>>512097676
he's just a demoralizing memeflag (read: israeli flag) doomposting in every thread, the truth is that men can pull decent women around their age or younger from early 20s to late 50s but the same cannot be said for women who expire past age 29 and are left with the dredges of society.

>>512084332 (OP)
Sure. They're gross but I am a 54 yo alcoholic.
Good luck, virgin.

>>512084936
The exact opposite is also true >>512097974

They should be educated that how they see and feel in their heads isn't gonna be the same way a mana gonna feel.

Ruin my chances with my crush by making me like her old bikini pics.

I’ll give you my hot crush’s first name, a picture of her, and a picture of my small cock. For each pic you find of us, I’ll give you another letter of her name. If you find her, I’ll give you her number.

Blackmail me into whatever task you want.

Additionally, if you send me a bikini pic of her within 10 minutes, I’ll send you a full body nude of me with my face.

Kik : tribbing25

>>512098152
speak to them in hindi, they usually find foreign accents sexy

>>512098046
Yeah sounds similar to my experience. Chuds never seem to understand this important aspect of Chads for some reason. They think 9s and 10s are spreading their legs wide open without any serious work.

>>512098152
Women wish relationships were simpler too

>see ugly hindu cow-shit eater
>He tells you "I want to sleep with you"
>scream "LEAVE ME ALONE"
>He follow you home and gang rapes you with his 3 cousins

>>512098152
Jugdip
Befreind a girl who's freinds with a girl you like and get her to ask her out for you

Ive seen jeets do this thousands of times
Send the rest of your race to poland if it works

>>512098046
>9s and 10s are still very chilly, and you usually have to have a lot of money and status (like be a literal billionaire or movie star) in addition to looks in order to get their attention.
Depends. Sometimes guys are so afraid to approach them that they don't actually get that much attention and are easier to deal with than 7s and 8s, and they can also respect you for having the balls to try. They can also be a lot more down to earth because their lives aren't consumed with jealousy toward other girls like you get with 8s that are constantly seething about not being 10s. I'm a pretty average guy and I've dated a few 9+s including my ex-fiance, who I was with for 5 years, and I basically got them by accident just by thinking they were so out of my league that I didn't even try and somehow that worked.

Fuck, I'm just thinking back to that ex-fiance and remembering how I was just in complete stunned awe of her when we first me, and then how somehow we were a couple less than a year later, and it makes me want to cry thinking about how that relationship went to total shit because of stuff neither of us could have predicted.

>>512089326
What belt are you in bjj?

>>512097279
>Just go play with your hobbies and trinkets and die quietly in the corner
No. I refuse.

>>512098171
>I rock up to the club sometimes
>it's full of Chads
Lol

>>512084332 (OP)
Bars are expensive now and even Chad realized he can get laid from the comfort of his own home through slut apps. Bars and clubs are old school forms of socializing from an era where the entire world WASN'T terminally online, they're closing down left and right because they can't get the kind of patronage they used to get in the 90s-2010s.

>>512084332 (OP)
Our 4 local bars in town are right off campus from our the local satellite campus of our state university. There's roughly 3k students that attend school there year round, while our towns population is about 550. So it's mostly college students at the local bars with a few locals. My ex wife and my 2 kids moms all 3 were students at the college when I met them at the local bars. My fiances was a sophomore when she dropped out l last year and moved in with me. I got a soft spot for college girls with daddy issues.

>>512098450
Even 6/10 white bitches have some Emirate POS in her DM's wanting to fly her out to Dubai and take a shit in her mouth now lulz.

>>512098481
every faggot I fought who claimed he had BJJ training was just some weirdo drug addict lulz.

>>512098371


Every relationship is different,
but in a marriage scenario, the female 10 is going to have a whole lot higher expectations for her lifestyle than the female 6 will.

So a male 10 if he wants to go for his looksmatch, is going to feel huge pressure to be wealthy and successful, unless he wants to go for less than than his looksmatch.
Whereas an average dude just has the pressure to be average, get an average blue collar job.

But yeah when you're a hot guy, the hot girls will expect you to hit on them, like your in their league but most people aren't

>>512098070
They were shitty not just from the drugs. These were spoiled rich kids who go to all-ages venues to basically fuel an ego. They had very little etiquette.

>>512098530
>selfportrait.jpeg
Yea we know you're a faggy failed musician projecting larper. Perhaps you can rock up to an actual club instead of rocking up to a gay bar for PUA.

>>512085948
Interesting but makes sense. I used to see good looking dudes at bars all the time but less lately. Chad doesn’t even have to go out anymore. Must be nice

>>512084332 (OP)
I dont go to bars anymore but I noticed that post covid bar socializing was totally changed from pre pandemic. People were far less outgoing and generally the crowds were smaller. Also fewer people were interested in socializing at all outside of their immediate group.

Bars are dead it's all online dating now. Like native women and 40yo single moms are all you get in bars now from a cold approach

>>512098534
they did it to themselves with their retarded prices and cover charges for guys too. When I was younger I did the math that its just more cost and time effective to hire a whore than to blow my money at a bar and possibly not go home with anyone or with someone ugly. Every man of value should as himself what his own time is worth. And to me, sitting around in a bar entertaining stupid whores isn't worth it.

>>512098046
>9s and 10s are still very chilly
You probably just don't have the looks for them if thats what you think
If a girl wants to date/marry her looksmatch, and you aren't it, you are going to have to do an enormous amount of compensation, and probably will never be able to fully gain that respect she didnt have in the first 10 seconds of seeing you

>>512098661
Lol.

>>512098821
wtf
online dating is dead
how is actual nightlife more dead than online dating
online dating sucks so much

>>512087384
Oh man, seeing classic pasta like this is nostalgic, like hanging out with an old friend. Times change but the vibe is still the same.

>>512098821
Incorrect.
t. bartender

>>512098821
>it's all online dating now.
online dating is fucking dead too, dating in general is dead and women have killed it

>>512098879
>how is actual nightlife more dead
Zoomers are extreamly inept in real life social situations and millennials are all old now. To old for clubbing.

>>512084332 (OP)
women have to go out in groups or else they will be raped to death from the scientists, you fucking retard.
they cant even get drinks from anyone because its all laced with sleepy meds.
>average guy is ugly
women dont give a fuck as long as you have money. they jump on the corniest and whackest dicks available just to sip on some champaign. thats how fucking retarded women are. theyre all pieces of worthless shit.

95% of the people are worthless shit. this is your society. fantastic angloids!

HAHHAHAHA NIGGER NIGGER NIGGER

>>512098956
their broccoli nigger hair is very shameful display

>>512098879
no one is really meeting anyone now unless its Gigachad sportfucking. The collapse needs to happen.

pimping out your little loli daughter to black niggers cocks

I pull on apps and bars, I just don't pursue most of them because most of the women on there are looking for hookups and aren't marriage material. Once you turn 30, if you didn't already get it out of your system, hookups are pretty boring.

>>512098661
Lol, you really shouldn't be seething this hard simply because I stated zoomer Chads don't go out to bars as much as other generations did, an obviousfact for anyone not retarded. But, you're a dumb nigger who rocks up to places, so probably insecure and angry. I haven't made a single comment/claim about me doing anything with any woman. But, you sure are coming unglued like a nigger.

>t-t-the bars are f-full of zoomer Chads rocking up to them

I think you might just a retard who considers anyone who isn't an obvious retard like yourself to be a Chad.

>>512098940
Nothing to do with fat ugly piglets like you? Nothing at all?

>>512098574
Maybe. Honestly that's kinda what fucked our relationship up, she was a cosplayer that went viral (largely my fault, I introduced her to the character she got famous for and took most of the photos) and got a huge social media following even though she didn't slut it up at all, and even though nothing direct happened the constant attention, both negative and positive, totally fucked her up and ruined the whole thing, turned one of the nicest, coolest girls I'd ever met into a neurotic insecure constantly seething cunt and I couldn't take it anymore.

Don't know why I popped into this thread but I'm glad I did . .. it's better than the humour threads.

What is it with this chad/chud thing? If you think in these terms, your a loser to start with.

I'm 59 so I have been around a bit and most of you guys are well off the mark, when it comes to women, if you go out looking for them then you give off an air of being desperate and you have lost before you have started and I think that's where most of you go wrong.

OK I'm past my peak but I can still get girls in their 20s to approach me, without any effort, not that they interest me anymore but hey ho!

AMA.

>>512098956
Why would any person wish to go clubbing? If you want to drink and listen to blaring music you can do that in the park or in your own home. If you want to meet women just go to work or a genuine social event. Besides, the women who go to clubs are not the sort one wants to interact with.

>>512085948

I’ve noticed this too. I’ve also noticed just lower numbers of people at bars that used to be more lively. And it seems like people aren’t drinking as heavily as they used to. Those would all be good signs if it weren’t for the fact that it’s due to 1) dating apps and 2) social interactions moving online generally. But the big thing is probably the apps here. Finding someone to fuck used to be a primary motivator for young people going to bars and clubs. But now you just load up Tinder or Bumble or Hinge (or if you’re not Chad, pornhub).

>>512084479
sorry you're ugly bro
if you were chad on the other hand, they'd be the ones screaming , at each other over (you)

>>512099068
women are not nice and not cool. thats just to get to your money or your cock, retard. for you its money because youre some ledditor fag.

>>512099068
>turned one of the nicest, coolest girls I'd ever met into a neurotic insecure constantly seething cunt and I couldn't take it anymore.
that sounds like almost every woman
Is social media that bad, that it did this to all the millenial woman?
I still remember when facebook came out, and how shitty it was and things changed after that

>>512098940
Well now just seething all over the place for no reason.
Lol

>>512098833
Bars stopped being bars all together. Even clubs.

Clubs in the past actually had people dancing and vibing out to the good music. It was like a celebration or a party. People moved with energy and happiness. Today, a bar is solely to spite others and flex on other people just to fuel an ego and maybe get laid as a bonus. It’s just a place for mogging and being a cunt.

In the past, we had taverns. Taverns that sold food and booze without being a restaurant. They were gathering places to hang out at and relax. A place to get a piece of mind and be among good friends. You could eat, drink, chat, play a game, read the newspaper, and maybe the Batman would say “Go talk to her. She’s a nice girl.” Meanwhile, today a bar is a disgusting dive with a drop ceiling full of rednecks, bikers, single moms, and shitty classic rock. It’s funny how a classic cowboy saloon was a place for men to get away from women rather than meet women.

>>512084332 (OP)
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>>512099068
Dude Ive known 4/10 chunky white nursing students that had an Emirate in their DM's wanting to fly them out.
I date Asian women now and fuck escorts when I get a dry spell. If you are wasting your time on dating apps or being a lolcow at bars for women that hate you your wrong.

>>512099055
Pulled means you fuck them, virgin.

>>512099098
>I can still get girls in their 20s to approach me
"hey dad can I get sum free shit"
"hey pops can I get a favor frum you"
Also woman in the newer generations are way shittier and cuntier
Just because you lived in a golden age of gender relations you think it would be easy if you were raised in a nightmare mode generation

I'm a former incel who only recently got on dating apps and I'm starting to think the biggest reason young people aren't fucking is because NOBODY has a place to go back to. Everyone lives with their parents or has a room in a share house. If zoomies could afford bachelor pads they'd probably be getting some. We're at this weird intersection as a society where multi-generational households are returning due to economic reasons but we still have all these hang-ups about privacy from the era where kids would move out at 18. Why bother going out and hitting the clubs when at best you're gonna end up making out on a park bench before going home to your childhood bedroom with blue balls?

>>512099101
Its not the 1960s anymore. You cant meet women at work. Those women are shit and even looking at them like that will get you fired and accused of stare rape.

>>512099212
Too accurate. You basically summed up why I avoid the scene. Though it was fun to drink with some hells angels bros if they find out you are military. Free drinks!

>>512099277
Not really. I own a house on an acre of property that's nearly paid off. White women hate on it cause its not a retarded ass 10,000 sq ft mcmansion. Not a single Asian woman I've dated has trash talked my house.. interesting huh?

>>512099252
I never said I didn't fuck them anon, I just didn't feel like going after your mother was worth the time after.

Best place to meet a woman is also the hardest: the gym. if she likes you and you like her, the attraction and signals are very clear. The physicality and that context is there, she knows immediately that you are /fit/ and you know she takes good care of her body. Second would be some shared social circle like work, school, church.

Gym, groceries and local bar all fall into the same category of "we consoom product/service at same place" but it's the gym that's the most powerful (shared value of fitness, if you get together then you become gym buddies)

>but what if she's too buff
kind of rare. the hottest sluts i've seen at the gym keep a nice balance between fat and muscle. they aren't too lean or muscular, they just look tight and soft, perfect.

Talking to a gymbabe is also hard due to the context (headphones on, loud music, large area with or without people, self-conscious about others seeing the approach).

Absolute easiest is if you put out some form of content or product, and become well-known enough where a female fan recognizes you in public, or seeks you out at one of your public appearances. This is where the status kicks in and she has already become obsessed with you, and it's where the "be yourself" really matters.

>>512099212
>You could eat, drink, chat, play a game, read the newspaper, and maybe the Batman would say “Go talk to her. She’s a nice girl.”
All these things require functional communities to be in place

> It’s funny how a classic cowboy saloon was a place for men to get away from women rather than meet women.
Because they already had wives and a family, and probably got married to the neighbors daughter at age 18.

Virginity is the basis of stable marriages.
Marriage is the basis of families.
Families are the basis of communities.

>>512099068
>she was a cosplayer
Your post should have ended there

NEVER date girls who are

>Goth
>Pastel goth
>e-girl
>Art hoe
>Crust punk
>Hipster or some offshoot
>Raver
>Furry/Therian
>Gamer
>Dungeons and Dragons geek or LARPer
>Cosplayer
>Metalhead
>Alt Y2K

The only women worth even remotely trying to get with would be the most basic bitch into Taylor Swift. NEVER go for any girl who’s alternative or geeky. They are all insecure girls with low impulse control and end up getting coerced by some scumbag “friend.” They are guaranteed to be abuse victims before you even met her.

>>512089326
Cope. This is me at 33

A guy in his 30s who takes care of himself is more attractive than a guy in his 20s who does the same
A girl in her 30s who takes care of herself is never more attractive than a girl in her 20s who does the same

>>512099156
Definitely wasn't money, I was a dead broke part-time photographer from an average middle-class family when we got together, she was way better off and from a better family than I was. I do have a pretty impressive cock but she was already all over me be before she knew that.

>>512099098
Have you ever really been so far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?

>>512099271
Women were always the same anon, they might be addicted to their mobile phones these days but that's about the only difference.

It's all about exuding confidence, even if you don't have it.

You NEVER go looking for women but you scan the room as though you own the place, it's little things like that.

Clubs are miniature replicas of what hell looks like: dark loud stuffy full of filth and sleezy drunk characters both men and women.
Also they close at 3am, coincidently when night officially ends and spirits of the night go to sleep.
People are spiritually illiterate and blind with no knowledge and no discernement.
Imagine thinking women in clubs are attractive

>>512099490
Haven't seen that for a few years oldfag anon.

>>512099066
YNWBAW

>>512099176
>replying to my every post
kek I did a number on you did I

>>512088611
>There's also this new phenomenon where they will get shit drunk because some guy is buying them unlimited drinks, half consciously have sex with him, then claim he put something in their drink. No bitch, I saw you, you had 10 tequila jello shots and 3 mohitos, pissed your panties, then asked him to come help you to the bathroom
This one made me laugh

>>512099469
Correct. And guys like us mog 95% of what's walking around out there.
Good work btw, I need to get better at my calorie counting as I only have a 2 pack currently haha.

>>512099398
>The gym
No lol. The hot gym girls are trying to be influencers or have a coke problem. I’ve had better luck walking a dog on a neighborhood trail.

>>512099603
You've been shitting yourself the entire thread.

>>512099603

Covid killed nightlife. The quality and quantity of people going out is way, way down. Add that zoomer culture advocates going to bed early and not partying

Add that social media and simps have inflated the egos of women to unreal levels. The few women who do go out, go out for validation with their friends in a game to see who gets hit on the most. Then they cock block each other and see who gets the most free drinks. They will almost never go home with a guy which is the ultimate slut shame in front of their friends. Yet, simps still insist on financing the whole nightlife operation and get literally nothing in return

Girls may only go home with a guy in narrow circumstances like she’s on vacation, out of a breakup, like a top 1% slut. The drunk one night stand sex is then usually horrific. The entire thing is a scam from a man’s perspective

>>512099398
Thats fine if you're an obsessive gym freak but not good advice for most. Same goes for the go to church meme. Totally useless unless you're deeply into religion. Faking it to pick up girls is just cringe and everyone can see it. Plus if you do find a girl and shes all into fitness or religion and you're really not then its not a good match.

>>512084332 (OP)
Everyone has a camera and internet access now, nothing is real anymore. Its all for upvotes and to be the king on top of the pile of shit.

>>512099818
That's why I just use apps to get dates and if I'm single I just fuck escorts.
I don't see any reason to play dancing monkey to some 5/10 fatties at the bar, have to drive into the city, probably get a parking ticket, pay a tarded cover charge and overpriced drinks, listen to loud nig music, possibly get stabbed for $5 by some nigger, maybe not even bring home a decent chick...when I can just order up Ling Ling who will give me an A+++ back massage and drain my balls.

>>512099212
Brewery pubs and taphouses were that for a little while, not that long ago. Problem is a bunch of people met and hooked up there, popped out kids, and started demanding that they become more "family-friendly" and now they're completely ruined as places for adult socialization.

>>512099464
Well, I was a cosplayer too, we met at a series gathering at a convention. That was a long time ago though, before the internet really took over cosplay, back then it was some fun shit you did at a convention and the idea of getting famous or making money doing it was pretty much unimaginable. It's just unfortunate that our relationship coincided with a huge shift in the scene and cosplay turning into an e-fame thing rather than just a hobby.

Somebody gave me shit earlier when I mentioned going to a rodeo but honestly I think that might be about as good as it gets nowadays, about as conservative of a crowd as it gets outside a gun convention or political rally and the fact that they're flirting with my Johnny Paycheck-looking ass goes to show they're either not having a lot of luck with chad or genuinely have different taste and goals.

>>512099855
I'm a gym bro and I wouldn't want that kind of drama. All it would take is misreading some bitches signals then she will bitch and spread rumors about how much of a creep you are. It happens to chads now too. Apps and escorts.

>>512099398
Your first statement is a contradiction. It’s not a good place at all in practice. Your best chance is playing a gay indirect long game with girls where you be cool with them first. The logistics of even making that happen are difficult. They have headphones on in a workout and you may never even see them again

If you go in direct in the middle of the gym you’re shutdown. Maybe if you are walking out together and talk outside your odds go up a bit, but that never happens organically unless you stalk her movements

>>512084936
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b3sk_4Sbvv0

See video related for a perfect guide.
>Woman is willing to subvert her entire identity and presentation just to stroke the ego of being able to deny a man who wasn't initially interested

Literally women. Everything you need to know is in here.

>>512084936
It's like the artist was in the room with me, how the fuck....

>>512100049
Brewery pubs and tap houses did the same thing here. The moment they started bringing in toddlers to a bar is when I stopped completely with those types of places. They still exist, even ones without kids in them, but they’re inherently lefty as if the HR department at every office in town decided to have a meeting spot. It’s always some gay post punk music too.

I too used to be a cosplayer. I also used to be a raver. Hell, I used to be a furry. We have a rodeo here. It’s not bad, but not a good place for hooking up. It’s mostly married boomers and bearded veterans.

>>512097393
There's an ethnic component to it, along with race.

In my area all the drug dealers are nigs, slavs, meds, jews, spics, or southern. Every dumb, naive, or kindly girl ends up turned out or a dope fiend of some sort. They tear through all the women with drugs because without drugs they're nothing. They can't fight solo, they can't build anything, they don't work, they're all just niggers with different shades of skin.

If you ever have a chance to rip off a drug dealer, take it. Rob them, beat them, sodomize them with a night stick, crush their balls with pliers, chisel their teeth out their heads, hammer their jaws, wire brush their hair off, break their fingers.

Turnabout is fair play. They fight dirty, we should too.

A lot of losers in this thread and I didnt even read the whole thing

>>512096755
Ya, the curse is the horrible ones that you never want in your life do it the most.

>>512100470
1pbtid
Care to elaborate?
Cost benefits analysis, its less of a headache and financial burden to just hire a hooker for an hour.

>>512100470
this, maybe you guys should learn how to make friends first before becoming some burnt out incel and thinking everyone owes you sex.

>>512100581
engh I just hate women. Tough to like them after you experience life as a kind hearted Incel, get no action, then get jacked and become a gigadouchebag and they all want to jump on your dick. Fucking blackpilling

I am going to give you all a life hack for women. For women that you see all the time act like they don't exist. This drives them insane thinking about why this guy doesn't think they are worth his time.

This wont work on the shut in bookworm type but it slays the outgoing emotional ones (that are the majority of what you will encounter)

>>512100440
My area is mostly white and drugs are a huge problem. I agree with everything you said, because a lot of drug dealers here are basically weasely men who’d be virgins without drugs as their weapon of choice.

The typical drug dealer is either some guy with a Honda Civic and tattered designer skinny jeans if he’s the thug variety. The other kind is some alternative zoomer goth of sorts who preys on insecure alt women and puts on a big brother or Buddha-like persona and coerces with drugs you’d find at a rave.

Interesting how most people accused of statutory rape and grooming aren’t the nerdy guys, obese neckbeards, or the strong guys. It’s always the sleazecore guy, the raver wookie, the male feminist, or the swinger in a polycule looking for a third at the local rave.

>>512100567
I posted that after seeing this memeflag>>512089326

Its never been easier. Women high five each other for getting dicked down these days. Having game has never been harder if youre a loser. Its never been easier to start winning and stop being a loser. You dont need looks or money. If youre not a male model or have 9 figure plus net worth, youll never compete on looks or money. Ugly broke niggas pull bitches when they have swag. As long as you are funny and have good vibes you can literally do anything. Not just with women but goes for making money n shit too. You can make friends with rich guys with no swag and get access to their mansions, yachts etc.

>>512100710
heh weird, the thing said you only made 1 post. Maybe you went from wifi to phone or vice versa.
I've been at the game since 1997. Its just easier and less of a headache to hire a hooker.

>>512100673
Youre demoralized. Its understandable but youre stifling yourself. Pipe down bitches and after meeting enough of them youll find a quality woman and can stop playing the game. Women aint shit, dont care what they think.
>>512100787
That was my only post ITT, im still reading through it. Hookers will corrupt your soul and degrade your social skills. Also youll never find a quality woman that way, if thats what you are seeking.

>>512084332 (OP)
If you post on here the stasi will cock block you.

>>512099464
>The only women worth even remotely trying to get with would be the most basic bitch into Taylor Swift.

Anon, I...

>>512100707
I've noticed that too. My area is pretty far left. If you get a feminist type talking they will often tell you the biggest creeps and perverts they actually fear are the lefty feminist "ally" men.

>>512084479
>>512084657
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q31tGyBJhRY

>>512084332 (OP)
>going to bars/clubs
You are not white.

>>512101003
Where do white people go in canada? The bingo hall because they're all 70 years old?

>>512101003
>go to club where EDM DJs play in chiraq
>all white with the occasional hmong from minnesota
quit going to places that play nigger music

>>512100425
Yeah, they're pretty lefty here too, less post punk and more stomp clap 2010s hipster type shit though. I still go sometimes because they're all surrounded by food trucks and some of the best food in town is at them (like the only BBQ place worth a damn) but the scene sucks.

Maybe this rodeo was a fluke because it was part of the state fair but I'm not sure. The whole vibe in my area (Central Oregon) is weird, it's a head-on collision between redneck and California/Portland transplant remote worker yoga hipster types without a whole lot in between, so you've got this situation where most of the locals leave for school and work and the people coming in are all either married couples with kids, extreme sports manchildren, or polyamorous vanlife hippie dudes, so being a regular 30-something guy who seems to have his shit together is apparently a pretty hot commodity among younger local girls who want that kind of thing. (I've been told this by women, too, albeit not ones who were available.)

>>512100837
Correct, you have some good observations. I am demoralized from some bad situations I went through with women. I just don't see any point in dating women in the west anymore.
I used to be fat, the stereotypical basement dwelling loser.
I put in shit tons of effort (eg I'm now a multi millionaire though I don't tell women that, own a house with a large plot of land, make 6 figures, dress well, spend hours a week in the gym) but she will just pop smoke for an alcholic jazz musician with a beer belly cause his vibes make her pussy tingle more even though it leads her life down a train wreck disaster.
I've been hurt too many times, and its just easier for me to order up sex when I need it.
I would like to find a decent wife to have kids with but that doesn't seem likely. So I'll just grill wagyu steaks, drink Italian liquor and fuck whores. Life has been more pleasant.

>>512100142
I like to stare at the girls' butts at planet fitness it's one of the best hobbies
sadly it's a fucking septic tank of ball sweat and they don't clean the fucking machines

>>512084332 (OP)
>pull women
why would you ever want to do that?
everywhere I go I come across women who literally throw themselves at me but I have learned my lesson a long time ago and I just ignore them and go one with my day

>>512100707
>It’s always the sleazecore guy, the raver wookie, the male feminist, or the swinger in a polycule looking for a third at the local rave.
This shit drives me crazy. I've seen the same thing for years and it makes me insane seeing women constantly trust those guys without question while being creeped out by guys who are just a little awkward or whatever. It's not just the underage stuff either, those guys are also the most likely to rape adult women, or be abusive to ones that get into a relationship with them.

>>512101126
All you're doing is saying that you have money and are fit but you're still that mental midget in the basement. Go take some LSD, vape some DMT, and chill out

>>512100707
I live in a big shitty in the rainy part of the PNW. Even the homeless women all like me, they drift towards me while their dealer bfs scowl at me. Real fucking shitbags.

All of the homeless dope fiends are either californians or southern "confederate pride" types who whore their women out to niggers and spics for dope money. I don't fuck the homeless women, I just say shit like, "Why don't you go to the mission, they have programs for women whose bfs got them hooked on dope and pimped them out. They'll have you housed in 3 days if you're sober, or at least in a safe place if you're not." They literally don't know about the mission here being super safe.

I go out of my way to fuck with homeless guys who are obvious shitbags due to this. The ones who ride their bikes into my dead end parking lot, I shove them off their bikes and steal the bikes, then give them a whiff of pepper spray if they don't immediately run away. Then I steal their bike, their backpack, and empty their pockets. If they really start shit I steal their shoes too.

You have to humiliate these fuckers to get them to know their place. You can invade their apartments if they move in and start shit with you, they won't call the cops lol. None of them will. You can pin them down, zip tie their hands, and shit down their throat. Shred their IDs, burn their vehicle registration, toss their keys in the river. They can't do shit.

If you have a buddy to hunt with you, you can make a living robbing and beat the shit out of these fags.

>>512101126
The biggest sluts I've ever met were asian. Don't fall for the trad chink girl meme.

>>512101226
Naww, I don't lack social skills. I was a leader in the Military. I don't do drugs. Women don't know what a decent man is anymore and I'm sick of playing that game.

>>512101208

Being “a little awkward” (like me) effectively means that you’re never going to pull chicks unless you get drunk enough to temporarily shut down your autism. Doesn’t really matter if you’re not, fit, wealthy. If you’ve got social anxiety, you’re fucked out there.

>>512101302
>you're right I am a wound up tight ass that is annoying as fuck which is why women can't stand me
keep up the good work buddy.

>>512084332 (OP)
>This fucking retarded faggot thinks that anyone still cares about cute girls and their love bombing + begging for free stuff in 2025
Son, you seem to be lost. It looks like it's time for you to fuck off back to Plebbit

>>512099994
This leaf gets it.
If *youre* not going to a club for the purpose of the music and having fun dancing (on M) then it's just a total shitshow.

>>512100939
It’s true. Your basic blonde who browses Pinterest and Instagram is loads better than any subculture girl. They do require men to have decent looks, though, so always take care of your face and hair.

>>512100972
>>512101119
My area isn’t lefty but it’s buttfucked by transplants and retirees. Also half the bands that play at these bars are traveling bands form Portland lmao. The only plus about these bars is that they’re clean, have some sort of decoration, and maybe have a place to sit outside. Doesn’t make up for the overpriced drinks and the most abhorrent Redditor types of people.

>>512101374
If you just go to the club to dance and have a good time, women will approach you because they want to be part of the fun. It's really that simple.

>>512101349
You don't know me. Sounds like projection IMO. You told me to do hard drugs lulz. You shouldn't be judging or giving advice to anyone.

>>512085948
This is basically the problem. Apps like Tinder essentially made it so that all of the girls who want casual sex, no longer have to go out and risk not finding the "right guy" or having to choose from limited options. Instead, they just turn on the app and they have their a la carte choice of any dick they want delivered to them with no extra effort needed. And it's only going to be a specific class of guys who are in that stable who get pulled from.

The only reason women pretend they're upset that men don't approach them in public is because if the woman has less luck on Tinder (or she has decided that she's "over" casual sex), then they still need attention somehow, and they can only get it when guys approach them, and for them rejecting and humiliating a guy is just as valid a form of validating themselves so they'll take that too.

But yeah, the "good" men who are on all the girls' lists don't have to go pick up women, so instead they just spend their time doing other shit.

>>512101208
I’ve been warning people about this before they became meme stereotypes with labels. I’ve been telling people about them since 2015. They’re the abusive people in a weird relationship who gaslight each other. They’re the ones who encourage a woman to take up OnlyFans.

Never trust a man with black nail polish.

>>512099398
This is genuinely terrible advice. The gym is similar to the workplace environment in the sense that you see all the same people everyday and the consequences for getting rejected are massive. Amoggery is also higher than anywhere on the planet in the gyms and 10 simps in the foreground would love nothing more than to jump in to save m'lady from the creep. 100x moreso after the "film your gym predator" trend and every square inch of the gym being recorded from some zoomie gymtokker begging you to give them a nice viral 40k+ view rejection snippet

>>512100707
It's interesting that we have a system telling us where sex offenders sleep, but we don't have one for murderers

>>512101306
Yeah, it's tough. I can get their interest if I don't have to force it, and keep them on the hook well, but actually turning that into anything is really fucking hard and I either chicken out or completely drop my spaghetti, the only times I luck out are when I've gotten a girl sufficiently interested that she goes out her way to make it easy.

>>512101407
Sounds a ton like my area then. I should really say that it's a left-of-center city in an otherwise pretty conservative county, but both sides are pretty moderate about it aside from small minorities on either end. (The about 5 pierced and colored hair pronoun looking Gaza protesters who show up to every random event on one side, a few giant MAGA flag coal rollers and the guy with a cybertruck with a picture of tied up Biden on the tailgate on the other, etc.)

>>512099398
>Best place to meet a woman is also the hardest: the gym.

If it's the hardest, why would that make it the best?

Also, what the fuck would I have to talk to a woman there about? How much she bench presses? Motherfucker I'm an out-of-shape guy in my 30s, I'm not going to be complimenting her on her squats.

>Absolute easiest is if you put out some form of content or product, and become well-known enough where a female fan recognizes you in public
Oh wow! Get famous and it's easy to hook up! Who woulda' fucking thought, huh? Guys, this retard has cracked the fucking code.

>>512084332 (OP)
They're smiling at you. The faces look so inviting. Friendly, kind, caring.

You say hi. In an instant, their calm inviting aura disappears, as if they've seen a brood of maggots eating a dead animal.

You no longer exist. Somehow, without saying anything, you're invisible to these creatures.

>>512101126
Sounds like youre in a great spot anon, good stuff. If I can suggest anything go do a bootcamp with owen cook he might help you find a wife if thats your endgame with women. Im assuming you want to have kids and not fuck hookers the rest of your life. Otherwise carry on

>>512100837
>Hookers will corrupt your soul
Elaborate

>>512095511
>i would have been a virgin in the US.
I didnt understand this until I went to Europe. The first time I walked around and had girls smile at me, I literally thought I had something on my face because I never got positive reinforcement from random decently attractive women like that before. It was like I skin suited into a Chad just by getting on an airplane. Although that was in 2018 and apparently Europe is catching up to American hypergamy standards

>>512101775
lulz you sound like you suffer from NPD. Go and hit some LSD and DMT.

>>512101679

You could consider alcohol abuse. I started banging tons of women once I realized that the only way I could shut down my anxiety was with booze. I wouldn’t recommend it though since it led to me developing a severe drinking problem. Personally, I wish I were a bit younger. The Gen Z sluts don’t seem to be as harsh on awkward guys.

>>512084332 (OP)
I stopped going at a young age because I got tired of being groped by old boomer women

>>512101868
Nope and ive done plenty of shrooms and acid in my days

>>512101499
Yeah, and fucktons of them in the con community too. It's such a goddamn shame that so many women seem to be programmed to get wet over those guys, and it's not a recent thing either, my almost 80 year old boomer mom was into them too and just settled for my dad after hitting the wall.

I've got extra reason to hate those guys too because one of them sucked a close female friend of mine in, got her hooked on pills, and let her OD and die last December while he was partying with his friends in the next room. Super cute, smart, funny, overall great girl and even she couldn't resist a douchebag in eyeliner who knew just how to pick at her insecurities.

>>512084332 (OP)
>>512086893
>>512087384
>>512088611
>>512089817
>>512093987
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>>512101484
Total faggot thread. Imagine caring about this degenerate social minutiae of retarded blue pilled gay normies.

>>512101899
Brown rapists rule you

>>512101843
I noticed this when I was in Europe as well. This was back in 2013. Except Swedish women. Maybe that’s why white blonde women in the US are cunty.

>>512101440
>psychedelics are hard drugs
jesus christ you're retarded, are you a pajeet by chance? that would explain why no woman wants to go near you. It's all making sense now, I thought the flag meant yo uwere white m ybad

>>512101306
You're me. Im 6'3, decent looking, used to be low inhibition and slay, but a nasty breakup cooked my confidence levels out of orbit and did some nasty shit to my brain. Now I get nervous talking to old lady cashiers.

I even tried all the raved about anxiety drugs (phenibut, kratom, nardil, etc...) and they did fuck all. Never explored the SSRIs/SNRIs, but I'm not rolling the suicidal ideation dice over women. That's the bus stop I get off on, so it's pretty much GG. Social anxiety is a true dating nuclear blackpill, WAY more so than looks.

>>512102178
Swedish women only have eyes for somalis. Please understand

>>512084332 (OP)
You're a fucking moron, criticizing average guys for having no game and then admitting in the next greentext line that women are just trying to manipulate them for free stuff. Faggot.
>>512093567
Shut up jew. Women are Chad only and that excludes most guys.

>>512084332 (OP)
Average looking guy who's had success at a bar setting. Not a pro or someone who had it from the start. I have had to literally learn it like a lesson for a hard school project. I know PUA's are cringe but a not often cited statistics they have given out is that their methods rely mostly on numbers rather than sheer talent. If you talk to 10 women with some PUA tactics a success rate of 3 is considered average. It's literally a kind of spam. If you are relentless enough and hit on women consistently in different bars in several towns or even countries you will get laid multiple times. Another common misconception is that women are easier to talk to alone - they are actually easier to talk to in a crowd. You firstly address nobody in particular/the crowd and see which one is most interested and start hitting on her regardless if she is your best pick or actual target. If she responds well the others see you as validated and you have an in with them too so you can chat up the one you actually want.It's ok if you are a guy over 30 - old guys can and do get women. Seen it happen many times. Had random decent looking 20 something girl at bar discuss how she is really into an older guy she often sees from a far who is in his 50s - and No the guy being well off wasn't the main selling point. Finally - for women: virtuality better than reality. A world construct of beautiful images and words is better than her actual world. If you can construct such a frame for the world for a woman and keep updating it she will stick with you regardless of actual real life situations.

>>512102251
Not really. IF Swedish women go for black men, he’s probably an Instagram influencer on roids. The American variant is no different. Most of the time, they go for men who are very “hunky” with striking eyes and a square jaw. Men who look farm-raised but still can be a little bit of a college pop idol to a limited amount. This is also why you see so many white girls into pumpkin spice and wanting to take a wedding photo in a grass country field. The zoomer blondes are all blue jeans and white sneakers clones.

They’re the most “normal” women but require a hell of a lot of work on your part to attract them. Zero eccentric or nerdy interests whatsoever.

>>512101898
I've been in and out of that to some degree, but drinking never helped with that particular problem, I get drowsy and retarded way before the Zero System in my head that flashes simulations of every possible way I could humiliate myself in the encounter shuts off. The only thing that ever DID work for me was really good MDMA but I only ever got to do that a couple of times and one of them was ruined my my shitty friends' drama only a few minutes after I'd made out with a really hot Asian girl in a spin the bottle game. (Also it kinda fucked me over later when I was coming down and an inanely hot girl in a crotchless pikachu outfit and the smallest pair of panties I've ever seen in real life - this was at an anime con lol - came up to talk to me and I was way too out of it to do anything with the situation.

>>512101843
I don't know if I'm in a unicorn situation or what, and I don't know if it'd be the same in leafland, but maybe try getting out to a smaller city. I'd also only experienced stuff like that in other countries until I moved to where I am now, and it's been shocking how women act towards me here, I've had cute coffee drive thru girls pull me into 15 minute conversations, I get compliments every time I go out to a show or whatever, women come around the corner in the supermarket and smile when they make eye contact with me. Yesterday I had a pretty cute redhead around my age literally like... hooted? at me a couple of times and then gave me a suggestive l grin and I was so confused I just kinda nodded and walked by, plus she seemed to be with kids but later I realized that she was with a couple and was probably the wife's sister or something. I was wearing a cowboy hat and a decent outfit so getting noticed makes some sense there, but it was fucking wild, and thinking about it, that may have been the single most autistic thing I've ever seen a woman do in my life. It's different out here.

>>512084332 (OP)
Dude, who cares. Women are so fucking annoying with the stupid little mind games they make you play, and all them are practically guaranteed to have bpd...just wait for the robot girlfriends

>>512102419
Yeah the PUA thing is pretty much just cold call sales funnels but with women. The only problem is it takes tremendous effort cauterizing your anxiety with rejections to actually get the momentum going with spammed approaches, and the rust and social phobia build ridiculously fast if you stop. I've been isolated for like 2 years now so I'm in a brutal negative feedback loop

>>512102575
You went after shitty nerd and raver girls. They’re easy because all you have to do is bullshit by wearing kitty ears and paws or something. They’re shitty at the end of the day and nothing to brag about. Doesn’t matter how cute they look.

The body is cute but under the hood is a disaster.

>>512084332 (OP)
1/2.
It's insane reading a lot of this thread. I really feel sorry for a lot of you guys. As an old fag, I will tell you a few things from my experience.
1. Don't pick up women from bars. The type of women you actually want to have in your life aren't hooking up with random guys in bars and clubs.
2. Don't be a slob. Shave, get regular hair cuts, wear decent clothes, put on deodorant, take care of your appearance. This isn't about your looks, it's about your confidence. You will feel more confident as a man.
3. Women love confident men. This is not arrogant or pushy men, but truly confident men. Self assured in their own abilities and zero f&%ks given at the best of times. The really great women out there especially want a truly confident man, as they are also self confident.
4. Great women value Intelligence, a good sense of humour, self confidence and good manners over money and looks.
5. Be yourself. If you pretend to be something you are not to try and get a girl, you are setting yourself up for failure. Plus if you are self confident, you only ever have to be yourself.

>>512102575
I'm in a small town lel, it's dating hell if you go too rural. It's 100% jailbait and milfs, so I might have to go the cougar route to shake off the rust

>>512103219
2/2
6. Never chase a woman. Women that play those games aren't worth it. Its the attention they are after, not you, and they almost always have other guys they have chasing them too to maximise the attention they need to try and fill their insecurities.
7. Talk to women like they are people, not a goal, not a life support system for a vagina, not the queen of sheeba, not an inferior person and not a "woman". Just talk to the person.
8. Be direct as part of your communication style. This doesn't mean abrupt or rude or pushy. Don't hang out with a woman endlessly hoping it will go somewhere, or she is going to make the move. Once you know you are interested in the person enough to date, just state that. E.g. Ask them out to coffee or dinner or some drinks, and then clarify that you are asking them on a date so their is no confusion. This shows yoyr self confidence, but also makes clear your intentions from the start. This removes the risk of being friend zoned or ending up in a set of drawn out I.teractioms that go nowhere.
9. Be respectful. Respect yourself, respect others, respect a good woman. If you don't respect the woman you are trying to be with, you don't respect yourself.
10. Be a man. Have your house in order. Have a job or business. Have your bills paid. Have good credit. Have a nice wardrobe. Have good friends. Have a clean house / apartment. Have cooking skills. Have hobbies. A good man attracts good women by the way he conducts himself. They will come to you. They will see you are a man and not a man child like other men that have given them bad experiences. This is very attractive to a good woman.

>>512102236
Damn welcome to the club. I’m 6’2” and used to get a semi-decent amount of attention from women, but my confidence always got fucked because of my awkwardness. I’ve had sex with like 10 women, but could have easily been 5x that if not for my self esteem and awkwardness issues. It’s bad now because so many of my failures haunt me and its hard to shake all the regret and failure from my head. Could have married some pretty solid women if I played my cards right, but that ship has sailed being that I’m pretty much a 40 year loser at this point.

>>512103231
Might be too small, I'm in a 100k city, 250k county, and has the benefit of a big tourist industry. Big enough that there are reasons for a decent number of 20s/30s people to be around but small enough that the locals are desperate for new blood, I guess.

>>512102671
Some, yeah. Didn't have much of a better option though, I grew up in SoCal and never had a chance in the chad olympics that is trying to get normal women there.

>>512084332 (OP)
i dont like paying 20 times the price for a single drink when i can buy the drink at a grocery store. i dont like going in public bars where shitskins are free to walk in and shit up the place. i dont like approaching women who have an entitled sense of value that doesnt match their looks, covered in tattoo scribble and are carriers of at least 4 different STDs. i dont like going on roads traveled by shitskins.


i like staying at home and hanging out with my dog and going on nature walks by the river or reading books by the firepit instead. sorry i know i know i should but im just not gonna fund the kikes.

>>512084332 (OP)
Yep, getting laid in bars is easy. Literally all I had to do the other night was sit down and some drunk chick grabbed my hand and it put it on right her pussy to show she had never panties on. Happens all the time, pretty much weekly. Just dress like you’re rich, act like an arrogant and aloof asshole who knows he’s better than everyone, and pretend you’re as interested in their words and personalities as you are licking dog shit off of the floor and women will throw themselves at you.

>be me
>make this thread my personal blog
>do a thousand right swipes
>experience massive gains (a single match with pajeeta zoomer)
>drive across town to hookup
>arrive on site to find an old building with jeeta texting me that it's all female roomies with no male visitors allowed
>gotta be quiet and sneak in, advised to pretend I'm a delivery guy
>warned the landlord was onsite
>see the landlord outside and he's already spotted me with cell out snapping pictures
>see somebody peeking through the upstairs blinds
>jeeta texting me she's in the basement
>I nope the fuck out of there

>>512103960
They probably wanted to harvest your organs. I watched codex pajeet. Jeets do this.

I read a lot of this thread.
Any time someone claims x works, a bunch of other guys say it doesn't work.
Very confusing stuff.

>>512104165
Nothing works

>>512103231

>Get fit
>Get young girl
>Someone seethes
>Whoop his ass because you’re fit
>You win

I stopped going to bars for a long time due to cartel activity, kidnappings and random shootings, I guess places like UK is pretty safe

>>512103412
Just enjoy the ride fren. My notch count is well above the average to the point where my ego doesn't need further greasing, it's more just how wild it is to have lived on both ends of the slayer/awkward shut in spectrum and to now return to my highschool aspie phase kek. I also left some serious money on the table in terms of girls who I could've gotten more serious with, instead my dumbass chose the one who mentally eviscerated me. Definitely avoid the drug/alcohol copes, I'm 2 weeks into detoxing my GABA receptors and still feel slight shivers at night. Juden peterstein might be a lying scumbag, but his benzo withdrawal that put him into a coma was very real.

>>512103236
>Be like a married man with a house and everything before even starting the game
Just get a suburban life, bro.

>>512104165
Reading peoples advice in this thread, the most common advice, and I have to agree is very true from my own personal experience, is self confidence. Build yourself up so you are truly confident. It helps in every single part of your life.

>>512097806
None of the women I have been with ever gave a flying fuck about my money.

They did care about my most precious resource, time, however.

>>512087384
Person who hasn't been at a bar since 2007

>>512104300
If that what you took away from my advice, perhaps I didn't communicate effectively or you need to improve on your comprehension, because that is not the message at all in what I wrote.

>>512104368
Well said Swiss Anon.

>>512104368
They want to be the center of your attention. That's what they crave the most.

>>512094598

>No, a gym is not a good place, even if they like you

Why not anon

>>512104165
Most of the advice is by guys who reek of cologne and wear a Rolex acting like it’s 2009 in Los Angeles.

>>512104920
Perhaps that's just the lie you need to tell yourself.

>>512084332 (OP)
Shalom

>>512084946
Kemper was 6'9", I bet they loved him.

>>512089326
>30, going on 33
119 kb image, noticed the masonic psychological operation, as well as the number of the demon choronzon 333

>>512089326
BEGONE DEMON

>>512104234
Hmm, you make a genuinely compelling argument here. I'd be lying if I said the main barrier to asking the QT cashiers who flirt with me wasn't all the roughneck fuckers driving around in their jacked up F150s with a constant scowl on their faces. My neighbour's also a psycho ex felon who loves me, so all I'd have to do is drive home at the end of the day.
>>512084946
Fuck, now I need to watch the full show again. The pseudointellectual psychologist bitch really annoyed me though

>>512084332 (OP)
>girls will usually love bomb a guy she thinks she can get a free drink from (saw it happen multiple times tonight) and guy will fall for it

Wow OP that's so funny and cool and totally makes women seem fun, and makes me want to go outside.

You are such a dumb fucking simp it hurts. Imagine going outside just to get played. Fuck you

>>512105729
>Ill buy you a drink if you buy me one
The old PUA guys were cringe, but this line stuck with me forever. There's hidden gems in there past all the magician clothes and dyed nails

>>512089326
You kind of deserve it, eat shit

>>512099398

Yeah, gyms are the new nightclubs. I started attending one regularly and was surprised by the all of the foids trying to get my attention. From 18 yr old zoomettes to married women. They’re all looking for cock even though they say they’re not

I’m not even good looking and have a fat gut dad bod. But I’m taller than average and have a defined jawline and look like I could pin them down and rape them, so I guess that turns them on

>>512084332 (OP)
I've never pulled anything in my entire life, should I kill myself?
Never had a girl interested in me, they all looked at me like I'm a subhuman. If I kill myself right now nobody will care.
How do you guys get over anxiety and commit suicide? Is it all drugs, should I drug myself?

Recently a video went viral on social media of a hot blonde woman complaining that guys won’t approach her on her night out.

“Guys won’t pay attention to me tonight, I’m so f**king sick of this sh*t! Touch a boob, buy a drink… I mean it’s like very f**king simple!”
Girls like this get dolled up to go out, but no one even talks to them any more.

It gets at a core theme we return to a lot around here.

Women are horny.

Women want to f**k.

Women want you to approach them.
It’s not really a particularly “deep” point, but I emphasize it a lot because you literally need to program your subconscious to believe this, and to remember it.

And as any hypnotist will tell you, the best way to program the mind is through simple repetition.
Another great way you can program yourself to approach girls like this is to actually visualize yourself approaching them repeatedly before you go out, using the "Swoosh" pattern from NLP.

Anyway, something I learned early on is that when a woman is dressed like the girl in that video…

Tight cocktail dress…

Blowdried salon hair…

Bright colors…

She WANTS to be hit on and flirted with.

A woman only puts on a dress like that and spends hours doing her hair and makeup because she wants guys to approach her that night.

So when you see a woman looking like that, you HAVE to assume that’s a green light to approach.

Yet psychologically, for many guys, it’s the opposite.

A girl who looks like the one in the video is intimidating and scary, because she’s so hot.

She looks like the type of girl, who, because she’s so sexually desirable, could have any guy…

And so the average guy feels like he’s unworthy of her.
But even if that was true…

Even if she doesn’t ultimately “choose” you, as the guy to f**k that night…

Why not just approach her anyway?

Flirt. Have fun. Hit on her just for the pure f**king joy of it.

>>512099531
thats a lot of sperg

>>512084332 (OP)
lol
>>512085948
This
>>512099119
also this
clubbing and "bars" are basically going extinct and honestly im ok with it
good riddance

>>512104220
>Nothing works
I read that wearing a wedding band and carrying birthday gifts for young children works like a charm to attract the ladies.

>>512104220
Nothing works if you are ugly

>>512106267
Why are women so evil

>>512099277
My brother basically kicked me out of a place we shared so he could pull some pussy
its so true

>>512100673
its almost like women dont reward being a faggot. Another thing; if you look like something girls fuck then some of them will just fuck.

its like people just buy nikes because other people buy nikes

>>512106330
If he's actually your biological brother you should kill him. He betrayed you.

Actually fuck this gay society I hate everything about it. FUCK, suicide is the only way out of this piece of shit.

Kek you fucking losers are scared to approach women and have approach anxiety because youre coomers and jerk off to jewish porn. Cuntoids can smell it on you, they can smell your lack of testosterone you fucking autists.

Try refraining from masturbating and viewing porn for a few weeks and still see if you don’t want to go out and aggressively approach a pair of tit bags

>>512106332
>women fuck you if you are attractive
WOW dude, you should become a philosopher, no way. You have more high IQ input? You're a fucking genius.

>>512106370
Nah he is just younger and lacks real life experience.
I cried back then but now its funny to me.
I still mention it to him from time to time and he denies it happened

>>512106453
>Cuntoids can smell it on you
No, they look at your face and your body fat and if you're ugly they reject you.
That's all there is to it, your face. Also don't be 5'5 women don't like that.

>>512106494
You sound like a bitch. If my brother kicked me out of his house to fuck some bitch he's dead to me. We're never speaking again you're literally humiliating yourself.

>>512099569
How the FUCK did you decipher what he just said?
Three attempts at that garbled piffle and it still baffles me.

>>512106572
perhaps but karma is a thing
he will learn on his own

I genuinely hate contemporary society.
I wasn't conscripted for some stupid war like WW1 or WW2, but I also never felt the touch of a woman outside of prostitutes.
If you lost your v-card to a prostitute your life is over, you WILL kill yourself sooner or later.
I lost my virginity to prostitutes my life is over, that's the ultimate capitulation. Hope you incels kill women I'm done for.

i basically goto university, lift weights and my other hobby is plowing whores from the apps.

funny story.

>match with hole last night.
>2nd message is 'meet tomorrow' from her.
>oh fuck shes a prostitute
>keep chatting get her ph number
>not a prostitute
>tell hole lets meet monday night. do you send kid to dads house?
>"he won in court, has the kid permanently"
>kek
>3 hours go past. ok i need to ask her...
>"may i ask how he got custody?"
>no answer. deleted from tinder. no reply

dodged some kind of bullet

>>512106679
she wanted the dih not to catch up on life events kek

>>512106676
Karma doesn't exist you're coping.
If my cousin kicked me out to fuck some bitch I would never speak to him ever again, if it was my actual brother? No way he ever talks to me again.

>>512106729
no fucking shit but do you know what kind of fuck has to happen for a judge to give custody to father. drugs, abuse, mental shit

>>512086286
Can we get an English translation Bruce?

>>512084936
what about touchy feely arthoes, how do you know whether they're grabbing your chest,hip platonically or flirtatiously?

>>512106893
They wanna fuck you. Also I never had any arthoe doing that, you should kill yourself.
I hope you get conscripted and killed on camera for us normalfag. I will laugh to your death or your loved ones.

>>512089326
Nah by 30 you should have bought a windowless cargo van and be less afraid of law enforcement when you’re out “getting pussy.”

Everyone tries to get it on the roasties’ terms but you can think outside the box (inside the van) and get results. What’s the clear rate on rape in the average metro downtown anyway?

>>512107113
hey Jeff

>>512107113
>Nah by 30 you should have bought a windowless cargo van
Nice by 30 you should go to prison and get anally raped. Amazing how didn't I think of this, I'll just rape some bitch and go to prison.

>>512106883
In Australia "poker machines" or "pokies" are officially termed gaming machines. Australian-style gaming machines frequently use video displays to simulate physical reels, usually five. These machines have additional bonusing and second-screen features such as free games and bonus levels.

>>512106893
let me tell you a story

>be in uni
>have a friend with a band
>does recreational weed (its his style)
>gets art hoe
>super fine bitch straight form the theater department
>hits all her holes 20 times a day
>he calls me up at band practice once
>band is there, even the art hoe
>drink some beers, laugh
>everyone watches how this girl hooks up with the drummer french tonguing him in the throat
>friend is high but realizes what is going on
>uwu sorry i was drunk
>they have on and off relationship
>they start doing lsd together
>she has spiritual awakening
>fast forward this girl turned into butch lesbian
>goes on a rave tour across Germany
>evolves into a transgender
>parents kick her out
>sister kicks the shit out of her
>she goes on TV still bruised to tell her story to the whole nation

art hoes not even once