How am I meant to tolerate the hideousness of modern life? How can I learn self approval instead of external approval?

>>513684726 (OP)
acquire firearms and train in the battles of the food wars all will be redeemed

>>513684726 (OP)
I found out recently that I only feel alive when I am in a conflict. Arguing, fighting physically, etc
You won’t really know your worth until you are tested. I am full of doubts and sad thoughts when I am not doing that. It feels sweeter than any validation you could ever receive

>>513684726 (OP)
I use drugs and video games

>>513684726 (OP)
Move to Israel and promote diversity and mass immigration

Humans are literally hard-wired for external validation because we are a social species and we never existed in a vacuum. If you fucked up, or if you were weird, you were excluded from the tribe, and your genetic lineage died. Multiple this by millions of times over millions of years.

The people telling you to "love yourself first" and "seek self-approval inwards" are essentially telling you to gaslight yourself and isolate yourself so that their reproductive chances are better. The same goes for women who are told by therapists to go to movie theaters alone or go on walks because it's brave. It's a global competition strategy to make you more isolated and ergo less reproductively successful.

Sigma grindset males who tell you to work out for 2 years before you start dating, or just be as weird as possible, stop caring what others think, are literally trying to sabotage you so the dating market is easier for them. This is biological, instinctual and often subconscious.

>>513684726 (OP)
Prepare anally for the apocalypse.
Also, if you tolerate/acclimate to the hideousness of modern life then you become part of the disease.
>needing to learn self approval
NGMI junior... It's far too late to be asking such stupid questions.

>>513685060
Okay but if you give that power away to others then you are at their mercy. You should think about this. Loving yourself first allows you to be of service to others.

>>513685411
Why is it stupid.

>>513684726 (OP)
you should probably kill yourself, now. you are clearly too mentally weak for what happens next, if THIS is your mental limit.

>>513684726 (OP)
>how can I learn self-approval?
Work on the things that actually bother you.

>hate being fat
Lose weight

>hate being poor
Make more money

>social anxiety
Find a hobby that allows for light socializing, so you're at least trying to socialize with people who have an incentive to not be a dick to you

>>513685582
I don’t have social anxiety so much as I don’t like interacting with people.

>>513684726 (OP)
Other people are able to do it fine I think for them they just have the correct external drivers so they never realize it. I have been trying to understand this but haven't been able to find much any time I try to motivate myself I always have to try use some reward after. I haven't been able to find much that works. And that to fix that I think I would need to change a a lot of deep seeded subconscious beliefs but idk how to do that. idk I also heard about hypnosis also but don't know shit about it.

study the timeless classics, they transport you to a healthier time

https://icescape.org/Library.html

you don't tolerate the wickedness that is modern life, you look beyond it, to the future

this too shall pass (but it will get worse first)

https://pol.foundation/Happening.html

>>513684726 (OP)
read zhuangzi
self approval vs external approval is an illusion anon. The entire framework of "approval" is a subject/object structure. To approve of yourself you have to bifurcate yourself into the judge and the judged. The only thing you need to do is stop caring about external approval. Once that goes away, the fracturing is resolved and there is no more problem. You are a natural being. You are not obligated in any way. God never came down and told you what to do. When he does, you'll have something to think about. Until then, just stop giving a fuck. People are absolutely retarded. This world and its expectations are built by these retards and not even in some attempt at a planned organized system - just as a result of the accretion of one generation's retardation piled on the old generation's retardation over and over again for all history. Just think about that and realize there is no reason whatsoever you should give a FUCK about any of these structures or expectations. For real. It's an idiot world.
>>513684812
bpd
>>513685060
npc

>>513686569
I was recently watching Christopher Hitchens on YouTube. His antitheist point about having no privacy if there is a god gives me peace of mind knowing that I can have my own private sphere that is all my own which will never be intruded upon.

>>513686959

in Hinduism they say "Namaste" which means "I bow to the God in you". God sees through your eyes too, there is no escaping your conscience. so, be good.

>>513685507
Before I answer that idiotic fucking "question", you should know you're clearly not capable of thinking for yourself, just like the rest of your breed (dead beats born after 1990), by virtue of asking these simple questions that you should be asking and answering yourself and only yourself. Why did you make this thread? Are you lonely and desperately making conversation? These are personal internal dialogue questions you should be asking yourself in the mirror, so to speak. Or maybe literally. Instead you're too fucking lazy to think, just like the rest of your breed. You don't care to teach yourself to think. If thinking is too painful for you, then stay retarded on your own time instead of looking for others to fill in your answers and wasting people's time, fuckgoof.


>Why is it stupid.
It's stupid because you fucking put a period at the end of a question... god damn you zoomers are retarded as shit.

YOUR SPERM ARRIVED TOO LATE TO THE PARTY. THE 90'S ARE OVER AND THE POOL PARTY IS CLOSED.

>>513686856
>bpd
Based pussy destroyer? How did you know?

>>513685060
>Sigma grindset males who tell you to work out for 2 years before you start dating, or just be as weird as possible, stop caring what others think, are literally trying to sabotage you so the dating market is easier for them. This is biological, instinctual and often subconscious.
no its to save sadsack losers who don't have a hope already not for normies who can't get a date. Get jacked, stop giving a fuck works remarkably well for weirdos, I've rehabilitated a few tards.

>>513684726 (OP)
Move to a small town, support yourself, go to church, find a loyal woman north of mid, raise a family

>>513687017
>you're just on here trying to have a conversation for entertainment
>but me? ohhohooo I on the other hand am saving the world or some shit
you're not is the thing

>>513686856
Your post is the prime example of cope. Have sex/friends/success and the world suddenly seems to be paradisaic.
>>513685060
This. Mate guarding is real.

>>513684726 (OP)
Learning to tolerate it is the wrong answer. It shouldn't be tolerated.

>>513684726 (OP)
BREAK THE CONDITIONING
simple as.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bPcgoaZjsu8

>>513685454
>>513686856
>>513687121

The reason I posted that image of the roastie getting fucked while pretending to be a sweet girlfriend is literally the reason why external validation is hardwired into our brains.

The most ardent of self-love spiritualists hate that image because it refutes every single one of their points. Men are literally uncomfortable with fucking a woman who has been with a lot of men. Even if she is objectively attractive.

The sigma male grindset people should be fine and not give a fuck what other people think, but they never do, because we don't exist in a vacuum. All of us, every single one, wants to fit in and be like the rest, no matter how hard you cope.

>>513684726 (OP)
Approval is unnecessary. Life goes on without any approval and so will you, approval means nothing. The people approve of releasing the Epstein files, does it mean they are out? No.

If you are female or a weak man, you will be predisposed to this mindset for life unless you are exceptional.

>>513687646
I didn't say the world is bad. I said the structures of obligations and expectations created by stupid people aren't something you should concern yourself with.

>>513687865

okay but 'fitting in' is not always what you think it is. we don't just fit in laterally, men are hierarchical

a leader must reconcile himself with God, then he can be responsive to the people without losing himself

>>513685454 is right

Exit society, indulge in escapism and become a NEET. Leach off anyone you have to, fuck normalfags.

>>513684726 (OP)

>>513687865
>>513688073

in other words, not just "external validation" is hardwired into our brains. internal validation is also hardwired into our brains. we are manifestations of the universe itself, we embody the laws that determine everything. universe - uni means 1. externality is illusion on the most fundamental level. other people are elements of the system, but they are not the ultimate arbiters of you. your own conscience is. your conscience takes them into account but the equation is more than just them. it is you and them and how everything works together in perfect harmony

>>513684726 (OP)
Life is passing us by

>>513684726 (OP)
I suggest not being a false-identity, fifty-cent skank and somehow acquiring some integrity, Sabrina Carpenter?

The influence you wielded solely dueo to your appearance and guile is so telling, besides being an affront to existence itself...

>>513688277
What?