>>512600116 (OP)I'm torn on the issue. I don't mind when my friends get tattoos, I will even compliment if the art is good (but I think tats look ugly because they blend into a mess from afar), I don't find them attractive on women, but... I'm fat, losing weight, even if I achieve my goal weight, I'll still have reminders on my body of the past abuse. So it's unfair of me to expect my potential wife to have never commited an error in life. So I've decided that if the tattoo is in a normal place, is not retarded, and she regrets getting it, then I'd forgive her on the condition she doesn't get any more. Of course she'd need to be a virgin so it's like looking for a unicorn, I'm just pondering ideals, not whores.