The only time Ive ever felt genuinley cared for in a relationship was when my bf was controlling and dominant

And not in a kinky kind of way in a genuine 'this is what youre wearing today because I approve'

I hate that Im like this, I hate that most men dont share the same view bc feminism and I hate that I have to hide it

So many moids arent dominant these days and its sad to see

Bedroom dominance doesnt equate to irl dominance

Feminism has really harmed a lot of foids, they arent as happy as they like to claim

Are you feeling better now youre accepting this? Do you feel more natural

>>81493871
>Are you feeling better now youre accepting this?
I guess somewhat, its like figuring yourself out as an adult and realising what you like and dont like.

I know I like men who are somewhat controlling but when that control is from a place of love not abuse

>>81493824 (OP)
>>81493844
I was watching hoe math videos yesterday and yeah pretty much. But feminism is dying, so your troubles are almost over

>>81493824 (OP)
>And not in a kinky kind of way in a genuine 'this is what youre wearing today because I approve'
Ah yeah that's wholesome not sexual and not kinky, bet you hate it too.
Keep talking hun, we're here for you, a (biofem) listening a ear.

>>81493887
feminism has been dying for a while when foids 30 and younger realised they didnt like what the 40 year old foids set up for them

a lot of them are accepting their place and feel happier doing so

>>81493886
>control is from a place of love not abuse
This is what so many foids fail to recognise

there are controlling abusive assholes yeah, but most men arent controlling from abuse, theyre controlling out of love

hope you find your man like this OP

Control isnt and has never been abusive

Abusefags just used it as a means to get what they want

It was always a place of love

bitch stfu dont let men control you, live your own life on your own accord

>>81493886
The problem is women always think control = abuse when that control is used to get them to do something they don't want to do, or not do something they want to do. Doesn't matter if it's coming purely out of love and trying to prevent something that would objectively be harmful to her or the relationship. Women just refuse to understand that sometimes they need to stfu, do what their man says and accept it.

I continue to say this
Women are like sentient pets that need to be taken care and kept out of harms way
Even my mom a women way wiser than me lets me take the reigns and take care of the house because she trust me enough to do so and she on some level understands this dynamic.

>>81494006
>The problem is women always think control = abuse
I used to think this a lot until my last relationship where he was controlling but it was evident that control was because I wasnt being the best version of myself I could

And now I look back and realise thats when I gelt genuinley loved and cared for

>>81494033
yup, and just like a pet if you cant take care dont adopt one, women will always be happier when theyre treated as pets

>>81493824 (OP)
>The only time Ive ever felt genuinley cared for in a relationship was when my bf was controlling and dominant
SNAP OUT OF IT BEFORE YOU END UP AN ABUSE VICTIM

>>81494071
>women will always be happier when theyre treated as pets
And what stats back this up you weird freak?

>>81493824 (OP)
I just don't want to play a controlling role for the same person over and over again.

Forget feminism, The monotony of the act turns it from play into work.

Maybe one day you foids can have a sex toy that gives you that kind of treatment and we can all be friends because you're no longer trying to manipulate your way into being dominated.

>>81494059
I'd love to have a relationship like that, but every time I have tried being controlling in a loving and constructive way it just blows up in my face with endless fighting and drama and abuse accusations. So fuck it, run wild and do whatever you want because that's less stress and bullshit for me to deal with. I'd only ever try it again if the girl explicitly told me she wanted to be controlled and trusted me enough to not flip out when I inevitably tell her to do something she doesn't want to do.

>>81494149
I do get that, and I think these kinds of relationships take a lot of communication very early on

For me, I would want these open and honest conversations in advance to make sure were on the same page

But if its any condolence, I would love that kind of relationship too, I just havent found anyone controlling like that

>>81493824 (OP)
Who actually wants to do that shit, it sounds exhausting. I don't want to be her substitute father. My gf should just agree with me because I'm perfect and always right

>>81494167
>But if its any condolence, I would love that kind of relationship too, I just havent found anyone controlling like that
NTA but I like that there are still some women out there with this view, gives me hope

>>81494167
>I do get that, and I think these kinds of relationships take a lot of communication very early on
and thats what a lot of people miss, if they just spoke like adults so many problems could be avoided

>>81493824 (OP)
>I hate that Im like this
then cry louder little whiny bitch

>>81494033
>Women are like sentient pets
define pet?? do you mean something to collar and keep at home or something that is almost equal

>>81494273
Why the fuck would i put someone on a collar?
they just need to be taken care of and kept out of trouble basically and provided for and protected.
Kinda like....goats if you've ever taken care of these you would know the comparison i'm trying to make, they always get themselves hurt, killed or sick but they will never tell you(they're fucking goats).
They also like to escape and get picked up by predators.
You have to make their environment comfortable and good for their habits and figure out what they are feeling so you can take care of them correctly.
Basically other than that women are in fact people i'm not denying that but there's obviously another layer for them especially as a man.

>>81494338
This is a really good baseline for a perfect relationship, similar to my post

If it makes you feel any better anon you just described my perfect relationship

>>81493824 (OP)
First of all you aren't a woman, you're a tranny.
Secondly I'm a man, and if you want to be such an obedient good little girl, my opinion is that spineless women are pathetic and annoying.
If your "boyfriend" has time to think about what you should wear and play dress up, he needs a fucking hobby or a job or some shit. Grow up.

>>81493824 (OP)
DIE NORMALFOID
DIE DIE DIE DIE DIEEEEEE!!!!!

>>81493824 (OP)
I hate you, I hate women like you.

>>81494361
I mean this is how i was taught to deal with women. My mom, my sister even my female coworkers.
just making sure they don't fuck themselves up and can just live y'know?
I'm not even a super masculine dude like my dad was but i definitely understand women and what he was trying to teach me growing up.
I don't know why women are so adverse to this nowadays it's kinda weird even though they still want attention, validation and to skirt accountability which is understandable but put yourself in the position to receive these things?