Why don't NEETs and Incels just invest their time into something productive? You're broke, you have no relationship, you don't have a job, kid's, responsibilities, etc. Why not invest your time into learning a new language, working out, going back to school, or just anything which might be able to improve your life? Of course you aren't going to be able to get a girlfriend if you aren't even doing the basics, and when you're wasting your time on 4 Chan.

>>81467348 (OP)
not a neet anymore but I went to community college and dropped out cuz of mental issues
people here are just fundamentally broken
I think I need therapy

>problem
>why not just solve the problem?
holy shit people are retarded

>>81467362
>I think I need therapy
Real.

>>81467348 (OP)
If it was that easy everyone would do it. Everyone thinks they could get out of homelessness or be a super badass during an invasion but not everyone can.

>>81467348 (OP)
after my first stint of NEETdom I spent 8 years improoooooving, only to end up a NEET with student debt

>>81467348 (OP)
Incels aren't real. I don't want a girlfriend while (((women's rights))) still exist.

>>81467455
>only to end up a NEET with student debt

Yes, that is why we must cancel all student debt.

>>81467348 (OP)
hoeflation detected. I'm not gonna participate in the system. Fuck off.

>>81467348 (OP)
Not a NEET but I don't want to be productive, I want to die.
I have enough money to coast but I work because it occupies my mind and time.

>>81467348 (OP)
I already have a full time job.
Women would still hate my guts even if i started exercizing and learning whatever useless language

>>81467348 (OP)
I do I am and I have a sea cutie I talk to every day. Question is what the fuck are you doing? More than likely you're rotting away because you make these dumb ass posts so often.

>>81467348 (OP)
Cause finding a purpose or something that motivates you to want to live life is one of the hardest things to figure out. You don't just wake up and decide to have the motivation to live. You have to have a reason to do things.
Not like most normalfags going to college have that figured out, they are just, well... normalfags, it's in the name. They are normal, well adjusted so they acclimate to society better, and are naturally more motivated to socialize, work, etc.

>>81467348 (OP)
>why don't neets do anything?
because they're broke and feel disconnected from everyone else and their value systems, you just said so. they don't care about getting girlfriends and integrating at a certain point.
its ignorant to assume neets aren't furthuring themselves because they aren't doing the "basics". the "basics" for neets are totally different from what you've outlined. they need to learn how to live from the ground up. how to socialize, eat well, manage time, emotional regulation, independance etc.. TLDR they're more far gone than you think.

incels who want a gf with 0 effort can continue yelling at clouds.

>inb4 "not all NEETs are autistic freaks"
obviously

>>81467348 (OP)
OP, I am NEET and I largely agree with you.
I used to spend all my time here and now I never post not even look on this board. [I came here to post about my miraculous recovery thanks to plant medicine/spirits but no one cares and it makes sense I probably ignored people telling me they cured their "mental illness" via tripping- Salvia Divinorum healed me btw]

I work on my hobbies instead of argue with incels and other misguided people who post here.
As an older NEET (30's) who once took refuge in the r9k identity and culture I can understand the appeal of posting here but it is largely a poor use of time.
I say that knowing I am the product of my time here for truly I do not regret a thing in my life as it led me to who I am and I wouldn't want to be anyone else.

I make natto I make kombucha and I am about to have all my hard work pay off and grow my first magical mushrooms. (So excited desu)

The incels here are literally retarded as blind to their nature.
They think getting a gf or whatever will make them happy they are truly fools but I am also a fool and have my own struggles so I must be compassionate instead of hateful.

>>81468093
>Women would still hate my guts even if
You have a bad attitude.... why do you even want a gf? We only lack what we want.

>>81468174
Take pride in being NEET and not chasing your tail.
Believe it or not most normalfags actually are miserable but in denial and chasing happiness they are like incels in the sense they are also retarded but are successful in being social and whatever normalfag shit they do.

Literally try seek gnosis and overcome this world for it is evil and surely this life is a test.

>>81467509
Community colleges are free for local residents. its always amazing how fucking out of touch communists are. Literally every single one of you are spoiled upper class faggots that have never filed taxes.

>>81468346
>You have a bad attitude....
Muh magical bad vibes wont make me less ugly, neither will the gym of wasting whatever free time i have in language lessons. Theres no gym for your face
why do you even want a gf? We only lack what we want.
>why do you even want a gf? We only lack what we want.
Because id like to have a relationship and get married like everyone

>>81467348 (OP)
I am going back school tho and working out

Doesnt change anything with foids because I wasnt born with the handful of features they are attracted to but at least im not bored anymore

I don't like working and don't have the social skills or math ability to do most jobs. I am going to try and be a housewife but no kids. My bf seems like he will let me. I just want to make food watch anime and chill

>>81468365
>Muh magical bad vibes wont make me less ugly
You missed the point entirely and went straight back to believing the only cure to your unhappiness is a hole.

Sad. Not the same anon but have you ever considered trying to be happy for yourself so that you feel good instead of miserable? Do you honestly want to live the rest of your life in this mental state? Actually reflect on this instead of instantly responding or going to another thread. I know that pattern well as I do it myself. its ego driven. Stop typing the snarky response to pwn me, don't click that catalogue button, don't even click that red little eye if you're using 4chan x. Close the computer and contemplate.

>>81468365
>Because id like to have a relationship and get married like everyone
Why though? You're greatest desire is to be a normalfag?

I was NEET for 4 years until I went to a psychiatrist and learned I had untreated ADHD. I got prescribed Adderall and it's insane how much it helps with focusing on boring shit.

I would spend like 16 hours a day gaming and doing nothing else, got prescribed Adderall and it cured me within a month, ended up applying for community college and now I'm taking classes.

Not being able to focus on anything that isn't hyper dopamine stimulation like video games and anime is 100% a sign of ADHD, it's called hyperfocus, so many of these NEETs just need the right meds like Adderall.

>>81468416
If you are a woman they will not give you this shit they will just try to force you on antidepressants. Must be great living on easy mode where being lazy gets you some limitless pills

>>81467348 (OP)
Instead of some long-winded cope, I will give it you straight- I dont want to do anything of those things. Simple as.

>>81468424
Definitely nothing like Limitless, actually that's kind of what I expected when I first took it. I still procrastinate a lot and lose focus but I can pump out like 2-3 hours of focused work now when before it was 0.

>be me
>21 yrs nigganon
>write C/C++
>Jerk Off
>write C/C++
>Jerk Off
>write C/C++
>Jerk Off
>write C/C++
>Jerk Off
>repeat
I play games once in a while ND some Linux racing, max jocking is 3-4 times

>>81468484
>C/C++
pick a good language at least

>>81467348 (OP)
I'm an incel and I have a job, though.

>C/C++
Helps me unnigga myself.
jokes apart,c/c++ is quite good for building emulators and console hacking.
>I am currently working on making a gba emulator

>>81468365
>Because id like to have a relationship and get married like everyone

Wake up to yourself and quit being a slave to your biology. Anyone like you is a total normalfag.

You sound so stupid, I am sorry but being honest. You want a girl who wouldn't like you unless you are attractive as if you have nothing else to offer. My last housemate was a deformed schizoaffective meth addicted drug dealer and he had no problems with sexual/social success. Yeah, I know woman like bad boys but I would talk to him about how incels exist and he couldn't understand you guys.

Do you think you will be happy once you get a GF? do as the other anon said and reflect on things.
You are making yourself miserable my friend.
Stop wishing to be a normalfag and just learn to be.
Fuck relying on woman or men romantically to feel better holy shit that is an awful idea.

Stop even buying into the identity of being an incel. I bought into the identity of being "mentally ill".. we are not whatever we think we are... the world is full of lies.

>>81467348 (OP)
Are white collar criminals retarded? lmao!

>>81467348 (OP)
>>81468925
Are scammers retarded?

Try not using postmodern thought terminating cliches and tell us about yourself.

>>81467348 (OP)
Half of my effort is spent constantly convincing myself that any of those things would actually matter. I don't even go out, why would I learn a new language? I feel lonely, but the moment I head out into a crowd I just want to be alone again, we just don't understand each other.

>>81467348 (OP)
This is just the shit you tell people to maintain the social order and quell agitation. Step 1 be attractive, step 2 don't be unattractive. Nobody will care and your investments will bear no fruit if you're already unwanted.

I am already retired. I don't even want a girlfriend because that would entail doing relationshit stuff that I have no desire to do.

>Why don't NEETs and Incels just invest their time into something productive?
Because I don't give a shit about being 'productive' by any other fucker's metric.
>Why not invest your time into learning a new language,
We speak English here and I have no intention of leaving my homeland. Not that I could afford it.
>working out,
I'd still be a bald manlet incel.
>going back to school,
For what? Being a wage-slave? And get in debt too? Fuck that.
>or just anything which might be able to improve your life?
I am so fucked in the head with 'tism that nothing could get me wage-cucking in this awful service economy. We are not welcome.
The only things that could improve my life now is getting a UBI, and a post-menopause fuck-buddy that I could creampie every day. Other than that, I am content to rot on my 'bux in my apartment for another 20 years, before the sweet release of death. They'll only increase state pension age anyway.

I am already doing all of those. I have an active social life, too. Where is my gf?

>>81467348 (OP)
I just finished college and got congratulated by normies.

>>81467348 (OP)
I am wage slaving and I don't have time and energy to do anything else. During work week othen I don't even want to play video games, my favorite cope, I am so exhausted I don't enjoy them, often I just scroll 4chan, whatch couple twitch streams matches and go to sleep. On weekends after waking up at 11 AM I have fun with my videogames.

I had period of NEETing in my life, leeching feom parents, but then I didn't have any disposable income and it was misery, you can't do anything without money.

>>81469570
>During work week othen I don't even want to play video games, my favorite cope
I have all the time in the world now and don't even do it nearly as often anymore. I guess we grew out of it in a sense.
Now, if only I could apply that to imageboards and gooning...

>>81467348 (OP)
we are investing our time into something

I really want to work on my projects, draw art and make games. But I literally cannot bring myself to do so. My motivation has collapsed over the years and I'm unable to do the most basic activities

>>81467348 (OP)
You forget that most NEETs are in that position due to mental illness, usually the kind that completely destroy drive, a lot are also just lazy, and it's really this simple.
You can't expect a depressed person to have the motivation to better themselves when they can barely roll over to get out of bed everyday.

>>81467348 (OP)
You need to have hope that life can be worth living to begin doing these things. When you don't see a future for yourself you stop thinking about the future and exist purely in the now. These are all activities that are investments in your future rather than the gratification you so desperately need to get through the next moment.