Why do men find cheating so enticing?

They cope with the lived experience of failure by fetishizing it

>>81487037 (OP)
Women love it too. It's why large swathes of their coomnovels are dedicated to picking the better man of the multiple that tried to date them.
Twilight is netorare.

>>81487052
>picking the better man of the multiple that tried to date them
isn't this normal when you're not exclusive with a guy yet?

>>81487069
There is a difference between catching a wider net, getting to know multiple people and those people knowing about your other suitors while desperately trying to compete for you.

>>81487037 (OP)
cuck/ntr fetishes is to males what rape/cnc fetishes are to females
pathologies that need to be destroyed

>>81487080
wait so should i tell a guy i'm dating i'm also dating 3 other guys or not

>>81487094
If you want to treat him like a faggot cuck, sure.

>>81487106
i think it's pretty obvs if we havent talked about exclusivity i'm still trying out other guys

>>81487037 (OP)
Imagine, for just a minute, your gf/waifu kissing another guy. Did you get that funny feeling in your stomach? Cuckolding is fetishizing that feeling in a perverse way.

>>81487037 (OP)
I hypothesize cuckold fetishism is most appealing for people who have little hardship in their lives.

>>81487037 (OP)
I thought the majority of NTR consumers were women?

>>81487141
>women read doujins
lol

>>81487129
And I hoped it was obvious there was a difference between
>Not being exclusive so keeping your options open, other party implicitly knows
And
>Not being exclusive but all of your suitors know about the other dudes you entertain, one guy wins in the end and the rest feel inferior
Only reason jacob didnt pursue bella further is because he sensed she was pregnant with edward's child lol.

>>81487037 (OP)
Japanese "men" aren't men.

>>81487141
A lot of them are in Japan. Westfags just can't fathom women being like this.

>>81487161
Well oriental women do.

>>81487037 (OP)
Japanese like things with a bit of plot. On straightforward little sex books, cheating is a cheap and safe way to add a plot.

>>81487171
Westoid women read erotic novels with basically the exact same content.

>>81487177
A lot of ntr artists draw just better than others too lol. Its kind of a meme even.

>>81487184
Exactly, their smut is just not labelled cheatingsexwithstuds, it's le dark romance or something

>>81487037 (OP)
Wouldn't know, don't have anyone to cheat on.
Also, isn't cheating more of a woman thing?

>>81487037 (OP)
I read NTR because they always make the girl super hot and I don't self-insert into the cuck, I self-insert as the one who's do the fucking.

>>81487278
The fat ugly bastard? Based, so do I.

>>81487186
I disagree, but maybe drawing the cliche poses like the smirks on non sexo pages is cheap and easy too

>>81487037 (OP)
I literally can't understand cheating for the life of me if it isn't out of genuine love. Just rub one out you piece of shit, if you truly love you partner why is that so difficult?

>>81487355
What if you love your partner but your partner doesn't love you... And at the same time someone else is into you

>>81487381
what if she does love you, but you just want her to have the most fun she can because life is short and she should enjoy it

>>81487037 (OP)
Because it's validating my insecurity and feelings about the nature of women. It's like ripping off the bandaid, you know her betrayal is coming so you fetishize it and make it happen faster to regain some control. It's emotional masochism and I fucking hate that it gets me more aroused than anything else.

>>81487037 (OP)
I don't even like ntr but that's where the hottest anime milfs and onee-sans are

>>81487381
(For context we are both biologically female and bi) That actually happened before and it was awful. My first and only partner convinced me to accept an open relationship and her "boyfriend" liked me more than her but I only liked my gf because I'm not a WHORE and it all devolved into a huge jealousy fueled clusterfuck. If I had a normal sex drive it could've been hot but.. no.

>>81487037 (OP)
Strange pussy is alluring

>>81487568
based self-understander

It's the logical conclusion for the emotional side of masochism alongside feminization and findom. Coprophagia and bestality porn are also more popular than ever. It's insane how much porn there is of it from the last 5 years. There's probably more copro doujins and dogfucking/horsecock renders and doujins from 2024 than all of history precovid combined. people crave extremes

>>81487037 (OP)
I can't know, guess why

>>81487129
>Even if you manage to date a woman you hav to accept that she's casually fucking 3 chads on the side

>>81487037 (OP)
I hate cheating with passion. Couples should never go outside their spouses , if they want to do le cheating fantasy just make one partner disguise itself into an unknown person.

>>81488111
what if my dick is too small to ever please a woman

>>81488122
Toys exist , just use them as an extension of yourself instead of something separate.