Yesterday she invited me to hang out, we did that, then we went back to the place she's renting, had wine, watched a movie and cuddled. When I tried to touch her more intimately she took my hand away and wouldn't reciprocate when I kissed her, but she'd also occasionally kiss my hands.

At like 4am she said she's going to bed and I can't remember if she asked me to come up with her but I did anyway. Then we just cuddled, chatted, and chatted even more in the morning.

The last time this happened, she specifically said she was on her period but I still went up to bed with her.

The time before that again, she asked me to go to the bedroom and we had sex, although we were drunk so it didn't last long. She later texted me saying we should "netflix and chill" and made other flirty comments.
She also called me hot and gave me other such compliments.

I feel like i'm being super autistic and not taking the hint that it's late and I should leave and she doesn't know how to tell me to fuck off so she just lets me go to bed with her lol, but then she's also very touchy, kisses my arms, rests her head on my chest, seems happy to talk with me etc.

I'm super fucking confused on what I should do. Should I just continue doing the thing where we watch a movie until everyone else goes to sleep and it's just us?
Or should I take the hint that I should leave when everyone else is going to bed?

Or is she a strong independent woman who has the ability to tell me to fuck off if she really wanted to?
Why is this all so confusing?? Do normies instinctively know what to do in these situations???

>>81502170 (OP)
Also she's the one who really started this, when we were out she'd grab and hold my hand or put her arm around mine.

Given you've had sex once she's likely okay with what happened. even chad gets the whiskey dick after drinking and gets tired.

>>>/adv/ now

>>81502183
yeah, she just said i'm awkward but not in a mean way. Then later sent me texts saying we should "netflix and chill (wink)" but for some reason when we were actually netflixing the chill never happened.

Yesterday it was getting late and we were just keep watching new episodes of stuff. I felt like I should go but her legs were on my lap and she'd kiss my arms sometimes and stuff like that but then when I tried moving my hand to her crotch she'd move it away.
Then past 4am she said it's time to go to bed.
I just went up with her because I didn't know what to do lol and thought in the moment that saying i'm going home would be more awkward.

We stayed in bed for ages then and had lots of laughs and cuddles.
This is honestly so fucking confusing to me. I don't know what to do.

>>81502189
I posted there too. I really am lost. I don't get women at all.

>>81502202
the fact that you stayed with her knowing you weren't going to get pussy because of her period might have actually worked in your favor. Lots of chads would have ducked out or at least asked for a BJ. Still you never know with females, watch for signs of the ick.

>>81502219
>the fact that you stayed with her knowing you weren't going to get pussy because of her period might have actually worked in your favor. Lots of chads would have ducked out or at least asked for a BJ. Still you never know with females, watch for signs of the ick.
She told me that right before we went to bed. I just told her that I like hanging out with her and i'm not expecting anything. Which is true. But idk if she feels that way.

>>81502224
I think that would earn you brownie points with most girls. Shows you aren't just hanging out with her for the sex.

>>81502235
I hope you're right. I just feel like a woman doesn't care enough to hang out with a guy she's not fucking.