Thread 81503988 - /r9k/ [Archived: 1145 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:49:44 PM No.81503988
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Had an argument with my bf last night, it wasnt even anything fucking big, when we calmed down we apologised to eachother

This fucker genuinley looked me in the eyes and apologised and said it was his fault for not being 'stricter and more authoritative' from the start and putting false standards in my head

I have never heard anything more tapped.

Do I leave now or is this just his weird way of showing love
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:50:22 PM No.81503998
>>81503988 (OP)
Fuck chad. Have sex with Chad.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:51:15 PM No.81504010
>>81503988 (OP)
If he was Chad you would have completely emptied your bladder all over the floor at that line.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:51:40 PM No.81504017
Does this bitch genuinley think hes wrong for not being controlling hahahha

OP just leave, hes gonna try and control you
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:52:44 PM No.81504031
he probably just wants you safe, i wouldnt complain about that
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:53:30 PM No.81504037
>>81503988 (OP)
Knowing you would date someone like that is repulsive. Massive ick. How fucking desperate are you? How low are your standards?
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:54:27 PM No.81504047
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>>81503988 (OP)
>apologised and said it was his fault for not being 'stricter and more authoritative' from the start
sign of a good bf
dont break up with him unless youre a retard
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:54:36 PM No.81504049
>>81503988 (OP)
He's subtly telling you he's a cu-ck who wants to watch negros bang you while he dresses in your close. It's pretty much over.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:55:29 PM No.81504055
>>81504037
Hes never been like this before, up until now we had a generally normal relationship, no idea where the fuck it came from
>>81504047
Care to explain how its a good sign?
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:56:22 PM No.81504063
>>81503988 (OP)
He's right, he let you walk all over him and now he has to put you in your place, if you can't deal with his boundaries then leave.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:56:42 PM No.81504066
So is he implying hes going to be more strict and controlling?

If so break up now
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:57:02 PM No.81504072
>>81504055
>no idea where the fuck it came from
People don't change, you missed the signs before because you were in the honeymoon phase of the relationship.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:57:10 PM No.81504076
>>81504037
>>81504066
I recognize these reddit posts.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:57:48 PM No.81504083
>>81504063
>put you in your place
When people say this I genuinley want to know what you mean by 'place', please explain
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 10:58:36 PM No.81504088
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So youre telling me the foid doesnt want a dommy controlling bf who sets rules?
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:00:35 PM No.81504104
>>81504055
>no idea where the fuck it came from
Personality is one of the most stable things in the world. He either hid it and is slipping, or more likely you overlooked something.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:01:06 PM No.81504109
>>81504083
Nta, but generally a womans place is to be soft and submissive, not to run around wild

A man letting you walk all over him is a sign of you disrespecting him and him not being man enough to fix it

So hes now trying to fix it

Consider yourself lucky hes nice enough to try
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:01:23 PM No.81504112
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>>81504083
> let me google that for you
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:02:55 PM No.81504126
break up with him OP, its not worth being with a controlling, insecure man
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:04:55 PM No.81504150
>>81504063
OP clearly likes the control, shes probably just a bit shocked
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:05:53 PM No.81504160
what was the argument about? we need context.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:06:00 PM No.81504162
>>81504083
>easiest thing ever to understand
>uhh what does this mean??
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:07:01 PM No.81504173
>>81504160
She wants an open relationship. Her not leading with this confirms it.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:08:31 PM No.81504189
>>81504160
Work, I work from home mostly, but when I go into the office we usually go out after, this month since its a coworkers birthday were going in on a friday and going to a bar until late after work.

Its the day we said in advance we would stay in and watch a movie, I told him immedietley that we would have to do the saturday instead and it just kicked off from there.

Granted Im a lot more social than him but yeah
>>81504109
I wouldnt exactly call it me walking all over him, it was just a conflict in schedule
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:10:31 PM No.81504219
>>81504189
I do see where youre coming from, but honestly I think you should give in at this point, let him establish his rules and just know for next time to ask him in advance if you wanna go out

A coworkers bday will happen again
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:11:59 PM No.81504233
>>81504219
>ask him in advance if you wanna go out
ASK HAHAHA
you really are a retard if you think OP shoould ASK to go out
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 11:22:15 PM No.81504344
If someone spoke to me like that I would break up with them, sorry but its for thhe best
Anonymous
6/16/2025, 1:42:30 AM No.81505482
>>81503988 (OP)
try not to scream too loud when it happens, or else he will enjoy it too much