The difference between how me and my ex handelling breakup sadness is wild. We were both fucking depressed when it happened, and I still have to face the world everyday missing her, I fucking hate my life

Her being female, means she automatically gets male attention, whether she means to or not. So even if shes sad at least she can get compliments to make her feel better.

Why are women just naturally good at this, it feels unfair. I dont want her to get compliments, I want her to be alone and miss me just like I miss her

>>81502186 (OP)
>Why are women just naturally good at this
She will automatically be higher value than you just for being a woman, nothing else will account for other than this.

If you truley want her back and believe she misses you too you need to both have a talk and address your relationship issues and agree to work on them, take it slow

>women will always get more attention than men, just how it is
it sucks but you got to suck it up and move on, block her socails if you haavent already

If youre not over someone, dont try to engage with their life, stop thinking about them and move on