>>81489513 (OP)Female desire is just weird because it seems indirect. They find it hot that you want them and they find it hot that they are powerless to stop you but they don't really like you for you, if that makes sense? Whereas with another guy you really just like each other, you like each other's body and personality and sex is the culmination of this desire you have for each other. Women, ironically, seem to have this agp thing where they get horny about the situation of being overpowered/a male being desperately horny for them. It's reflective, narcissistic. They're not horny/attracted to the male himself but to the very fact that the male, preferably high value, is attracted to them and to the fact that he could destroy them if he wanted. I don't know if that makes sense to you but it's my conclusion after having had sex with both men and women.
I'll also add that men are generally drama-free while women can get the ick for random, nonsensical things. Like idk, you just enjoyed a slice of strawberry shortcake? She gets the ick. Laugh a bit too happily? Ick. Stars aligned the wrong way? Not today honey I have a headache. This doesn't happen with men.