>>512661834 (OP)chad here, i just make it very clear from the getgo that i dont take them seriously at all. and that i won't chase them and will ghost them in a heartbeat.
they hate and love this kind of energy. they are used to pathetic sycophantic men kissing their ass 24/7 and trying to weasel their way into their pussies. dont be like those men. even if you dont get to fuck her at least you will retain your dignity.