Thought leaders run around in circles wondering why men aren't marrying, but completely ignore the fact that the cultural customs surrounding marriage are un-masculine.
>bent-knee proposals
>engagement ring for her, no engagement car for him
>"HER day"
>Instagram "I said YES" pics that show the ring but not the male fiancee
>Woman wears white while man wears funeral black
>obnoxious excessive photo taking
The aesthetics here are just really girly and not anything a self-respecting Man would ever get involved in without at least a little hesitation.
Maybe if TV shows and other culturally influential institutions promoted a manlier vision of marriage, men would want to get married? Maybe?

>>81506069 (OP)
It's because young men aren't getting into relationships as much to begin with, not that they're refusing to marry women they're with.

>>81506069 (OP)
It's because I got blanked until I was 25, then got abused by a BPDemon that gave me trust issues, then only met ran through women I can't admire.

>>81506069 (OP)
The primary issue is no-fault divorce. What is the point of marriage when you can just end it on a whim at any time?

>>81506069 (OP)
I'm not getting married

I think you should stop being a retard and get a girlfriend before you worry about how marriage is feminine

>>81506069 (OP)
Reason is no fault divorce plus alimony combo.
State literally pays women (with husband's money) to divorce rape men.
Men finally caught up with that scam.