>>81496142 (OP)I get laid anywhere between once a month and once every five months. It's with the same girl. We're both mentally and emotionally unstable, in our 30s, living off the generosity of our parents, and in a general downward trend in our respective lives. The sex is good, although neither of us cum, and initiating is like pulling teeth and involves listening to her gripe about life for ~3 hours.
I'd like to make things more regular, but my efforts only push her away because of whatever avoidant shit she has going on.