Thread 81482073 - /r9k/ [Archived: 1144 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:15:28 PM No.81482073
Look at the pain in his eyes
Look at the pain in his eyes
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I miss love bombing her and I miss when she would love bomb me, I miss her good morning text, I miss talking to her all day, things will never be the same again.
Replies: >>81482081 >>81482087 >>81482111 >>81483202 >>81484905
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:16:35 PM No.81482081
>>81482073 (OP)
Those types of feelings fade. You'll get over it.
Replies: >>81482084
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:17:09 PM No.81482084
>>81482081
I know but when? how long does it take?
Replies: >>81482100
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:17:43 PM No.81482087
>>81482073 (OP)
Just contact her again and restart the process unless you really dungoofed
Replies: >>81482122
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:19:06 PM No.81482100
>>81482084
Allow me to calculate by providing some basic information
- How long did you speak for?
- How old are you?
- Virginity status
- Any other factors you may deem necessary
Replies: >>81482122
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:20:29 PM No.81482111
>>81482073 (OP)
Use some keywords so I can filter your fag avatarfag ass
Replies: >>81482122
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:22:49 PM No.81482122
>>81482087
I tried, I got no replies from her.
>>81482100
I'm gonna guess it's either going to take years or until I meet someone else
>>81482111
I love you too anon :3
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:30:45 PM No.81482190
>>81482122
>Not filling out the information
For shame. Good luck, regardless.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:32:43 PM No.81482204
>>81482190
I don't feel comfortable anon, I'm sorry it's nothing personal!
I appreciate you trying to help though
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 6:49:44 PM No.81482290
better-call-saul-breaking-bad
better-call-saul-breaking-bad
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>>81482204
IT EEZ, IT IS PERSONAL
Replies: >>81482385
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 7:02:58 PM No.81482385
>>81482290
no it isn't personal!!! D: I promise
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 7:11:25 PM No.81482440
What exactly is the difference between love bombing and just looking someone a lot?
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 7:14:17 PM No.81482460
>>81482440
we were both constantly telling each other how much we loved each other (to an obsessive degree <3) and I think regular couples don't really do that... I don't know, I'm not sure actually now that I think about it
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 8:09:00 PM No.81482821
still waiting for her....
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:08:59 PM No.81483202
>>81482073 (OP)
>None of my experiences are unique
Replies: >>81483234
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:14:35 PM No.81483234
>>81483202
I also miss cutting myself for her, she really enjoyed that
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:16:04 PM No.81483239
>>81482460
That's just being clingy, love bombing is the weaponization of affection. It's bombarding someone with extreme amounts of love so they expect that to be the norm, and then withdrawing it if they don't do what you want.
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 9:23:18 PM No.81483285
>>81483239
well then I miss being clingy with her, she was also pretty clingy (which I really enjoyed)
>and then withdrawing it if they don't do what you want.
mmm maybe that's why she left
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 10:47:53 PM No.81483931
still waiting patiently (and also losing my mind)
I should play some videogames while I wait
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:03:26 PM No.81484115
>>81483931
>still waiting patiently (and also losing my mind)
what are you waiting for?
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:10:32 PM No.81484209
>>81484115
I'm foolishly waiting for her to come back even though part of me knows she is gone forever
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:21:28 PM No.81484341
>>81484209
if you tried to message her and she didnt message back then maybe your right
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:24:46 PM No.81484372
>>81484341
yeah, it's over... I've sent several texts and she didn't reply to any of them :/
I don't know why she just doesn't block me and gives me some closure
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:33:55 PM No.81484476
>>81484372
you tried at least
Replies: >>81484496
Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:35:51 PM No.81484496
>>81484476
honestly what bothers me the most is the lack of closure
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Anonymous
6/13/2025, 11:45:34 PM No.81484605
>>81484496
You don't need one. Cutting yourself for someone is more than enough to know that the relationship isn't healthy
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:05:56 AM No.81484781
>>81484605
but we both liked it. I'm aware that isn't normal but I really liked it, she also cut herself too, though not as often as me
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:18:11 AM No.81484872
>>81484781
Both you guys are mentally ill and need help. It's a good thing she finally left.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:22:08 AM No.81484905
>>81482073 (OP)
did she say good morning saar to you?
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 12:29:01 AM No.81484969
>>81484872
:((((
>>81484905
hehe, no she didn't say "saar"
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 2:13:45 AM No.81485719
still waiting...
I miss her so much
Replies: >>81486117
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:28:11 AM No.81486117
>>81485719
Go to sIeep
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 3:29:21 AM No.81486124
You stained my pillow with how hard youre riding it
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:31:11 AM No.81486130
>>81486117
it's only 6 pm though :(
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:32:12 AM No.81486137
>>81486124
not maria you dumb schizo
Replies: >>81486160
Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 3:36:38 AM No.81486160
>>81486137
You're the one who projected that and the one who stained my pillow

What's up with that?
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 3:38:06 AM No.81486165
Were you thinking about not being her during your grind? That's for why you're including her in your fantasies of me
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:38:59 AM No.81486171
>>81484372
does her status say shes online? do you know when she has last been online
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:42:25 AM No.81486190
>>81486171
she hasn't been online this entire time
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:43:25 AM No.81486196
>>81486160
>>81486165
I never know what you are talking about man
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 3:49:17 AM No.81486232
>>81486196
And still my pillow has your stank
How curious
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:49:42 AM No.81486237
>>81486190
does she browse this board
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 3:50:51 AM No.81486243
>>81486237
Yeah she does browse this board. I was talking to her yesterday
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 3:57:31 AM No.81486290
>>81486237
yes, part of the reason I'm making these threads
>>81486243
mike SHUT THE HELL UP!!!
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 4:01:43 AM No.81486313
>>81486290
You'd rather I talk to her more?
Fine I'll go do that
Just because you asked me to so fucking much bro
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:03:01 AM No.81486323
>>81486313
yeah go and talk to maria
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:03:09 AM No.81486326
>>81486196
>Friday
>Not online
Bruh
Replies: >>81486364
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:09:14 AM No.81486364
>>81486326
she hasn't been online for 2 months I know I'm being dumb for still waiting for her but I can't help it
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 4:10:29 AM No.81486371
>>81486323
Not interested in talking to Maria
Replies: >>81486479
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:12:59 AM No.81486387
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IMG_0579
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>This whole thread reads like a bunch of 14-15 year olds in a discord
Get the fuck off my lawn
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 4:16:49 AM No.81486410
And when I get a message from her I'll tell her just that
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:26:24 AM No.81486455
>>81486364
she moved on and is most likely getting fuked by another dude
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:32:46 AM No.81486479
>>81486371
then who are you talking about?
Replies: >>81486912
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 4:33:47 AM No.81486486
>>81486387
this is my thread! you fuck off
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 5:37:24 AM No.81486890
miss when are you coming back? probably never
Replies: >>81487075
Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 5:41:38 AM No.81486912
>>81486479
Your girl bro. She bounces good
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 5:51:48 AM No.81486989
>>81486912
very original, no wonder maria left you
Replies: >>81487003
Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 5:53:30 AM No.81487003
>>81486989
Man it must suck when you realize how much larping hurts others
Replies: >>81487007
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 5:54:11 AM No.81487007
>>81487003
ok, i'm not larping though
Replies: >>81487085
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 6:04:48 AM No.81487075
>>81486890
why would she come back?
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Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 6:06:39 AM No.81487085
>>81487007
I'm not larping either
Replies: >>81487217
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 6:21:21 AM No.81487211
>>81487075
because before she left she said there was stuff going on with her family, she didn't actually break up with me so I have a little bit of hope.
though I have less hope with each day that goes by
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 6:22:23 AM No.81487217
>>81487085
I don't understand what's your problem with me
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 6:32:11 AM No.81487291
Aww that sucks
What was her name anon, sorry for getting personal I knew a girl a lot like this. Shed sometimes come onto 4chan and wed cut for each other as well
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 6:34:50 AM No.81487309
>>81487291
can't tell you her name, I promised I wouldn't dox her in anyway.
what happened to that girl though? the one you are talking about?

I don't know why I'm into cutting but man I was really lucky to find a girl that was also into it, she was perfect and she was so cute too
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 6:35:15 AM No.81487312
>>81486912
Post vid when youre done with her so we can trib to anons whore
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 6:37:01 AM No.81487325
>>81487312
you guys are not very nice :(
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 6:59:16 AM No.81487462
>>81487309
She was super sweet, the sweetest actually. Dont wanna say her name but it started with an S. She was the first girl I ever got romantically involved with and we talked from late August to late December of 2023, August to September as friends and September to December being together romantically. She ended up breaking up with me though, but we continued to be kind of friends until April of 2024 when after it all got to be too much and I had to go to a hospital. After she broke up with me, I begged her to stay as just friend and until mid January of last year she would just barely talk to me or basically tell me to fuck off. Even after we started talking every time we talked it seemed like she wasnt really being genuine except for a few times. During our relationship she told me how horrible things were for her. She had barely any friends and her dad berated her constantly. I eventually found out she was cutting herself and I never wanted her to feel that pain alone so I would do it too, though by the time I did it was too late. It was early in the morning on that day she broke up with me that I had done it. I carved her name into my right thigh, just as she had done with my name in her arm a few months prior. I continued to cut and cut to try to impress her, which devolved into me cutting and posting it on twitter for validation and adoration from online circles such as eating disorder twitter and self harm twitter. After I returned from the hospital I spent months not talking to her til December of last year when I ended up making a new account on insta and hitting her up anonymously and only revealing it was me after a few days. She was really excited and we talked for about two days after my reveal and she just stopped talking to me all together after that. She blocked me and I made several accounts pleading with her to just talk to me and found out the hard way she really didnt want anything from me this time. We havent talked since.
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 7:08:04 AM No.81487504
>>81487462
that's really sad anon I'm so sorry.

the girl I'm talking about, we met last valentine's day her name started with a K (so no it's not the same girl don't worry about it) and we were both into cutting one day she showed me a picture of a heart she cut on her right thigh so I did the same on my right thigh, we used to text each other all day.
one day she told me that there was stuff going on in her house and her texts started slowing down and she eventually stopped texting me, the only reason I have some hope that she might come back is because one of the last things she told me was that she still loved me and didn't want me thinking that this was my fault and that she felt really bad about not being able to text me, but it's been 2 months now, I don't know how to feel anymore, was she lying to me? I don't know anymore, probably never will.
Mike !!s1jEdTQxfFE
6/14/2025, 8:09:01 AM No.81487850
>>81487217
Just not interested in your LARP
Replies: >>81487897
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 8:20:38 AM No.81487897
>>81487850
I'm not larping though, I really am waiting for her (K) to come back
Replies: >>81487924
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 8:27:01 AM No.81487924
>>81487897
I hope she found someone better
Anonymous
6/14/2025, 9:32:44 AM No.81488247
this backfired on me. when this relationship happened, i was one of the first people in town to get a mobile phone with unlimited texting. that was how hiptop broke into our market, every other service charged 5 cents a text or some shit, this phone? unlimited. it was silly, id hand out my phone when i got to school and get the phone back at the end of the day and there would be like 800 texts on it. we even figured out you could do recurvsive text messaging.
>message: none
copy and paste the above message into a new message
>message: none
>message: none
copy and paste the above message into a new message
>message: none
>message: on the first day of christmas my true love said to me
>message: none
>message: none
copy the above message into another message
>message: none
>message: none
>message: this text is different, its not spam
>message: none
>message: none
>message: none
>message: none
>message: not spam change message here
copy that message into another message

if your wondering how its possible for someone in the late 2000's could possible get a phone company to personally call them up and ask them if they would like to upgrade to the best, fastest, gnarliest phone plane on earth for the same rate we started with, just ask them one question.
>unlimited texts?
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Anonymous
6/14/2025, 9:36:01 AM No.81488262
>>81488247
oops missed a sentence. because of the recursive text messaging, id average like 20,000 texts and month. shit was insane.