>>512266559It's alright fren.
I hope that by talking about it here, you anons notice and help when it's happening to other kids.
Single motherhood is the hardest obstacle I've had to navigate in my life, and it's over now.
I brought my brother out west and nobody told me he was a drug addict or a kleptomaniac, so when he started stealing from me and fucking with my living situation, it wasn't his fault because he's a drug addict or a theif, it's mine "because I should have known"
They won't tell you, they will set you up for failure and then blame you.
To this day every excuse is made for him, olive branches are extended but I'm looked at as irredeemable filth because I "think I'm better than them"
You win by abandoning them in their old age when they look to you for help.
I gave up helping my mom with her farm because she wouldn't let me mow the grass, but wants all these things done, and anytime I start she has all these fucked up rules and stipulations that only exist to prevent me from accomplishing the task.
She literally wants me to suffer and be eaten by ticks all day, and walk on broken pallets and constantly fall through them because "we can't afford to mow the grass,"
It's unreal. I'm expected to memorize the location and contents of 40 seacans, but she can't even keep track of basic tools and I spend so much time moving things around and playing Tetris because she's a hoarder that nothing can ever be accomplished.
I dropped 10k+ in materials off and asked her to put a tarp over it, she didn't and now their ruined. She does shit like this to punish me and frustrate me so I just went no contact after reading about child abuse.
The deciding factor was finding out a few people in my family were sexual predators and preyed on others, and covered for eachother while persecuting me for far less severe things.
Chlorine gas is the only way to deal with people like that.