she told me last night that she felt i wasn’t being completely open in the relationship. so here are things i feel i cannot tell her:
1.i can’t sincerely say that i love her
2.i can’t say that she is a person that really attracts me
3.i’m with you because i didn’t have another option
4.i’m with you because i can assure a periodic sexual satisfaction
5.i feel that you love me more than i do you
6.i think you could dress better
7.it’s a factor to a certain degree that your family is wealthy; it can be beneficial to me
8.the fact that you’re a virgin makes me think that it guarantees a permanence in the relationship
9.i feel that you would probably be lesbian if it weren’t for me
just to clarify she is a 6/10.

>>513625680 (OP)
Who gives a fuck you sound gay

not your blog, faggot
your girlfriend is a man

1.i think it can change in the future. simply right now i’m not in love yet. i think i’m willing to leave behind my dream of being with a really attractive woman
2.when i meet women, some catch my eye. i can’t say that this happened with you. i never had fantasies with your image
3.when we started going out i saw myself as a tired bird that needed to land.
4.the fact of having guaranteed sexual satisfaction really interests me. being faithful is the only condition
5.the previous relationship i had, where i was really into a girl, it’s obvious that i liked her more than she liked me. in this case it’s the opposite.
6.this really isn’t necessary to express.
7.you have a very nice apartment, your father has taken care of it. in the future i could probably take advantage of your economic status in some way that i still can’t really know.
8.i think that the fact you haven’t had a partner before guarantees to a certain degree not being compared.
9.i think you haven’t had such a good experience with men.
when i asked you out, i was in a weird moment in my life. i was impulsive and regretted it shortly after. i didn’t want to hurt anyone but i followed the flow of my actions until i reached a place where the situation felt pleasant to me. i have an erratic way of being that makes women lose interest, besides my situation of being made up of mostly dreams.

>>513625762
>>513625772
help an anon out. i’m somewhat distressed

>>513625680 (OP)
Politics?

>>513625884
i always come to pol for relationship advice
kek
i also add a lot to political discourse when it is worth it
interact with an authentic user

>>513625680 (OP)
Stable relationship right here
If you were head over heels infatuated w her then you’d simp out and she’d leave you when she got tired of you. Even if you don’t simp out, she’d still leave you when she got tired of you.
The only way to keep a woman around is the situation you’ve currently got.
Ask her to run errands and do things for you, and let the natural order take shape. Give her comfort and security and she may surprise you by adding value in ways you did not see coming.
And if she goes crazy and leaves you anyway? Remember this post, you were never really that into her.

>>513625680 (OP)
2 choices

1. Take a risk, end it. Accept you might not find someone better, but if you don't try you definitely won't.
2. Keep a relationship you're not really into for security reasons.

>>513626143
>Ask her to run errands and do things for you, and let the natural order take shape. Give her comfort and security and she may surprise you by adding value in ways you did not see coming.
this is what i’ve been doing (minus the errand stuff) and it’s been great. simply last night she told me how she felt i was hiding things which i certainly am. i did not want to simply blatantly lie to her so i remained silent (i was also very tired).
i’m thinking about what i want to tell her but i don’t want to hurt her
:(

:vomits:

>>513626335
i want to keep it to be with someone, although this is evidently selfish
i guess i should leave her…

>>513626414
what in my situation repulses you?

>>513626143
These are good points too