>Mother-in-law staying with us for 2 weeks; she's supposed to be staying with wife's brother, but he decided he "forgot" he had a work trip planned so last minute she stays with us
>Every day she does stupid shit that is either "she's just an old lady!" (she's only 61...) or "well, you didn't say not to do it!", i.e. bringing a whole bunch of plates and cups and utensils from wife's brother's house that are all cheap IKEA shit with scratches all over them and mixing them in all our dishes and plates and cutlery
>Every time I'm in the shower I suddenly get blasted with boiling hot or freezing cold water b/c the mother-in-law decides to start doing something retarded like cleaning out the kettle or dumping 20L of water to wash a single spoon
>Today I take our dog for a walk and he steps in another dog's diareah, so I rush him home to throw him in the shower and wash him
>Mother-in-law decides to do her laundry right when I'm in the shower with him and suddenly blasted by boiling hot water; I make the decision to throw dog out first and then follow him, so I get scolded on my back
>No apology, no care, just told "you're always so angry! Don't yell at my mother!" because I told the dumb bitch to stop running the fkn water while I'm in the shower
>Wife's dad rings me up to give me "the talk" about how his wife is a retard and maybe I should turn the hot water down at the boiler while she's staying with us

So /pol/, why are you guys all cring about wanting a wife and being lonely and shit? You do know you have to put up with retard shit like this, yeah?

>Dipshit inlaw parents you HAVE TO show respect to
>Inlaw brothers/sisters who constantly ask for favours and act like you owe them something
>If you do anything wrong you have to apologize to wife, if she does something wrong "period/just a woman/didn't know"
>Have to go to bed same with time her. If you stay up even an hour after she goes to bed you hear about it for weeks how "you're always up so late!"

>all that shit
>by you
Didn't read

>>512276697 (OP)
What are you bitching about, fag? Don't answer. This is rhetorical. I don't give a shit.

>>512276697 (OP)
Marriage is slavery. Even if you have "kids" they grow up and leave and you are then left living with a mental menopausal cunt.

>>512276697 (OP)
What's the alternative? Eternal loneliness?

>Every time I'm in the shower I suddenly get blasted with boiling hot or freezing cold water b/c the mother-in-law decides to start doing something retarded like cleaning out the kettle or dumping 20L of water to wash a single spoon
>Mother-in-law decides to do her laundry right when I'm in the shower with him and suddenly blasted by boiling hot water; I make the decision to throw dog out first and then follow him, so I get scolded on my back

I thought this sort of stuff only happened in Somalia or Gaza lmao how is your shower temperature not independent from the other system how poor are you exactly? Can’t blame your mother in law for anything. I’d never except the water heat at one outlet affecting the others in a first world nation only if I was visiting a refugee camp or something.

>>512277244
won't be eternal, but I think that would be preferable.

>>512276858
This unironically. The point of marriage is not to be fun or even easy. It is to reproduce and cement your legacy in this world.

>>512276697 (OP)
>Wife's dad rings me up to give me "the talk" about how his wife
Too bad he didn't give you this talk before you married their daughter, huh? Have fun, stay strong.

>>512276697 (OP)
She is a narcissist anon.

Ask your wifau about if she did this to her as a child, knowing is half the battle.
The other half is cutting them out of your life.

>>512277617
No, these are deliberate actions.
Narcs do this shit all the time if they decide in their mind your not doing something/the right thing.

Instead of telling you, or asking you politely to not take 10 minute showers, when you step into one they walk into the kitchen, turn the tap on and this causes you to either get frozen or burned because of how plumbing works in 1980-2015., and they do this to "teach you a lesson". When they "get away" with being a sadistic fuck to you and being challenged on it, the dopamine release their brain gives them is comparable to injecting heroin, and the feedback loop this causes when their brain rewards them for sadistically harming people is why I was terrified to have my hair cut until I was an adult.

Their the kind of people who will use dull hair clippers to torture people, then claim "they didn't know".
"Nobody told me"
And then repeatedly hit your ears over and over again just to cause you pain, and tell you it's your fault for not keeping still.


Anon, the only way to deal with that fucking miserable cunt is to grab a leather belt, and swing until you can't feel your arm.

>>512276697 (OP)
if you don't like it get your own place

>>512276697 (OP)
>>Every time I'm in the shower
Bath is superior, showers are for utter poorfags

>>512278725
A simple solution would be for OP to tell her not to turn on the taps just before he takes a shower.
Annoying, but that's old women. Annoying.
He could also disable the other taps in the house before taking a shower.

>>512276697 (OP)
You married roastie and surpised that you have to deal with roastie shit?

>>512278406
Kek, it's going to be hilarious when anon kills himself because none of his grandkids call him or visit, and his wife tortures him as a fun pass time.
My grandfather killed himself to get away from her, but oh do I ever have fond memories of him poking fun at me, life must have gotten pretty unbearable for him once I left and she didn't have anyone to harm.


She's currently torturing a veteran with the same clippers she used to terrorize me and her dead husband with, on-top of cutting my brothers hair in his sleep after being told multiple times by multiple people he doesn't need, or want a hair cut.

Then she takes it upon herself to "prove them wrong" and cuts their hair in their sleep.
That's what your dealing with anon, go spend a few hours on Reddit reading the "raised by narcicsts" sub, then ask your wife about her behavior towards her and her husband, then make the conscious decision on if you want to endure that for the next 30 years, and the generational trauma being with someone who endured that he'll comes with.


Hard mode: they are already brainwashed into "letting" her harm other people.
>Aslong as it isn't them.


t. Has lived to see narc made horrors beyond your favorite saw film.
Realtalk, if you try to convince a child to donate their organs to showcase how nice they are, while refusing to provide the basics of life and crying their "too expensive" you belong in a concentration camp and being fed a diet of belt whips to the face.

New Jeetcel thread just dropped!

>>512276697 (OP)
You can always try to anonymously pay bunch of shitskins to murder her

>>512278884
Hahahah, no that's not how that works in real life. Your dealing with a narc.

If you tell them you are allergic to peanuts, they will crush them up and feed them to you to prove to you you aren't. Then when you go blue in the face they throw up their hands and say "well I didn't know"


The only way to deal with them is repeated blows to the face and physically conditioning them into feeling pain when they even think of playing their narc games.
But to OP, read
>>512278725

You are anon, I don't want you to go through what I and alot of my NC family members did. You can't ever win against these people, you have to either kill them or abandon them.

>she's supposed to be staying with wife's brother, but he decided he "forgot" he had a work trip planned


Send him a DM and ask if he was ever abused, or treated as if he was less than a human being by his mother, or constantly gaslit and told he was the problem, ect ect.


Read the Raised by narcicsts sub on Reddit too to see other behaviors and fun games they like to play.

t. Watched mine feed my cousin dog food, and then later fed me reason bran with bugs in it and claiming "she didn't know" with a huge smile on her face.
The lengths these people go to to fuck you over are why I support the use of chemical weapons against them, it's bad anon.

>>512276697 (OP)
The father in law is semi correct about the boiler thing, if that’s what you have. It should be set to 160, you don’t need 210 tap water

>>512279318
>Then when you go blue in the face they throw up their hands and say "well I didn't know"
ur kinda dum anon.
At that point you have very good grounds for either escalating or convincing wifey that the whore is doing it intentionally.

>>512279432
>that the whore is doing it intentionally.


She is, and that's what OP needs to know.
I've lived it dude, I know how fucked these people are.

>>512276697 (OP)
>Today I take our dog for a walk and he steps in another dog's diareah, so I rush him home to throw him in the shower and wash him

you take showers with your dog? whats wrong with you?


>If you do anything wrong you have to apologize to wife, if she does something wrong "period/just a woman/didn't know"
i wouldn't be able to engage in such a relationship..
tbf this would of been hashed out the first month of the dating phase.. why would you allow for this?
better not say 'its just easier'

>>512277617
This is Australia a lot of homes have "instant" hot water meaning a gas fired heater that fires up when you turn the hot tap on anywhere in the house. If someone else in the house turns their hot tap on, the pressure in the heated line drops in half. So in the shower, the cold line over-powers the hot line. Vice versa for cold water.

Have you ever been forced to eat years old expired food, or given food from the microwave it was so hot it burned your taste buds off to the point you have used a microwave less than 30 times as an adult aside from popcorn?

They do it deliberately.

>>512279878
I’ve dealt with cluster B personality disorder types before but you, specifically, seem to be dealing with a special category of cruel and/or totally retarded that is not indicative of the normal patterns of behavior.

>>512277679
You're so fucking dumb. You speak entirely in platitudes

>>512279631
this. unless you have a step in shower why are you doing that? you dont have to get in the tub with your dog lmao. also you can just hose them off outside

>>512276697 (OP)
>Wife's dad rings me up to give me "the talk" about how his wife is a retard
Kek he really said that?

>>512277679
tell me all you can about your great-grandparents? what is their legacy? what were their political beliefs? what values did they hold? what were their childhoods like? what did they do for a living?
the vast majority of people, nearly everyone not in some elite class, know nothing of their lineage. they are not even phantoms. their names have been forgotten, their graves unvisited and likely non-existent.

99.99% of people is like they never existed. and the remainder, if the greatest of us all will join us in total oblivion..
eventually the entire species will be destroyed or morph into forms so unrecognizable our current state will seem like animals to them.
eventually the universe will go cold and all of infinite we will remain in oblivion.

this desire for 'legacy' is just an abstraction to make sense of our biological imperative to breed. there is a reason why women largely do not have this same drive, because they are not constructed in the same way.