How do you find a Discord server worth belonging in?
>inb4 /soc/ or fuck off normalfag
There's a functionally infinite culture of /r9k/ related Discords, how do you get in?

>>81483773 (OP)
If you find any lmk, I'm also interested in joining a proper discord server

>>81483773 (OP)
you don't
"good" servers aren't advertised and you have to either make them yourself or be invited by a friend

>>81483773 (OP)
find some retard in TF2 or something that you vibe with and then continue to find retards to add to your menagerie

>>81483773 (OP)
Don't ask here you're going to get invites to pedo servers, get groomed, or forced to kill your cats.

i had a friend discord but i had to ghost everyone after repeatedly embarassing myself
to be honest after being in /soc/ "lonely people" and "shut-in" threads, i dont think contacting people just to "make friends" is very conducive to forming actual relationships
i dunno, maybe i just suck at conversing or ive had bad luck with people who dont chat despite posting in such threads

Even if I do find a discord server that I think is good, after a couple of weeks the novelty starts to wear off I realize that I only really enjoy talking to one or two users there.

>>81484844
I agree. I feel like the best friends I've made have just been by chance, not seeking people out. The issue is that there are few places irl where you can organically met people so turning to platforms like discord makes sense but rarely leads to anything significant.

if anyone's interested, i have a little server for my friend group that started here, its only a couple ppl that actively do anything but id love to add more especially if ur weird or ur into video games and music

/9eCRrzy7

>>81485024
>I've made have just been by chance
yea ive met a lot of great people via /3/ (rip) and /agdg/, where theres a common topic
/soc/ and /r9k/, its just people saying "hi" and then awkwardly exchanging some funny images

>>81483773 (OP)
dunno, find people you enjoy being with, or dont mind wasting time with for a week straight, and see if that's a typa group chat youd like to be part of,