>>516699259
the friendship-pill is honestly the best method for girls like that.
there's a girl I know who collects orbiters like crazy. She's incredibly nice, and overall a really cool person with awsome hobbies and personality, but with how much baggage and chaos that follows her, pursuing any form of relationship with her is a terrible idea (especially with how many guys are trying to get at her at once). When I was first getting to know her I drew a line in the sand for myself that I wouldn't EVER try for any romance with her even if either of us developed feelings, and that she would be a friend to me ONLY.
I keep her at a bit of a distance and stand up for myself first and foremost.
She actually paid me 200 dollars in gas money to visit her during a discord server irl meetup and it actually went really well and are still friends. Might go see her and some of the homies in October soon.
She's like a cat covered in razorblades.
I love cats.
I love spending time around cats.
But I'm not going to pick her up and pet her because one or both of us is going to get severely injured.
It's also really funny watching the orbiters get mad at me for her treating me nice because I'm actually a friend. I feel bad for some of them sometimes because they don't realize as soon as you get close to her things will fall apart immediately, I've seen it happen to multiple guys.
I can chill and hang out with her for a female perspective while romantically pursuing other women that are more put-together.