Thread 519594976

is marriage worth it in 2025?

>>519594976 (OP)
statistically, in the West ? absolutely not
you'll get divorced and raped by judges
+ your pic is also a valid concern

>>519594976 (OP)
>>519595123
Don't even need to marry her or live with her if you give her enough money a judge will still declare you a "caregiver"

>>519594976 (OP)
a hole is a hole

>>519594976 (OP)
This picture is 10 years old and it’s only gotten worse since then.

50% chance you'll lose half your shit and have to pay child support for 18 years

spooky

>>519596027
You say that, but some holes should never be entered.

>>519594976 (OP)
Being with someone and not being married can still cause massive disputes in court over who owns what, whereas if you were married there's actually a degree of protection for you
If your girlfriend of 10+ years suddenly decided to change the locks of the house you both live in together, the police will tell you to leave and accuse you of trespassing, and access to your own goods would be disputed
Meanwhile you have to hire an expensive solicitor while she sells all of your shit and lives in a house you've bought together
She ironically could not do this if you were married though, something like a joint account isn't bothered with between two unmarried individuals so your girlfriend could drain it if you split up, but if she did this while you were married she'd get into shit for it
At least that's how things work in the UK
I'm not advocating for marriage though, just saying, marriage can be helpful sometimes
The ideal situation is never getting married and keeping records of everything you own, and never mingling your money with hers, so she can never stab you in the back
There's nothing you could do to stop her changing the locks and then telling the police you were abusing, forcing them to treat you like a criminal until you were proven innocent and ordering you to leave your own property though
It's fucked and jewish no matter what way you slice it really, if you let someone inside your walls they become a potential risk, so its up to you to make a proper risk assessment and decide if things are worth it
Good luck doing that when women are ticking time bombs most of the time

>>519596286
Maybe government shouldn't be involved in marriage at all. I've always been socially libertarian about these kind of issues.

>>519594976 (OP)
Divorce is a thing. If I came home and everything was fucked up and there was that fat pig on the couch, I'd divorce her immediately.

>>519594976 (OP)
It can be but not everyone finds someone who they click with? Well, lots of long-lasting couples say they had rough patches (or brain worms as the kids say) to get through to make it that far.
In the case of the girl I like she's more prone to being a mental mess than a physical one (she cleans to sort out her head, interestingly). Yet, I'm close to retiring early so I might as well not ask her out until I have enough for us to be set for life.
>pic
Although as an eldest sibling and an older sibling figure to many sloppy friends over the years, I can't say I'd like it get that bad. Even when I did 13-hour days I was not procrastinating on chores.
'Course you want to avoid spoiling a person, but it's easy enough to teach someone to do little bits of chores while their next meal is warming up. Not that I underestimate how unwell in the head people can become.

Recently divorced. No alimony or child support because she didn’t want me to end up like her dad, poor asf. Right now though I’m getting a lawyer to make sure my rights for 50/50 custody are secure in the future because the bitch wants to take my daughter to follow her in her career. Daughter did only a toddler and I have her full time currently because ex is in another country for work. Marriage isn’t worth it, I feel sorry for my kid as I am trying to make her life secure and stable.

>>519594976 (OP)
I'm 40 and never even kissed a womsn. I'm so fucking lonely.

>>519597201
get a hooker retard.

>>519594976 (OP)
I would unironically set my house on fire and bail to another country

>>519597529
I'd call her a lazy fat fucking bitch. Because that's what she is. I'd also throw that fucking phone she's on. I'd smash that fucker with a hammer.

>>519594976 (OP)
What's the prize, what is there to win?

>>519594976 (OP)
People need to understand the fundamental differences between a wedding and a marriage, the wedding is the event but the marriage is a sacrament. It's a very serious thing and you have to be disciplined and you both need to work together.

>t. 40 year old married boomer

>>519596072
its haunted

nobody is permitted to leave this thread until looking at OPs picture you can see it

>>519597849
Yes we can see the ghost. Very spooky.

marriage was almost never worth it

>>519594976 (OP)
I don't use my phone at all...probably because I have no friends and no job and no life.

>>519597473
>hooker will cure your loneliness

not sure it works that way, champ

>>519598045
i was talking about the fat lady

>>519597201
Search up the YouTube channel “John Anthony lifestyle”. By far the best pickup channel

>>519594976 (OP)

Marriage is worth what you marry. If you get married to a hog, you're a retard for complaining that you come home to a pig pen. If you can marry a good woman who wants to have lots of children, submit to her husband and stay together for life, then you hit the marriage jackpot, but DESU even then you're going to be a miserable wage slave for the rest of your life, so who cares if you're clapping trad wife puss here and there? You're getting financially raped by kikes and niggers 24/7.

>>519597529
>the Muslim solution

>>519598459
Nah I've given up. What would picking up some slut achieve? I want connection, intimacy, affection.

>>519598561
get the lasse

>>519594976 (OP)
In Afghanistan, yeah.

>>519598459
>ai slop
>clickbait titles

>>519594976 (OP)
no. never.

>>519594976 (OP)
>tlingit art on printer paper tacked to a wall
Yeah that fits. Fucking chugs.

>>519598073
>marriage was almost never worth it
yes, but neither is drinking, and we still do that.
>>519597692
>It's a very serious thing and you have to be disciplined and you both need to work together.
Amen. My wife was bothered when a week before we were wed, I said "Marriage is when the worst will happen to you." 11 years later, she appreciates those words.
>t. 30something married boomer
>>519598561
You're lonely at 40 for the same reasons women get frustrated being childless at the same age. What was so important in 2005 that kept you from feeling the same way? /adv/ has been there for relationshit since 2010- so for at least 15 years, what's the excuse?

>>519594976 (OP)
roasty is surfing instagram and compliments her gigachads while hubby is just the gold donkey retard who thinks she gives a fuck. she obviously doesnt and never will.

>>519598553
He didn't mention any zuttening though?

>>519594976 (OP)
Literally just don't let her. Berate the fuck out of her for it. I had to do this 4ish years ago with my gf and it worked. She was out of work for a couple months and would stay up all night in the living room watching garbage TV and shoveling candy down her throat. I'd come out in the morning and there was trash everywhere and the room actually stunk. I just sat her ass down one day after getting home from work. Told her she was becoming absolutely fucking repulsive and if she was just gonna eat herself into obesity (she had already put on probably 10 pounds of pure junk food induced fat) that I was not gonna come home from work one day and that would be that. She cleaned her shit up IMMEDIATELY and I've never had to do it again since. You have WAY more control over their behavior than you've been led to believe. Most of them really do need some sort of guidance.

>>519594976 (OP)
This made me panic, my wife isn’t fat but she is lazy and our house is messy like this. Hopefully just because we have 2 young kids…

>>519594976 (OP)
Maybe just don't marry a fat ugly slob in the first place? That being said, no, marriage is not "worth it", never has been and never will.

>>519604237
Lmao having 2 young kids or 10 young kids is no excuse for your house to be overflowing in garbage. Your wife might be lazy but you are clearly lazy too, if not your house would never look like that. Disgusting npc behaviour.

>>519596027
I'd rather put a hole in my head from a firearm than live with that. And I sincerely mean this.

>>519594976 (OP)
There are married men who post on /pol/

>>519594976 (OP)
Just look at what women watch for entertainment and you will see that not only is it not worth it, but that there are an unlimited amount of resources being pooled into convincing them to be horrible monsters.

>>519596072
What about the ghost kid beside the pile of laundry
Wonder what he's up to these days

>>519597201
I know the feeling
I haven't had a girlfriend since high school
For me, the thought that I have to deal with all that bullshit just to have some companionship (never mind sex) is just unthinkable
Especially now
Even a younger woman would be difficult
Since they're dumb and don't know anything and have no experience in life
Your loneliness would subside a little but your stress would skyrocket

>>519597473
soulless idiot

>>519605121
hory shet never noticed that before

>>519594976 (OP)
>marrying someone who lives like this
Got what you signed up for award

>>519596286
>If your girlfriend of 10+ years suddenly decided to change the locks of the house you both live in together, the police will tell you to leave and accuse you of trespassing

Notary if you buy, lease agreement if you rent. Bare minimum. Is it not a legal requirement where you live?

>>519594976 (OP)
Only in societies that respect patriarchy, like orthodox jews, amish, muslim countries etc.

In "1st world" if you are a man, marriage is only an easy way to fuck up your life.

I live like this pig but at leas im self-conscious and dont want to scam anyone by engaging in fake relationships